The involution suddenly came to Deng Shangwei, who was at a loss.
It is already difficult to become the boss of a fish seller. Once you become a boss, you have to improve yourself. Deng Shangwei is trying hard to adapt.
Deng Shangwei himself had not accomplished much in his studies, and he had to tutor his children in their homework... Deng Shangwei was so tired that he wanted to lie down, but was taught a lesson by Qin Xianming: "You think you have to pay tuition for your children, and spend money to send your children to various cram schools?
Can you become self-taught?"
Ah, what else?
Deng Shangwei feels that he has done a lot.
When many small business owners were having fun every night, Deng Shangwei knew about the concept of "school district housing" and knew that the living environment has a great impact on the growth of children, so he bought a house in a high-end community.
When Deng Jie and Deng Hao asked Deng Shangwei to get money to buy toys, they succeeded at most eight times out of ten. But when the two brothers asked Deng Shangwei to buy a book, no matter what type of book it was, Deng Shangwei didn't even stutter when he asked for money!
Qin Xianming took his son and daughter as an example. Qin Yi went to Shanghai to take the exam, while Qin Jiao was in the capital. Their universities were both well-known in the country. Such two children could not only be raised with money.
When Qin Yi and Qin Jiao were young, Qin Xianming's wife focused on studying all the time. It wasn't until she graduated from junior high school that Mrs. Qin let go.
The habit of studying has been developed. Mrs. Qin only needs to focus on the big ones and let go of the small ones, and no longer has to worry about everything. It was at this stage that Deng Shangwei met Qin Xianming and secretly imitated Qin Xianming's method of raising children - Deng Shangwei only saw the second half.
Duan, I didn’t learn the first half!
Without years of perseverance and worry, there would not be the "easiness" of the Qin brothers and sisters getting into prestigious schools one after another.
"Easiness" is for outsiders to see. What outsiders can't see is the level of effort that goes into being a parent.
There are certainly children in this world who have transcendent IQs like Xie Qian, who can get first place by learning casually, and who seem to not need their parents to worry about them at all.
But how many people like Xie Qian are born with superior IQ?
Most of them are ordinary children with average IQs!
The first half of an ordinary child's life is about competing with his parents.
Fighting for parents and fighting for mothers does not mean comparing assets and positions, but the energy parents spend in raising their children. This is like farmers farming. The carefully cultivated fields may reduce production due to natural disasters and man-made disasters. Such unlucky harvest failure is a small probability event.
Fields that are not cultivated carefully are likely to be low-yield!
Qin Xianming said bluntly: "Even for Xie Qian, I guess he must have been strictly required by his family when he was a child. The imprint of his childhood affects a person for life. Xie Qian's comprehensive quality is very high. You can tell that his family background is not simple, right?"
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Talents with high IQs will be wasted if they are not cultivated, let alone ordinary children with lower IQs.
Oh, it turns out that smart children also need such efforts from their parents to cultivate. Deng Shangwei, who was taught another lesson, was ashamed: "Brother Qin, I only learned a few things before and took it as the truth. I am really fake smart!"
Qin Xianming felt that Deng Shangwei was already very smart. The real "fake smartness" was being stubborn and refusing to admit that he was wrong.
After Deng Shangwei talked with Qin Xianming, he decided to take on the responsibility of tutoring his son's homework.
Can’t do the questions and have forgotten the knowledge in the textbook?
What are you afraid of? You'll have to learn from scratch!
I have never lost money in business, and if you don’t believe it, you can solve elementary school students’ math word problems!
Deng Shangwei didn't want to be so stupid. The main reason was that Chen Li tutored his two sons separately. Deng Shangwei was worried that when the two sons were compared together at the end of the term, the eldest son Deng Jie, who he was responsible for tutoring, was too different, and his wife Chen Li couldn't spare it.
He... Another person whose family status is in jeopardy is Wen Dongrong.
The two families lived in the same community, and the brother-in-law and brother-in-law were close to each other. Lao Wen was able to control all Deng Shangwei's movements.
Deng Shangwei's behavior hurt Lao Wen.
Lao Wen doesn’t need to tutor Wen Ying with her homework now, but Lao Wen still has her own exams!
In the blink of an eye, the exam that failed last year is about to be taken again. In the first year, I was full of confidence, but in the second year, I became anxious.
If you fail the exam again this year, you will really have no status at home!
The two brothers-in-law studied together and sighed together.
When he was depressed, Wen Dongrong could only find a sense of existence in Lao Li. In Lao Li's eyes, Wen Dongrong is now a sure winner in life, and Lao Li has been in a state of lying down and letting others laugh.
But Lao Li's surrender did not make Wen Dongrong feel very happy.
Competitors have to be evenly matched to be interesting. The gap between the two sides is too big. Lao Li was beaten by him in all directions. It was still fresh once or twice, but it became boring after too many times!
Wen Dongrong tried to find new excitement in life.
He didn't expect this excitement to come so quickly!
On Saturday, Chen Ru invited Song Shao to dinner. The three Wen family members arrived at the reserved restaurant in advance, while Song Shao and Song Foxiang arrived later.
Song Foxiang still has long shawl hair, wears white clothes, and has a middle-aged and youthful temperament.
Song Shao wore a beige sweatshirt. He was a handsome young man and looked good.
Being led to the dinner by his nephew, Song Foxiang looked quite honest.
There is no other way to be dishonest. Song Foxiang wanted to take this opportunity to ask Wen Ying for advice on how to grasp the best-selling book market. In order for his daughter Song Chan to study abroad without any worries, the great poet decided to sacrifice himself for five buckets of rice - just ask for help.
You have to have an attitude of asking for help. Song Foxiang is just casual and not an idiot.
Chen Ru had met Song Foxiang as early as when Wen Ying went to Shanghai to participate in the semi-finals of the New Concept Essay Contest.
Song Foxiang was deeply impressed by Chen Ru.
——This is a lady who is a little choked when she speaks, so please keep a little distance.
Song Foxiang's first impression of Wen Dongrong was actually pretty good. Wen Dongrong was a good person, but as soon as Wen opened his mouth to speak, the tone of a government official came to him, which made Song Foxiang suffocate.
Song Foxiang really couldn't understand. One of Wen Ying's parents worked in a bank and the other worked in a government agency. At first glance, they didn't have any literary qualities. How did Wen Ying develop Wen Ying's writing talent?
Wen Ying and Song Shao chatted a lot, and Chen Ru also joined their chat. Chen Ru really liked Song Shao and felt that Song Shao was very calm and neither arrogant nor impetuous. He was a young man that people were willing to trust.
While Wen Ying was talking to Song Shao, she was also paying attention to Song Foxiang.
The great poet of the Song Dynasty was really at peace tonight. Wen Ying turned around with satisfaction.
Two middle-aged men, Wen Dongrong and Song Foxiang, had nothing to say. Wen Dongrong wanted to play the role of a loving father and asked about the serialization of Wen Ying's new book.
""Xun Yong" is very popular among readers. If nothing unexpected happens, this will be another explosive bestseller."
"Xunyong" has been serialized in "Xinghuo" for several issues. Wen Ying laid out the background of the Jiuding series, and the story is at its climax. The subject matter of this novel is far different from "Young Idol" and "Galaxy and You".
But it has overcome initial doubts and ushered in a period of explosive word-of-mouth among readers.
The popularity of one book may be due to luck, but if three books are popular, it is definitely a sign of strength.
This is why Song Foxiang is willing to lower his head and ask Wen Ying for advice.
When the topic came to this point, Song Foxiang also wanted to take the opportunity to clarify his doubts, "I have always been curious about how you cultivated Wen Ying, I mean in terms of creation."
Song Foxiang was very low-key today. He talked about Wen Dongrong in conversation. Old Wen couldn't help but feel a little arrogant, "I didn't cultivate it too deliberately. I think it's more genetic. I also loved to write something when I was young. It's true."
Literary lover!”
Genetics?!
Song Foxiang sat up straight.
Speaking of inheritance, it should be that I passed on more creative talents to my daughter Song Chan!
The old man from the government unit in front of him actually had the nerve to claim to be a literature lover. Song Foxiang seemed to be greatly insulted: "Oh, Brother Wen also loves literature, so we really met each other late. Speaking of inheritance,
Come on, I'm still a little confused. I've always hoped that my daughter could inherit my writing ability. I don't want her to be an average writer, good at reading, and just admitted to Yale University this year... Hey, I'd rather her grades were average. We
Father and daughter no longer need to separate two countries!"
The word "Yale" not only hit Wen Dongrong's lungs instantly, but Chen Ru also turned her attention to Song Foxiang.
Chen Ru's eyes were piercing, "Editor Song, are you saying that your daughter Song Chan applied to Yale? Can I ask what exactly she did?"
It's over.
Wen Ying wailed in her heart.
Song Shao also had a headache.
Before Song Shao could secretly pull Song Foxiang's clothes, Song Foxiang shook his hair and said, "I didn't do anything. I just applied casually and was admitted to Yale unexpectedly!"
Chen Ru felt that these words sounded familiar.
Wen Dongrong looked solemn.
——This Song Foxiang went his own way and pretended to be as cool as he wanted to. What should he do?!
