Thinking about it in Cao Yudong, it's not surprising that we see so many things like this.
Not to mention other circles in the medical circle, there has never been a shortage of such people. After all, it is all due to human nature.
There are many examples of children hating their parents if their parents do not protect them. Therefore, for parents, the biggest fear is not that their children are unfilial, but that they will be resented by their children for a lifetime. A lifelong resentment by children towards their parents also means that their children will suffer a lifetime of failure.
into a trap of misfortune.
This is why Chinese people increasingly emphasize the importance of education.
It’s just that education is like Schrödinger’s cat. Medicine has not thoroughly studied the human brain. Without medicine to provide a perfect basic education, the effect can only become Schrödinger’s cat like brain science.
This is also why many people are parents and have read many books on education. They feel that they follow scientific concepts to teach their children, but the children they teach are just like that.
More parents just look away. It is up to their children to live their own lives. It is their own business whether their children will complain or not. They will have no control over the future as long as they lie in their coffins.
What I have always looked away from is either to accumulate enough wealth for my children so that they can at least live a carefree life, or to be like Dr. Shao and Zhou Ruomei, who go to great lengths to pave the way for their children's careers.
Do you think Dr. Shao and her little cousin Zhou Ruomei really want their children to be proud of their ancestors? They know very well how much weight their children are born with.
Cao Yong wanted to criticize his father: You are a gentleman and your Buddha-nature is Buddha-nature. Please don’t take away the unfair things that happened to my girlfriend and your student because of this.
The third child in the family dared to criticize anyone, so his grandfather, a neurosurgery expert, saw through it early and changed his name to "Yong". Cao Yudong smiled, fully accepted his son's criticism, turned to the student and said: "You know he used to
What’s your name?”
Does Teacher Cao know Senior Brother Cao's previous name? Xie Wanying is surprised by this. This should be something that happened when Senior Brother Cao was a child. Does it mean that Teacher Cao and Senior Brother Cao are really familiar with each other?
"I don't know." Xie Wanying answered honestly.
"His previous name was Heng."
The names of the sons of the Cao family, for example, the names of the eldest and second child are all elegant and subtle, with a literary flavor. It is indeed impossible for the third child to directly change to "Yong".
After the third child was named Cao Heng, as Brother Tao had revealed earlier, the Cao family found that the word "Heng" was completely inconsistent with the child's personality. Grandpa Cao, a neurosurgery expert who studies the human brain, changed his grandson's name in a big way.
For bravery, I think this child is brave, and the word "yong" matches this child.
Since they are from a medical family, the Cao family really understands how to raise children: It doesn’t matter if the child’s future is Schrödinger’s cat. The essence of parenting is to seize the moment. Everything parents do now must be in line with the child and not be influenced by themselves.
The child's freedom was restricted by his will. Grandpa Cao decisively changed his grandson's courage and was not afraid of being criticized by anyone. This is the embodiment of a neurosurgery expert.
You should know that a mismatch between the name and the child's personality will cause many problems.
For example, this child obviously has a very straight personality, but you ask him to be moderate and obedient?
A strong child is not sweet. Growing up, there will be many people attacking the child on this point, saying that if your name is like this, why do the things you do turn out to be like that?
After changing it to Yong, everyone will think: wow, what this guy does really matches his name.
"Teacher Cao, you should have watched Senior Brother Cao grow up." Xie Wanying said with some realization, otherwise it would not be possible for Teacher Cao to understand the ins and outs of Senior Brother Cao's childhood.
Cao Yudong: ...This stubborn student, if you say she is stupid, she is really smart. If you say she is really smart, she is also a bit stupid.