Doctor Tong straightened his back and had a premonition that told him: It's bad.
He guessed wrong again.
In clinical practice, especially in the top three hospitals in China, there are a large number of patients, and the doctors spend a short time on each patient. Under the conditions of insufficient communication time, over time, the doctors have become domestic comrades, habitually helping patients with advice.
It’s euphemistically called thinking about the patient.
Not to mention a great person like Dr. Tong. Patients come to him for medical treatment almost always with respect. A doctor is whatever you say. There are one or two exceptions that Dr. Tong can easily ignore.
The concept and habits of doctors should be the same as those of parents. Good intentions may not necessarily lead to good rewards.
Everyone is an individual, every child thinks differently, and every patient’s demands are destined to vary from small to subtle to very different.
Some of the patient's ideas may go beyond the doctor's imagination.
For example, for the aunt who loved to dance in the general surgery department, her most important concern was not to live a long life but to avoid having an ostomy and to preserve the anus.
Teacher Tan, like most doctors who are kind-hearted doctors, never thought of this, but ended up hitting a wall with their patients.
The reason why classmate Xie has a sensitive sense of smell for these patients is because they are both women.
There are gender differences in the demands of male patients and female patients, which stems from the different social requirements for men and women.
For example, society is more picky about women's appearance than men, and is stricter about men's height than women. This social atmosphere has led to gender differences in the medical field. Men have greater demands for height-enhancing surgeries, while women have greater demands for plastic surgery.
The individual constraints placed on patients by society sometimes even become a brand, deeply engraved in the bones of some patients. If you ask her/him to change, he/she is willing to die.
An aunt who loves to dance may have been influenced by the surrounding environment all her life and developed the habit of loving beauty. She can't go outside with an ostomy and be laughed at in private. Rather than endure such humiliation, which is so different from the first half of her life, it is better to die. Anyway
, you can’t live long with cancer.
With this kind of thinking, you really can't say whether the patient is at fault. As classmate Xie said to Teacher Tao before, don't forget that the patient's right to choose his life is not in the hands of the doctor.
Men are more accepting of ostomy than women, and men are more accepting than women of the sequelae that affect appearance after surgery. Therefore, there is a saying: male patients are more rational than female patients.
Can you blame the female patient for her poor brain? Let’s take breast cancer surgery as breast-conserving surgery rather than breast-conserving surgery.
In order to live longer, young female patients choose not to undergo breast-conserving surgery. Regardless of whether they stay with their husbands or boyfriends for a short period of time, it is normal for them to divorce and break up within a few years. Even the top tertiary female breast surgeons in the country have said that they are both
Women generally advise young women to preserve their breasts if they can. The reality is cruel, and it is an exception that love does not disappear with the young lover's breast.
Young people have more opportunities to choose. Why should we hang ourselves from a tree? Not only women think this way, but men also think so.
After being reminded by classmate Xie, Dr. Tong finally realized: the patient's focus is not on vision but on endocrinology.
He told patients a lot about how to maintain their vision without leaving scars after surgery, but they didn't care at all.
There are many blind musicians, and sight is not the most important thing for musicians. On the contrary, as a star who often performs on stage, it would be absolutely terrible if she changed from a beautiful woman to a fat woman.
