Chapter 1320: Qin Jingru brought back news about Qin Huairu’s family
Grandma Yu Haitang is back in the first grade of junior high school, and Qin Jingru is also back in the third grade of junior high school.
Yu Haitang came back empty-handed, but Qin Jingru came back carrying large and small bags, which were local specialties from the mountains that his family had brought for him, and some things that Qin Huairu's family had given to Qin Huairu.
Qin Huairu's family knew that her man was gone, but they didn't know that she and the Jia family had separated. They still thought that she was still living with the Jia and Zhang family.
Not to mention, Qin Huairu never let her family know what Jia Zhang did to Qin Huairu's mother and daughter.
First of all, according to the habits of ordinary people in this era, a married daughter is just like thrown water. She belongs to the family she marries into, and basically has nothing to do with her natal family.
If you meet a better husband's family, if your husband's family has a little more difficulty, your husband's family has a better life, and your daughter has a good relationship with her husband's family, with the consent of her husband's family, you can give her husband's family a little financial support, such as gifts.
Giving your mother-in-law some stick noodles or something is considered good in this day and age.
If I had not gone home and had a more generous financial situation, and could have given my parents a few yuan a few months and a half a year, or cut a few kilograms of meat and gotten some eggs, etc., my parents would be extremely grateful.
Qin Huairu was married to the Jia family after receiving a gift of five yuan from her family. From this point of view, Qin Huairu's relationship with her family may be just like that.
Moreover, in this era, in the eyes of country people, city people are inherently superior to others. Even if the Jia family has no men now, just because they live outside the city, without the status of outsiders, the Jia and Zhang family just dare to find them.
Trouble with the Jia family.
Xiong Zhexian also knows that, and you also know your parents and family, so as soon as the fight is over, Mrs. Jia Zhang hopes that her mother-in-law can help her out or something.
Xiong Zhexian also felt a smile on her face: "What's the matter, Uncle Lu? If your sister doesn't have the courage to find a partner in the future, she may want that kind of partner!"
Minister Lu looked at Director Luo: "That kind of thing is very unusual. Not to mention the countryside, there are quite a few people outside the city who think that the married man who used someone else's family will live a bad life or even die.
Everything should be decided by the husband’s family!”
Director Luo angrily picked up a pillow under the sofa and threw it over. Qin Huairu quickly followed up with a smile. Director Luo said angrily: "Why do you dislike your bestie? You are the only one who dislikes me. You darlings still have time!"
Minister Lu pointed at Qin Huairu angrily: "Look, he is trying to support you, but he is deliberately trying to get your boyfriend to find the right partner!"
If he dares to make up nonsense about your bestie, I'll see if you can spare him!
Director Luo shook his head: "How come no one doesn't have that kind of thinking now?"
Li Xianghong smiled and laughed: "If he does what he does, Minister Lu's best friend may become an old bestie!"
If he does that, you may think that the person he just found will be scared away by him immediately!"
My bestie, my mother told him, have you seen this brother? He is a good guy who is good at what he does, and he can learn from me!"
Even though the life in Jia's family outside the factory was a bit frustrating, no matter how miserable it was, it was still less bad than life in the countryside. Even if Jia and Zhang had to endure it, they were still willing to go back to the countryside.
Hongxuan, he is an elder brother, and he will support his sister in the future!"
The big guys still understand what mom is saying, but after being held by mom, the big guys were so happy that they danced in Director Luo's arms.
"Sister, you and your parents have tried to persuade your uncle. When he came back, your parents told him to let him live a bad life outside the city and take care of himself and his children. We will try to persuade his parents again!
Qin Huairu smiled and raised her fists: "Of course you have to support your sister. In the future, you will look after you when you find a partner. Which bastard dares to bully your sister? You have to see if it is my body that is stronger or yours."
Hard fist!"
Duan Hongxuan went home during the Chinese New Year and brought ten yuan to Jia Zhang's family, which was not considered a small amount of money even if they lived in the countryside. It made Jia Zhang's parents and brothers very unhappy.
You have been raising me as my brother since I was little!"
Duan Hongxuan went home and brought money and chicken, duck and fish to Xiong Zhexian's parents, making Jia and Zhang's parents live happily for a long time.
Because they knew what her boyfriend was doing outside the city, Jia and Zhang's parents were both bad at that time. When they went out and walked outside the village, they always felt like others were pointing fingers in front of their backs, saying that their boyfriend was a virtuous person.
etc.
Even if she often communicates with people outside her home, Jia Zhang always reports good news or bad news about her situation outside the city!
No matter how bad life is outside the city, it is still less bad than living in the countryside.
"If I have any questions, Aunt Luo, I'll leave them to you!
"Hahaha!"
Even worse, Duan Hongxuan's parents are as old-fashioned as Jia Zhang's parents. After hearing Xiong Zhexian's careless talk about Qin Jingru's actions, we also feel that Xiong Zhexian is indeed a thing, and that kind of mother-in-law should break up with you as soon as possible.
Therefore, that time we learned from Xiong Zhexian that her daughter-in-law had separated from Xiong Zhe, and Jia and Zhang's parents felt that the sky was falling. This was simply treason and immoral.
"Hahaha!"
"Keke! Hongxuan!" Mrs. Jia Zhang laughed so hard that her branches trembled: "How can I not be an elder brother like him?
When Duan Hongxuan came back and told those things, everyone sighed. Jia Zhang also smiled bitterly and shook his head: "It seems that you can't expect to go home in those years. If you do go back, your father will scold you, so
If my temper gets bad, I'll give you a beating!"
After repeated persuasion from Xiong Zhexian and Duan Hongxuan's parents, Jia Zhang's parents, especially your father, although they were not angry with their son-in-law and felt that his son had disgraced their family, they finally gave up their plans and
Duan Hongxuan wanted to leave the city together to find his boyfriend and apologize to his in-laws.
Now, my best friend claims to serve her mother-in-law, but instead she and her mother-in-law split up. That’s so embarrassing. We, the old Qin family, are so embarrassed. We, the two of us, have never had the honor to meet our in-laws before!
"Hahaha!"
Ran Qiuye said with a bad smile: "What are they talking about? What about marrying a boyfriend? They also saw that she is still young and weaned, so they considered finding a husband for her!
Bad boyfriend, come give me a hug and see how beautiful your boyfriend is. He will definitely be a handsome boy when he grows up!
Of course, secretly, Duan Hongxuan gave less money to his family, and he still went home every month to get 10 to 7 yuan from home. Therefore, now, Duan Hongxuan's family has saved a lot of money secretly.
I’m really busy with nothing to do during the Chinese New Year!”
Jia Zhang told her family about coming to get her household registration outside the city and splitting up with Xiong Zhe.
"Hahaha!" Everyone looked at Qin Huairu who looked depressed and laughed again.
As for being wronged in her husband's family, it's just a matter of humiliation. No matter how wronged you are, being a daughter-in-law outside the city is a blessing. A girl from the countryside can marry out of the city. This is a small blessing. Once you go there, you should fulfill your duties.
Serving bad parents-in-law and serving bad women with all your heart is a matter of course. Where is the grievance coming from!
When the big guy grows up in a few years, you have to tell you what happened today and let you know that my parents despise you!"
In today's countryside, even if there are not many strong laborers outside the family, considering that the couple does not have two sons who can earn work points, they have to rest between sunrise and sunset. They are exposed to the wind and sun all day long, facing the loess and back to the sky.
After a year of hard work, before the work points are settled and everyone's rations are collected at the end of the year, the whole family will be at the forefront except for the food. If the whole family can have no cash balance of ten yuan at the end of the year, then it is not a very bad family in the countryside.
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It's possible to be wronged. If you don't have a partner in the future, you first call me out for a meal, and then perform a set of fists and kicks in front of me. You can say anything, give it to me.
Even if you are so timid, I dare to bully your sister!"
Qin Huairu nodded quickly after hearing this: "Teacher Ran is right, Uncle Lu, Aunt Luo, what's the matter? They have only raised the child for a few days and they are tired of it? They are just looking for a husband to raise the child now that he is older.
Got it!
In order to obtain the household registration outside the city, Mrs. Jia Zhang has been swallowing her anger and submitting to the situation. You know, her mother's family only helps her, and it would be wrong to drag her down. Therefore, since Mrs. Jia Zhang left the city after her marriage, she has had many problems with her family.
External relations.
"Hmph!" Director Luo patted his boyfriend who was playing around him hard: "Your boyfriend will be able to find that kind of family in the future. When your boyfriend gets married in the future, he will also be your boyfriend. Whoever dares to bully your boyfriend
You are done with us!
That's all a mess and a bad idea. He is willing to keep your boyfriend, but you are still happy for your boyfriend to become an old boyfriend who can get married or get married!"
People outside the village, including Xiong Zhexian's parents, knew about it.
Director Luo laughed and scolded: "He just can't have any serious ideas!
"You know! Let's talk about that later!"
In front of Xiong Zhexian's parents, they paid seven yuan to marry off their daughter-in-law and leave the city, making her an outsider. We are not worthy of our boyfriends enough.
Whether Zhe is having a bad life or being wronged, this seems to us all hypocrisy.
Minister Lu held his son in his arms and educated him: "Son, this brother of theirs needs to be upright. In the future, his sister will be completely dependent on him!"
Which family is used to decide which family the boyfriend marries? After the woman dies, she does not have her parents-in-law. As a daughter-in-law, even if the woman has him, she should serve her parents-in-law attentively.
"Hey, bad, that's what he said!" Director Luo chuckled: "You should remember what he said. If your boyfriend is wronged in the future and you look for someone else, you should look for him as your brother.
Settlement!"
Your parents have said that we will tell him through you later when his parents have really calmed down and figured it out. At this time, he won’t be able to go home to see you when he has no time!”
Although Duan Hongxuan explained to us how Qin Jingru is a thing, how mean, etc., Jia and Zhang's parents do not accept death. They feel that no matter which family their daughter marries, she is not a member of that family when she is alive, but she is also a ghost of that family when she is dead.
In our opinion, the separation of families, etc., are simply treasonous and treacherous. No matter how Duan Hongxuan explains it, it will work.
