What is the most miserable place for a person to be sick? Not only is the disease threatening his life, but he is also deprived of part or all of his right to happiness, which is reflected in the fact that he is easily disliked by others.
Li Yaxiang turned her head and saw the shadow of the person in front of her, and was stunned. She didn't expect to meet anyone here. Her mood was ups and downs. The first thing that came to mind was Dai Ronghong's face.
Aunt Dai didn't like her. In the past, she could pretend to be crazy about it. At that time, at least she had some confidence in herself. It's different now. She is a cancer patient, so where does she have the right to act arrogant?
With just one glance, her eyes wandered across Dai Nanhui's face, pretending that she didn't see anyone so that he didn't have to say hello to her. Then, she walked towards Xie Wanying with a smile on her face: "Doctor Xie, have you had dinner?
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"Have you eaten? Have you eaten?" Xie Wanying educated the patient, "I think you haven't eaten. Go and eat quickly."
"Yes." Li Yaxi stroked her bangs embarrassedly.
This morning, the patient seemed to want to talk to her, the doctor. Xie Wanying walked side by side with the patient, doing ideological work for the patient together.
"Sister Wu is very nice and encourages me to be positive," Li Yaxi said.
Giving birth to a child is a life-saving thing.
As a doctor, Xie Wanying nagged her patients: "It is a good thing to love learning and living, and your body is your capital. You must put good care of your body first. Otherwise, someone will be sad for you."
Hearing the words that someone would be sad for her, Li Yaxi was immediately moved, with tears flowing in her eyes, and she responded in a low voice.
Having said that, this patient has been discharged from the hospital and is physically fit to return to society. He must learn to return to normal study and life. Xie Wanying could see something from the patient's actions just now, and said euphemistically: "You don't need to discriminate against yourself. Being sick doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you."
Or guilty."
After Dr. Xie saw through her mentality, Li Yaxi cheered up and began to ask for advice seriously: "Doctor Xie, can I ask you some questions?"
"you say."
"Today is my first day walking around the pediatric ward and contacting the children and their families, which gave me a lot of feelings." Li Yaxi said about his experience.
When she was hospitalized before, she was flustered and had a bad mentality. She only focused on herself and did not pay attention to her fellow patients. Therefore, she did not know what kind of mental state she and her family members were in, whether they were common or individual. When choosing a supervisor and topic for graduate school this time,
She decided to study this issue carefully, hoping that no one would make the same mistake she made.
When she actually entered clinical research, she discovered: Hey, maybe some things are different from what she expected.
Only scientific data does not lie.
"The literature I checked in the school database shows that among the several psychological characteristics of patients' family members, anxiety ranks first," Li Yaxi said.
It is certain that family members are anxious. When a family member is sick, not only their lives are at risk, but also the family needs to contribute money and effort, which seriously affects the normal operation of the entire family. The most frightening thing is that it will greatly reduce the expectations that all family members have for the family.
.A disease has a devastating impact on the patient, and the aftermath of the bomb on the patient's family can be either big or small, and some may last a lifetime or even a lifetime.
"According to statistical analysis, the degree of anxiety of patients' family members is related to the family economy, educational level of family members, age and gender." Li Yaxi pointed to the data and said.