On New Year's Eve, there are firecrackers outside and laughter filled the houses.
The young couple Cheng Tianyuan accompanied Xue’s father and Xue’s mother to prepare a reunion dinner.
Xue Heng also came, and accompanied him to set off firecrackers and eat hot pot together.
After eating for a while, Xue Heng got drunk and sat on the sofa sobered up and drank tea.
Cheng Tianyuan had a good alcohol tolerance and accompanied Xue's father to continue eating and chatting. He was happy during the meal and the atmosphere was very good.
Xue Ling accompanied her mother to make desserts, and the mother and daughter were talking soft and kind words in the kitchen.
Xue's mother closed the kitchen door and turned her eyes to her daughter who was tinkering with glutinous rice cakes.
"Ling Ling, mom has something to ask you."
Xue Ling didn't raise her head and smiled and said, "I'll ask!"
Mother Xue whispered: "You...you haven't gotten pregnant yet, aren't you? It's been more than half a year, why don't you see any movement in your stomach? Logically speaking, your body should be fine! Why are your hands and feet so slow?"
Forehead?!
Xue Lingqian thought about it but never expected that his mother would talk about such a topic!
She blushed and turned around.
"Mom! What are you asking? I...I...didn't think so fast!"
When Mother Xue heard this, she became anxious and rushed forward and nervously grabbed her arm.
"You shouldn't go to contraceptives, right? Have you taken medicine? You stupid child! Don't take it randomly if you don't know, but don't hurt your body!"
Xue Ling shook his head quickly and whispered: "No... don't think so! I just think let it go, and you will get pregnant whenever you get pregnant, and don't worry."
Since the two of them were having sex, she has been mentally prepared.
After all, both of them are young and strong, and he is occasionally very greedy and always pesters her and is reluctant to let go. It will be a matter of time before she gets pregnant.
But the two of them still have to work hard now, so the child will be slower if he can get pregnant. If he gets pregnant, then he will be born naturally.
If she hasn't gotten pregnant yet, she won't be in a hurry, because it's like a child, but it also requires fate!
"We are still young, so don't be too anxious about getting pregnant and having children, just let it go!"
Mother Xue breathed a sigh of relief, but she was still not relieved.
"If you get pregnant, you have to take good care of your baby and give birth to your child. I know you still want to work and work hard, but if you have a child, you have to give birth to him happily. Do you understand?"
"I understand!" Xue Ling replied with a low smile.
Xue's mother looked at her and whispered: "We are women. We are women. We are our responsibility as wives to have children and raise children. This is something we cannot shirk. It is hard to be pregnant, but it is even harder to raise children and raise children. These are the experiences of mothers.
Yes, you also know a lot. Don’t always think that career is the most important thing. You should work harder when you get older, it will be even harder to get pregnant.”
She glared at her daughter and warned: "You can't think you're young now and are afraid that you will delay your work. You'll have to have an abortion and take medicine or something! That's all a sinister thing and can't be done! Moreover, abortion of abortion is very harmful to your health.
Some people are injured after a child, and they can’t get pregnant no matter how much medicine they take later.”
Xue Ling nodded when he was taught.
"I understand. Don't worry, Brother Yuan and I don't hate children. We will give birth when we are pregnant. Even if we can't take care of ourselves, we will have mother-in-law and mother to help us!"
"That's right." Xue's mother sighed softly and pointed her hand at the window opposite: "The old Li family over there made a lot of trouble several times last year, and I even went to help persuade her, because of this."
Xue Ling looked into the building opposite and couldn't help asking, "What's the specific matter?"
Xue's mother whispered: "Old Li's son and daughter-in-law are both cadres of state-owned enterprises, and their daughter-in-law also graduated from college. She has a bad temper and thinks that family planning is strict. She can only have one child anyway. She has to wait until the conditions are better and she has reborn again. At first, she got pregnant.
Both of them went to abortion and refused to give birth. It was useless for the elderly at home to persuade him."
"Oh..." Xue Ling asked: "The old man will not make a fuss?"
Xue’s mother replied: “The old man didn’t make a fuss before. He thought that young people were going to work hard, but they couldn’t stop them even if they wanted to stop them. Now he made a fuss because he wanted to keep a child, but his daughter-in-law still refused.
The daughter-in-law was not well-off after abortion, which hurt her health. She wanted to get pregnant for many years but never got pregnant. Lao Li and her family were in a hurry. The couple were already in their thirties. The old man advised them to adopt one. The son was willing and the daughter-in-law was unemployed.
But he refused, and he almost got a divorce."
Xue Ling said softly and made a guarantee to Xue’s mother.
"Don't worry, Brother Yuan and I will not do such a thing."
Children are also an important factor in the long-term stability of a family. If they come, they will be at ease.
If you miss some fate, it may last for a lifetime.
After hearing this, Mother Xue finally felt relieved.
"When you get pregnant, tell your mother, I will take care of you and raise your baby. If you don't make you happy, that's great. When you give birth to a child, I will help you take care of you. Maybe bring the child over and ask me to help you take care of him.
All done."
Xue’s father and Xue’s mother have the only daughter, she, so naturally they think about their daughter in everything.
"There is only one son of Ayuan's family who passes on the family line. You have to have more children in the future. In this way, grandpa and grandma will not fight for each other!"
Xue Ling blushed and responded in a low voice.
Xue's mother pulled her and asked, "Is your menstrual period normal? I remembered that you would postpone it occasionally, but now is it still late?"
"...It's still a little late." Xue Ling replied.
Mother Xue asked again: "How much late?"
"It's about ten days." Xue Ling replied.
After all, Mama Xue is a veteran and is very experienced.
"The reason why you are not pregnant may be related to the fact that your menstrual period is always delayed. If you have poor qi and blood, you have to replenish more blood. Mom will turn around and make you red dates and wolfberry soup, and then give you some donkey-hide gelatin."
Xue Ling smiled bitterly: "It's the New Year..."
"What are you afraid of? It's not medicine, it's all for supplements." Xue's mother said: "Anyway, there are ready-made ones at home, I'll stew it for you later!"
Xue Ling ate glutinous rice cakes and muttered: "Don't be so anxious, right?"
Xue's mother looked down on her and whispered: "It's rare that you go home and take the opportunity to make up for you. Not only do you have to make up for it, but Ayuan also needs to make up for it!"
Seeing that Xue Ling couldn't stop him, he simply stopped him. Anyway, he had to make up for it than he had to make up for it.
Both of them were very busy these days, so it was a good idea to take this opportunity to rest more at their parents' home.
We had a reunion dinner and stopped until after eight o'clock.
Xue’s father was slightly drunk and went to bed after washing his feet.
Xue Heng sobered up and said he had an appointment with his friend later and said goodbye and left.
Cheng Tianyuan helped Xue’s mother clean the dining table and clean the dishes and pots.
Xue Ling happily watched TV while eating desserts, with a silly look on her face.
Seeing that Cheng Tianyuan was orderly doing housework and could do anything, Xue's mother couldn't help but smile.
"It seems that you are always busy in the kitchen, right?"
Cheng Tianyuan smiled and replied: "It's probably because Ling Ling is not good at cooking, so I'll do more. It's all about the family, no matter who does it."