People usually go to the hospital to see a doctor because they feel something is abnormal about their body or their family members. It is normal for doctors to judge that the patient is not sick through examination, but it does not mean that the patient and their family members will feel completely at ease when they return home.
As long as the symptoms are not relieved, patients and their family members will always have a knot in their hearts.
There will be a paradox here. Why is it said that there is no disease, but there are abnormal symptoms? Some abnormal signs are because patients and their family members think that their bodies are different from others and think they are abnormal, but in fact no doctor is well-informed. Doctors
Having seen a variety of patients clinically, I know that such "abnormal" symptoms are not abnormal but are relatively rare signs among the population. Logically speaking, after such a formal medical explanation, patients and their families should be able to understand
Being able to accept "abnormality" is actually normal.
The above thinking is too simple. To accept "abnormality" as normal and to coexist with "abnormality" is a huge test for human psychology. Psychologists say that only time can heal everything, and this is not inconsistent with this at all.
"Mom, if you are worried, my brother, my sister-in-law, and I will take the child to another hospital for examination. Do you want to come to Shouer for examination?"
"It doesn't seem necessary. It's just that, you know, it looks uncomfortable."
What is the abnormality in this child? It turns out to be a birthmark that is often seen on children.
"Mom, listen to the doctor, observe it first and wait until it grows up or has other abnormalities. The birthmark will gradually disappear. You have raised two sons, don't you know?"
"I don't remember you and your brother having such large birthmarks."
"You must have remembered it wrong." Classmate Wei Shangquan said. After crawling and rolling in the clinical internship, he now has a certain understanding of the exaggerated words of the patient's family members. What do you mean by a large birthmark that you have never seen before? Impossible. If this is the case,
When the child went for a check-up, the doctor already told him that something was wrong.
Bang! Mother Wei threw her younger son’s phone: This younger son actually dared to say that she, the mother, remembered it wrong.
Classmate Wei Shangquan looked at the broken cell phone conversation in confusion, and suddenly realized that the most difficult person to communicate with was not strangers but family members.
Families hope that their children will study medicine. The general purpose is to make it easier for their children to take care of their own health after studying medicine. Unexpectedly, after seeing many clinical experiences, the children will become as "cold and heartless" as the doctors in the hospital.
What's normal! What they want is your comfort, what they want is for you to tell me that you attach great importance to the patient's condition. As a result, you always told me that it was normal, and even accused me of misremembering, which was more serious than the doctors in the hospital.
Ignoring my appeal.——Mother Wei was probably so angry that she could not speak.
Classmate Wei scratched the back of his head and walked back. When he walked to the kitchen and stopped, his eyes lit up and he said, "Yingying, do you make flowers?"
Hmm. There happened to be some colorful ribbons on the table. Let me make a small bouquet for Senior Brother Cao. Xie Wanying thought and attached a thank-you card to Senior Brother Cao. Looking back on the many cares I received from Senior Brother over the past year, I felt more and more like what my mother said, remember.
grateful.
Classmate Wei was very happy: the hard work of their classmates today was meaningful.
I was in a hurry to deliver cakes to Senior Brother Cao’s house, but it was already dark outside.
Winter has not passed yet, and the wind and cold outdoors have not abated.
The driver was not there, so Mr. Wei, who had a driver's license, ran to the garage to drive his car to prevent Mr. Xie from freezing.
Xie Wanying was standing on the steps at the door waiting for the bus, with her hands in the pockets of her cotton-padded jacket, looking around casually.