Xue Ling widened his eyes and turned to wipe the corner of his mouth.
"Hu, why haven't Ah Hu and the others come back yet? Have you left them food?"
Cheng Tianyuan picked up a piece of crispy cake and explained: "They won't come back to eat it anymore. They said that Shan You suddenly wanted to eat pickled hotpot, and the whole family accompanied her to eat hotpot."
"Oh." Xue Ling smiled softly: "Soiry, can this child be a son again-"
"Mom!" Xue Xin said coquettishly: "Have you two heard us? Don't pretend you can't hear, okay? I need your support! They are three to one, I can't win!"
Xue Ling and Cheng Tianyuan looked at each other and both smiled softly.
"Your views on love and values are far from us, so we can't say who is better or who is worse. In my opinion, you are both right and wrong."
Xue Xin pouted: "Mom, what are you talking about!"
"It means that some of your ideas are right, some of you are wrong." Cheng Huanchong interrupted.
Xue Ling nodded: "Most people's concepts and ideas will continue to change and improve as they grow older, experience, and various life and work hardships continue to change and improve. What you think now may be in your
All the girls of this age think you are very right and great. In your parents' eyes, it is inevitable that they will bring the little girls' ignorance and excessive idealism."
"What?!" Xue Xin was excited when she heard this and muttered: "Ignorance? Idealism?"
The others sneered, their laughter was a little harsh.
Xue Ling also smiled, but there was no meaning of ridicule.
"In fact, a person's heart is divided into many, many parts. Part of it is for parents; part of it is for family and lovers; part of it is for study, work, friends, colleagues, etc.... The kind on TV and in novels, I give all my heart to
You! You are the only one in my heart! My love is given to you! I only love you in this life!' Such words are just love words and cannot be counted."
"At the age of looking forward to love, of course I think love is all about you. But is reality possible? You still have to work hard to follow up on your studies, and your relatives should be with you, classmates and teachers, etc. Love is just the one in our relationship.
It’s just one kind of thing, you can’t live all of it. In real life, there are actually not many cases where you can’t live without a partner.”
"It's very sweet when you fall in love, but it's natural to be very painful when you break up. But most people cannot turn their first love into marriage. Many people will be heartbroken and suffer for a while, and then find others to fall in love until they finally get married.
Later, if the marriage is unhappy and the family is not harmonious, many people will divorce. From these two perspectives, the person you love is not our only one, nor our whole life.”
"You may be because of your age and impulse that you have full confidence, and you feel that the other person must love you and spoil you, and your whole heart is holding you, otherwise you won't love you enough. If he does other things, it's not in your crisis.
When you are with you, you may feel that he does not value you enough and does not put you first, and that will not love you enough. But it is impossible for him to be the only one in his world."
"There are so many people in the world who have to deal with many people every day. It is impossible to circle around you all day. The earth is around the sun, but it also needs an autobiography, right? He also has to have his own affairs.
He also has relatives and friends to accompany him, right? There are many kinds of feelings, and love is just one of them. In the field of love, you are the first, maybe you are still the only one, it is all. But you have to allow him
There are other areas, aren’t it?”
"Human hearts are very complicated and complicated. Your heart contains many people, including parents, brothers, grandmas, etc. It is impossible that he has only you, right? You have to learn to play chess, he has to play.
If you have to work, socialize, you have to travel between home and abroad, and you have to accompany you to take care of you to make you happy. How much have you done for him, what can you do for him, and why do you ask him to put you first?"
After hearing this, Xiaoxin's pretty face turned slightly red, but she was still a stubborn duck's mouth.
"Mom, why did you get involved with me again... What does it have to do with me? I-I am not as unreasonable as you said."
Xue Ling smiled and shrugged: "Nothing is the best. At your age, it is normal to have such thoughts. No one will blame you. It is just that those who love you will be a little tired. We are just reminding you that it is good to have feelings,
But I really can't drink enough water."
Xiaoxin glanced at Cheng Tianyuan and muttered: "Didn't you say that when you married your father, he was still poor? His family didn't even have a decent house and he still owed debts."
"Yes." Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "At that time, there were only two adobe houses in the family, and there was not even a dilapidated bicycle. I owed a lot of money and couldn't pay it back. I haven't paid the old debt, and I have new debts. Really
It's poor and careless."
Xiaoxin said in a muffled voice: "Mom, then at that time... were you thinking 'You can drink enough water for love'?"
"No." Xue Ling shook her head.
Cheng Tianyuan glared at his daughter and explained: "Your mother brought the two thousand yuan given by your grandfather and a lot of dowry to me. On the third day of marriage, she went out with me to find a job and earn money. I and I
No matter how affectionate your mother has, she has to make money. Otherwise, she can’t fill her stomach, so how can she talk about love? Don’t you have to pay back the debts at home? Don’t you have to raise your parents?”
Xiaoxin buried her head and murmured: "It's me... I'm wrong in understanding."
Xue Ling wiped his mouth and stood up: "Okay, just know that you are wrong. You guys, don't think you are right. Girls are not that easy to coax. Work hard to make money and give them peace and strength.
Arms and a warm family are the best way to love girls.”
"I know!"
"Mom, I know!"
"I don't have such troubles..."
...
That night, Zhu Achun brought Zheng Duoduo to pay New Year's greetings.
Zheng Duoduo gave each of the elderly a big red envelope, and secretly gave each to Xiaoxin and Xiao Chong.
"Don't make a fuss, you're all grown up and you didn't score any points. But you are the youngest and you haven't been financially independent yet. Please give me some secretly."
Xiaoxin and Xiao Chong jumped happily and jumped into his arms, laughing happily.
"Shhh!" Zheng Duoduo smiled: "You two little ancestors, be quiet and quiet! Let me spare me, and you will be seen by your elder brother and second brother in a while. You must chase my wallet!"
"Thank you, Brother Duoduo!" Xiaoxin stood on tiptoe and kissed him.
Zheng Duoduo smiled so hard that he joked: "Don't let Tieto know, otherwise he will stare at me to death."
Xiaoxin blushed and snorted and ran away.
Xiao Chong punched him and put his arm around: "Let's go! Let's play games!"
Zheng Duoduo turned his head and sang: "Auntie, I'll go play with the third child! You're leaving later and call me!"