When Cheng Tianyuan returned to his hotel room, it was already past twelve o'clock.
The bathroom door opened, and Xue Ling walked out in water vapor. It was obvious that he had just come back to take a shower.
She raised her eyebrows and asked in confusion: "Where have you been?"
She hasn't returned to the group these days, and she needs to read a lot of documents before she can send them. In addition, she will not be in the imperial capital in the next three or four days, so she simply put all her efforts into reading all the documents on the table.
These days she was very tired and had a little bad spirit, but she didn't dare to rest. She didn't dare to waste other time except for eating dinner for ten minutes, and she didn't come back until after eleven o'clock.
I thought my husband should have fallen asleep, but the room was empty.
"Are you going to chat with Ah Hu? I'll be on the road all day tomorrow, which isn't enough for you to talk?"
Cheng Tianyuan smiled bitterly and shook his head, closed the door, and then went around the bathroom to wash his hands.
"I don't know if it's old, but now I find that I can't talk to Ah Hu together. Last time I went back to Rongcheng, I felt this way. At first I thought it was a misunderstanding, but who knew these two
I have more contact with you in the sky, and I feel more and more like this.”
Xue Ling wiped his hair and asked, "What's wrong? It's not surprising! You have had their own family life, their own business tracks, their own circles, their ideas have been changing, and their worldview and values have also changed accordingly.
.Even if I had a good chat in the past, as the concept changed, it was still somewhat inferior to the previous ones.”
Everyone is changing, just to more or less. They used to be together every day, with roughly the same ideas, so they naturally say everything.
Now that their respective circles have changed, their concepts have gradually changed, and they must not be compared with the past.
Cheng Tianyuan took off his down jacket and boots and whispered: "It's not just not as good as before, but I also have the urge to convince him and let him listen to me - because I feel that he seems to have to do something better now... not very good,
Especially in the education of children.”
Then, he explained to Xue Ling what he had done to go out to find Xiao Huzi tonight.
"He is no longer a three or four-year-old child. He did something wrong, but just said a few words lightly, and said in a half-joking tone. He was not punished or apologized, he just said he was hungry, and then Ah Hu just said he was
I felt so distressed that I took him to eat noodles, and then there was nothing."
Xue Ling's wiping movement stopped and couldn't help but mutter: "Ahu... why do you spoil your child so much!"
Occasionally when talking to Wang Qing on the phone, she would complain that Ah Hu would spoil her daughter and son too much, and always worried that the child would be spoiled by him in the future.
Xue Ling thought that Ah Hu had given birth to such a pair of boys and girls when he was old. He could do a lot of spoiled, but he didn't expect that even such a thing could be foolish. What would the child look like in the future?
Very lingering!
I took the money to play, and I played for the whole afternoon until midnight. I was addicted to games and couldn't extricate myself from eating dinner.
It seems that the problem is not big, but it is actually the problem inside.
"First, the child has no sense of responsibility. When he is out, he doesn't know that he has been out for too long and his parents will worry. In a strange city, a strange Internet cafe, he never thought about coming back until midnight. Second, he did something wrong.
But I didn't realize what I was wrong and how big it was. I was found by my father. Not only did I have no apology or apology, but I also smiled and said that I didn't have dinner."
Cheng Tianyuan shook his head and smiled bitterly: "The key is that Ah Hu didn't notice that his son was outrageously wrong! I originally wanted to persuade him, but Xiao Huzi was present, so I couldn't say too much. His own father couldn't bear to scold him. I
It’s not good for this uncle to interfere in his duties.”
Because of this, he would rather not speak and sit quietly aside and check the text messages on his phone.
Xue Ling sighed: "There is no way, the child is his. His educational methods and methods determine most of his children's lives. We can give suggestions, but we cannot blindly determine that our educational philosophy is correct. Unless we spend another seven years.
In eight years, or even ten years, our children are very outstanding. They can make the most powerful proof."
This is the first time I am a parent, without pre-job training, and I have not passed the exam and issued a certificate of passing the exam. I have to rely on my own exploring slowly.
Overall, their four children are independent and studious children, but they still have a lot of shortcomings.
Parents can only do their best to correct their children's mistakes, tutor them every day, and establish a good world outlook and values. Others depend on their own diligence and one percent of their luck.
As for who teaches children the right and wrong method, it depends on the future.
Cheng Tianyuan fell on the big bed tired and murmured lazyly: "I'm tired and beat me..."
He was really tired after watching the funeral home for two consecutive nights. Even though there was heating there, his hands and feet were often frozen and almost couldn't even move.
Xue Ling sniffed and couldn't help asking: "Have you eaten? If you haven't finished digesting it yet, then wait a while before going to bed."
Lying down or going to bed just after eating is full will cause great harm to the stomach and intestines.
"I only have some food for their father and son to eat to make their stomachs and some soup." Cheng Tianyuan explained: "It's too late, I'm very sleepy again and I dare not eat too much."
Xue Ling reminded: "Go and brush your teeth and wash your face first."
Cheng Tianyuan had difficulty getting up, walked to the bathroom to brush his teeth, muttering in a vague tone: "I only have two tooth decays at the moment. Just now, Ah Hu said that he had repaired eight teeth and pulled three more. I couldn't help but tease him and said
, the aunt's teeth are even more complete than him."
"No way? Isn't this fifty just now? The teeth in my mouth are so miserable?" Xue Ling asked: "Is there a problem with his lifestyle?"
Cheng Tianyuan explained: "He said he is drunk now, eating whatever he wants, and drinking what he wants. When we returned to Chengjia Village, his belly was probably so big, and now it is round, tall and big.
He always wears a lot in two days, so you didn’t see clearly. Now it feels like a woman’s pregnancy is about ten months old!”
"Puchi!" Xue Ling felt funny inwardly and said, "That won't work... Why did Wang Qing let him do whatever he wants? Her health concept is quite good. After all, she reads a lot and reads a lot, so she naturally doesn't understand the truth.
few."
"This is the privacy between them and their husbands, and I can't ask." Cheng Tianyuan said: "Wang Qing will definitely sit with you tomorrow. Please remind her appropriately on the way."
Ah Hu is older than them, and now he is fifty.
In the past, he was covered in hard muscles, but now he is full of fat and has a round belly. His body is no longer as good as the day. If he doesn't take it carefully, the disease will soon come to him.
Xue Ling nodded and yawned a big yawn.
"Okay, I will remind her. By the way, I've packed all my luggage?"
Cheng Tianyuan replied: "It's all right, just go early tomorrow to check it."
"Okay." Xue Ling thrust his neck tightly, whispered, "Get good sleep tonight, go to bed later tomorrow, and set off after lunch in advance."
Cheng Tianyuan rubbed his hands, came over to help her rub her neck, and sighed: "It's so cold outside tonight!"
"Ten degrees below zero." Xue Ling shook his head: "Can you not be cold? My car drove back downstairs, and there was already a layer of ice outside."
The two of them have been busy for a few days, but they can't eat well and sleep well, and they are tired and uncomfortable.
Almost as soon as I touched the edge of the pillow, I fell asleep quickly.