Speaking of which, she and Li Xuan are different. Li Xuan is a girl who has been in love, but she is not.
People who have been emotionally hurt or have always been in love are more afraid of love. You will be surprised to find a fact. It is estimated that the latter is more afraid of love than the former.
The former has tried the taste of sweetness and has sweet files in his mind to resolve the crisis. The latter has not, and may only have painful memories of love in his mind.
Why do people who have never been in love only perceive love as pain? It must be due to the influence of the surrounding environment.
For example, the men in the Cao family don't know how to chase girls, they only know how to chase girls, because the family is almost full of such couples.
For Xie Wanying, the concept she has been taught since she was a child is not that there is no love in the world, but that there is definitely love in the world, but this love is something that makes people scold.
Thinking back to the time when her parents went to the countryside to have a vigorous love affair, the wedding photos from those years have long since turned yellow and become stale, and are still wrapped up and treasured by her mother in a drawer. Whenever she thinks of the love back then, Sun Rongfang bursts into tears and sighs.
Youth is so good.
After her marriage, her father's career collapsed, her family fell into hell, and her love was shattered to destruction by the cruelty of reality.
The thinking of women in engineering is to acknowledge the above facts.
Old people often say that couples quarrel at the end of the bed and at the end of the bed. They say that it is too common for married couples to have conflicts, and it seems too much for young people to care too much.
The older generation is willing to let nature take its course and surrender to tradition. Young people who have received higher education have new ideas and are never willing to surrender to such unreasonable things.
If love and marriage are such a bastard thing that will make you uncomfortable for the rest of your life, why should you do it? The reason why Xie Wanying was not married before her rebirth was complicated. For her, being a doctor is a simple and happy thing that gives her a sense of gain.
Love and marriage only have the impression of horror movies. Besides, she doesn't have the conditions at the moment.
Be it love or marriage, men and women have equal requirements. If one party does not meet the ideal state of the other party, it will inevitably lead to endless conflicts.
To say whether the two parties are a good match is not enough.
To obtain a beautiful and stable relationship, the real prerequisite is whether both parties are willing to pay equal amounts for each other.
If you love me, I must also love you very much. You have sacrificed a lot for me, and I also need to consider and sacrifice a lot for you.
It has nothing to do with moral demands and kidnappings, but only concerns whether there is a balance between giving and receiving. Because no ordinary person would be stupid enough to give without asking for anything in return.
Her mother told her to leave the mess in her family alone. It was her mother and her family, how could she completely ignore her mother and grandpa. For this reason, she was first afraid to death that someone around her would be implicated by her.
"I see."
The voice on the other side suddenly brought her memory back to the scene more than four years ago. He appeared in the small courtyard of her cousin's hospital, and the two of them looked at each other for the first time in the same darkness. It was so...
By chance, her senior brother caught her and her mother's life dilemma.
Did the senior brother's words reveal her embarrassment and predicament?
Suddenly, a ray of warmth touched the corner of her lips, causing her heartbeat to accelerate and turn into a rampaging deer. Looking up, the handsome black eyes close at hand contained a smile that even the darkness could not cover.
bright.
Brother, what is this?
I like you, no need to say more.
He stretched out his hand to touch her hair as before: It's okay, I know your worries will wait until you graduate.