My daughter is not interested in obstetrics and gynecology.
This sentence made Sun Rongfang suddenly remember a few years ago. At that time, her daughter told her cousin's house what department she wanted to be a surgeon. It seemed that it was not obstetrics and gynecology, which made Zhou Ruomei furious.
"Her learning ability is very good. It is not a technical problem or ability problem." Cao Zhao followed closely and explained the meaning of his words to Xie's mother. "It is more important for medical students to choose which department their personality is suitable for when choosing a career department." Department work. Each department deals with different specialist diseases and faces different groups of patients. For example, in the obstetrics and gynecology department, Yingying should have experienced some of the special requirements for doctors in the department of obstetrics and gynecology. "
What Brother Cao said should refer to the situation that she had heard introduced by her senior sisters before going to the obstetrics and gynecology department. When it comes to obstetricians, they should take care of the patient's psychology like the patient's parents. After going to Beidu Sanhou, she really In clinical practice, I saw with my own eyes that teachers act like parents and comfort mothers who are psychologically fragile.
"What's your mentality?" Sun Rongfang asked.
"The teacher Du she follows is called the obstetrics dad." Sure enough, Cao Zhao said so.
"You mean like the mentality of mom and dad? That's it. She's like a child." Sun Rongfang decisively patted her thigh and admitted that her daughter was not up to par.
Others were shocked by Mama Xie's words.
"The ancients said that people before they start a family are like children." Sun Rongfang said that her daughter has never started a family or got married.
"That's not the case." Cao Zhao couldn't help but laugh, and continued to thank his mother, "It doesn't mean that to be an obstetrician and gynecologist, you must be married and have children. There are obstetricians and gynecologists in our country who never marry, and they devote themselves to He will remain committed to the cause of medicine until death and make significant contributions to the academic field."
"By saying this, what do you mean?"
"It means someone who has a mother-father complex."
Even if they are not married, such obstetricians and gynecologists have maternal love and paternal love in their hearts. People who have maternal love and paternal love do not necessarily need to get married and have children. The simplest example is that Dr. Zheng is not married but only has a boyfriend. , but she is fantasizing about having children after getting married. No matter how criticized Shen Xifei is, Dr. Hu can see that her dream is simply to work, get married and have children, and she has long wanted to be a mother. Dr. Peng is certainly young. , I am the mother of a two-year-old child.
In stark contrast, classmate Geng Yongzhe is preoccupied with how to treat his brother's leg. Classmate Xie is focused on his career outside of his heart. In clinical practice, there are more than just two of them, and there are many such medical students who are not suitable for obstetrics and gynecology. The hearts of obstetricians and gynecologists are very tiring, and they must be good parents to female patients. There are many diseases in obstetrics and gynecology. To put it bluntly, a parent's heart is needed to be considerate, tolerant, worried and disciplined.
Du Haiwei is a famous doctor and teacher who has high requirements for his students. Most institutions do not have such requirements. All these need to be expressed clearly.
People who hear this will inevitably have a question. Obstetricians and gynecologists are like parents, but what about pediatricians? Do children who are not pediatricians pursue the feeling that doctors are like parents?
Not necessarily. You can refer to the performance of the two children at the scene. Do they pursue the doctor brother as they pursue their parents?
Sun Rongfang realized: "My son is in the rebellious stage and hates listening to me."
Here comes the complexity of pediatrics. Children are developing, and their body and mind undergo unforeseen individual changes every year as they age. Maybe they were still attached to their parents last year, but suddenly no longer want them next year.