"Is it Dr. Xie?" When several waiters in the store heard the boss say this, they all ran over to watch her.
Other passengers eating in the store looked back.
When a pair of eyes wandered over to her, it was like going to the zoo to see a rare giant panda.
"Go, go, go to work, see what this girl does, she is not yours." Boss Zhou waved his hand to chase them away, then turned around and looked at her again.
Even though she had come here to eat from time to time in the past, Boss Zhou had never paid such careful attention to her before, and there was almost no conversation between the two of them.
"I heard what that person said in the news means, was she involved in the operation?" Boss Zhou asked almost close to Cao Yong's ear.
Cao Yong nodded.
"It's rare to see a girl be so powerful." Boss Zhou sighed.
"Were you a doctor before?" Xie Wanying asked the other party. It was clear tonight that the other party was familiar with the medical circle. It was not just that the store was opened near a medical school and hospital.
Boss Zhou looked down at her quietly, blinked, and smiled: "I am a deserter, not a doctor."
As mentioned before, a large number of medical students change careers every year for various reasons. But the other party used the word deserter, which can basically clarify the general reason.
Somehow, Boss Zhou was not afraid to tell her in front of her today: "I can't bear to see people die. I cry when the patient dies. Over time, everyone knows that I can't be a doctor."
People are afraid of death and become psychologically fragile when facing death. The reason why most people in modern society do not cry immediately when they see others die is because their brains do not react for a while. Those who can cry immediately are those whose brains react quickly.
The former activates the rational brain, which will help people temporarily isolate bad emotions, which is called a psychological defense mechanism. If the isolation is excessive, the emotions will not be vented, and it may become an emotional isolation disease.
Shedding tears immediately after seeing death is a normal emotional catharsis, which can be understood as directly affecting the emotions in the brain. Crying is a mechanism to protect the human body, and crying itself is not a sin. Although we have been taught in families, schools and society since we were young, we must be strong.
, don’t cry easily.
This is why society is said to be becoming more and more indifferent. No one likes people who cry all the time. Everyone has a rational brain and doesn't like the emotional brain to cause trouble.
In the medical industry, where we see so many dead people every day, it is not in line with professional requirements for doctors to cry when they see dead people. Most doctors may have emotional isolation. Lay people say that doctors seem cold and heartless when facing the death of their patients. You can refer to how Boss Zhou acted
deserter.
Do doctors really never shed tears over death?
You don't need to think about this question to know that it is negative. Similar to many ordinary people, doctors who want to vent their emotions will quietly find a place to vent their emotions alone. In short, it cannot affect the professional image and the normal operation of the hospital.
If Boss Zhou wants to be a doctor, his professional psychological quality is really unqualified. In other words, he has failed to cultivate qualified professional rational brains according to schools and hospitals.
"When I see death, my brain can no longer think, and I can't use my brain rationally." Facing a neurosurgery boss, Boss Zhou reflected on his brain problems.
"You did very well in studies at that time." Cao Yong said, and he was telling the truth.
Excellent academic performance cannot offset psychological fragility. It can be seen that if a top student wants to become an industry elite, he has to overcome many difficulties, and it is far more than just studying well.