As a result of years of habit, he has awe of Chen Ru.
Ever since she and Chen Li were caught secretly having sex with each other when they were in school, Chen Ru has never seen Deng Shangwei. She always felt that it was Deng Shangwei who delayed Chen Li's good future in going to college - the conscience of heaven and earth. It was very difficult to get into college more than ten years ago.
Difficult, neither he nor Chen Li are the kind of students with very good grades. It’s really hard to say who is holding back the other. In the words of today’s young people, they are just two bad students getting together.
But Chen Ru didn't listen to these words.
Chen Ru's thinking is that she can get into a junior college, so shouldn't it be Chen Li's turn to get into a bachelor's degree?
Chen Li didn't pass any exams, she just messed up her friends!
Now that he has two sons, Deng Shangwei has no way of verifying whether he could go to college if he didn't play tricks on his friends. However, he has been disliked by Chen Ru for more than ten years and has become accustomed to it. It is difficult for him to confront Chen Ru head-on again.
This kind of thing has nothing to do with how much money he earns. Chen Ru is an eldest sister and mother to Chen Li. She is the only relative left in Chen Li's natal family... and is also a relative of Deng Shangwei.
What's more, Pan Li's incident happened again last year.
Chen Li believed that he was being plotted, Wen Ying also believed it, Chen Ru believed it or not, Deng Shangwei is not sure now!
"Stubbornness" is synonymous with Chen Ru. Once Chen Ru preconceives a fact, it is really difficult to change it.
But let's ignore this matter. Deng Shangwei really felt sorry for Wen Ying. Thinking of the reasons for the Cold War that he had just heard from Wen Dongrong, Deng Shangwei sighed sincerely: "It's not easy for this kid Xiaoying!"
The mother and daughter quarreled over Wen Ying's trip to Hunan Province.
There was indeed something Wen Ying did not do right in this matter. If she told Chen Ru openly, there would be no more cold war.
——But it is impossible for Wen Ying to not understand such a simple truth. She still chose to tell Wen Dongrong instead of telling Chen Ru.
Deng Shangwei felt that Wen Ying did not dare to tell Chen Ru.
Chen Ru would not agree to Wen Ying going because she would be rejected if she said so!
Or the mother and daughter would have a big quarrel before departure, and Wen Ying reluctantly went to Hunan Province. In a bad mood, she might not be able to "work" well.
Deng Shangwei made his fortune in small business, and he understands the hardships of small business better than Chen Ru and Wen Dongrong. Wen Ying and a few friends opened a temporary stall in the midnight snack street, and now it can be turned into a franchise store. Wen Ying put in a lot of effort
:
"You can see what she was like before and what she is like now. If you want to say that she is not good to her parents, it must be nonsense. If she is not good to her parents, she will not buy a car as soon as she earns money.
Due to her relationship with her father, even though her brother-in-law drives the car, it was actually bought for the whole family!"
Without buying a car, it would be too inconvenient for Wen Dongrong to come to the provincial capital.
Long-distance couples will affect their relationship. Wen Ying bought Wen Dongrong a car when she earned money. After all, she still hopes for family harmony.
Just for this reason, let alone Wen Dongrong, he was a work unit leader who was fed by the government. Even if he was nothing, he was just a farmer cultivating the land in the countryside, a migrant worker who worked hard to make money. Even Deng Shangwei envied him!
Chen Li also feels that Wen Ying is in particularly good condition now.
The results are not particularly good, but they are passable.
The provincial key experimental class doesn't have to worry about getting into college, so why put too much pressure on Wen Ying?
The meaning of life is not just "getting into a prestigious school".
Famous schools recruit so many people a year, and students who don't go to famous schools can still make a living.
Yes, everyone knows that prestigious schools have a high starting point, and they will have no worries about their future jobs, but whether they can get into the exam or not is really not just something that children can guarantee by working hard.
Chen Li does not have such big requirements for her two sons. As long as they can continue to study, the family must provide conditions. Other people's children need to make up for the lessons. Deng Jie and Deng Hao cannot be left behind. Deng Jie and Deng Hao want to do it in the future.
To study abroad, Chen Li paid for it without saying a word - the premise was that the two children had to live up to their expectations and were the ones to study. The parents could pay for living expenses, enroll in cram schools, and pay for tuition fees, but they could not sit in the seats for their children.
In the classroom, there is no way to take the exam on behalf of the child!
"Xiao Ying's grades are passable, her overall condition is very good, she is cheerful and confident, and her brain is flexible enough. Do you think this girl will not be able to support herself in the future?"
Chen Li counted on her fingers and told Deng Shangwei that she felt Wen Ying had many options.
You can be a writer.
Can do business.
Generally, a nine-to-five job is stable for ordinary people, but Chen Li feels that it may not be suitable for Wen Ying. Some children are suitable for stability, while others like to toss, and the current Wen Ying obviously belongs to the latter.
Smelling cherry blossoms can make you more radiant.
Chen Li saw that Wen Ying had always turned on the filter, so she looked good and could not find any shortcomings at all.
Chen Li was not innocent. She felt that Wen Ying discovered that Deng Shangwei was "cheating" and did not reveal it immediately. Instead, she quietly hired a private detective to follow up and investigate. Ordinary little girls did not have such action.
Wen Ying has such mobility and patience, she must have planned and arranged her time well.
Wen Ying has no idea when to study and when to do "chores" that have nothing to do with study.
The couple stared at each other.
It's useless for them to think so, it's up to Chen Ru to think so.
Chen Ru hopes that Wen Ying will spend less energy on "miscellaneous" things, and hopes that Wen Ying will focus on studying!
Mother and daughter have different ideas, so conflicts will naturally arise!
"Honey, arrange some bowls of wine for me."
Deng Shangwei was heartbroken and decided to bear this burden himself.
Chen Li was confused, "What are you doing drinking?"
"Before Wu Song killed the tiger, he drank eighteen bowls of wine in Jingyanggang... Hey, forget it if you don't give me a drink, why are you pinching me?"
Deng Shangwei's arm was twisted by Chen Li.
Is now the time to joke?
Not at all!
However, if Deng Shangwei wants to be a mediator, he can't act recklessly. He has to go to his aunt Chen Ru to "persuade peace" with her. With Chen Ru's temper, she won't give in even if she is beaten to death.
Or start with Wen Ying.
Or just find a suitable opportunity.
Deng Shangwei muttered, "Xiaoying is such a smart girl. If you really want to coax her mother, how can you not coax her?"
The relationship between father and daughter was so tense before, but now they can buy a car. Deng Shangwei feels that Wen Dongrong is actually being tough now, and is essentially being conquered by Wen Ying.
Wen Dongrong is also stubborn, but Wen Dongrong is good at face, and Wen Ying can make Wen Dongrong's face shine. This is a sure sign of Wen Dongrong's pulse.
Wen's family of three, Wen Dongrong used to be the head of the family who was really responsible!
If you can conquer Wen Dongrong, you can conquer Chen Ru. However, the relationship is so tense, which shows that Wen Ying doesn't want to be coaxed.
——This is strange.
What did Wen Ying think?
Deng Shangwei wanted to talk to Wen Ying, but Wen Ying rejected him as soon as he opened his mouth:
"Uncle, you are right. Of course I can coax you, but I don't want to coax you."
