Xue Cong smiled bitterly and kept shaking his head.
"Your brother-in-law and I are the most honest and helpless parents in the world. She does whatever she wants, and does whatever she wants. How dare we put pressure on them? We didn't even say a word of urging."
Xue Ling whispered: "Xiaomei is over thirty years old, and Xiao Zeng is almost forty years old. She is indeed a little older."
"That's not it!" Xue Chong said: "Now young people are 23 or 24 years old when they go to an ordinary university, and they will be 26 or 27 years later. If you wait for a few years, you will be 30 years old in a flash.
.Then they went on a blind date to find a partner for a few years, and they pursued their own world for a few years after getting married. They were in their forties in a flash. They were considered to have a flash marriage, and they were about to have children immediately after getting married - but they were still too old."
She whispered helplessly: "The doctor said that the best age for a person is between twenty and thirty. Try to solve the fertility plan before thirty. The more you delay, the harder it will be. In addition, young people are under great pressure in their lives,
I like to watch my phone and stay up late, and my body was broken unknowingly. Xiaomei yelled to go to the gym three times a week, saying that she was very healthy, but after the examination, there were few inspection indicators that were qualified."
"No way?" Xue Ling glared in surprise: "She...she looks quite healthy."
Xue Cong shook his head: "No, anemia, kidney deficiency and stomach deficiency are not a big problem, but it is difficult to add up. The doctor said that young people like to squander their health and always think that I am still young anyway, so there is no need to worry or be afraid.
Nowadays, young people have sudden death, three highs, and the chances of cerebral infarction are getting more and more likely to die. Xiaomei doesn't like to eat randomly, but she is too stressed for work, often not having three meals on time, occasionally working overtime all night, and her body has been damaged by a long time.
.”
Xue Ling sighed and whispered: "I often yell a few children not to stay up late. It is a bad habit to go to bed late and get up late. We humans originally evolved from sunrise and sunset. Now we have the lights on and on.
Mobile phones and game consoles are reluctant to sleep.”
"There is another reason that I drink too much coffee." Xue Cong explained: "Xiaomei has a high work intensity and often relies on coffee to refresh herself. In addition to drinking coffee and tea, her colleagues are all things that refresh and excited. Coffee damage
Her stomach was damaged. The doctor said that she had a weak spleen and stomach, but she was not careful enough, and she also ate some ice cream from time to time, which was even worse."
"The stomach and intestines are mainly nourished." Xue Ling reminded: "You make more porridge for her, and they will be cooked sooner or later. She has been in the company for so many years and has such a high title. She can rest for a year or two, take care of her health and have a good child.
A healthy baby, then continue to work hard on your career.”
"They originally planned to have a nest of little kids." Xue Cong sneered: "I'm full of confidence, but I found it's so difficult to get pregnant with a child, so I quickly changed my plan. Now I just want to get pregnant with one as soon as possible and strive for it.
Have one or two.”
Xue Ling laughed: "Like young people in our era, they basically got married in their early twenties. We have children early, and they basically become mothers when they are in their twenties. Late marriage and late childbirth are not just the concept of young people.
The reason for the change is mostly related to changes in the social environment. In the past, people had little economic gap, and they had a job, had children to take care of their families, and their lives were just like this. Nowadays, young people pursued more and had more ideas, and liked to pursue themselves.
Some even plan to be single for the rest of their lives and never get married, saying that marriage is a mess, but people will only be a lifetime, so why bother to make things difficult for themselves and find a pit to let themselves jump."
"I can't accept it!" Xue Cong held his forehead and smiled bitterly: "I am retired now. When I'm idle, I'll go shopping for some self-media writing on my phone. I feel dizzy at first glance, and I feel like I'm now...
...The mind is too selfish and terrifying."
"We definitely can't accept it." Xue Ling said: "Young people say that the age of a young man is just a generation gap. We are more than thirty years apart from the young man today. How can we accept their novel and unique ideas!"
"Maybe it's too complicated." Xue Cong Youyou sighed: "It also makes people's greed complicated and terrifying."
At this time, Xue Yang brought two cups of steaming black tea over.
"Mom, aunt, I'm sorry for letting you wait for a long time. There was no spring water in the living room. I went to the big kitchen to get some and then boil it, which took a lot of time."
Xue Cong took it with a smile: "It's okay, we sisters can always forget the time when we chat without realizing it. I just happened to be a little thirsty, and your tea is coming at the right time."
Xue Yang put down the black tea and then took the leftovers of his mother to the kitchen.
"Your children are very well-behaved." Xue Cong couldn't help but praise: "You have good appearance, are motivated and hardworking, and know how to be filial to your elders and considerate to your parents. Ling Ling, to be honest, I really envy you in this regard! Not only in terms of quantity
You are doing much better than me when it comes to raising children."
Xue Ling smiled and said, "Your beauty is so powerful and has a unique personality, not everyone can compare with it. I am all too mediocre, just ordinary people, and I am not outstanding."
"It's already excellent enough." Xue Cong glanced at her and whispered: "Don't ask too much. Even if your child is not at the top of the pyramid, he is definitely above. I only gave birth to one, but I don't have time to care about her.
Her father is not available, so she is so strong-willed and doesn't accept our opinions easily. She is too independent and has a weak family concept, so she doesn't know how to be considerate of her parents."
Speaking of this, she sighed quietly.
"After all, it's all our parents' fault. We didn't teach her well and lead her. When she was a child, I was very busy and her father was very busy. We all took care of our career development and didn't have enough time to accompany her to grow up.
The only thing that is thankful is that she has not grown crooked and has not become a dangerous product in this society. This child is smart and independent, has a strong ambition, and has a strong personality. Not only does he study well, but his artistic skills are also excellent. Her father and I started out.
They were all very pleased. They refused to come back until their children went abroad. They only had a few video calls throughout the year, sending big red envelopes to the two of us during the Chinese New Year, and then they lost everything. At that time, we were really scared..."
"I'm afraid that she will forget her roots, her family and her parents, and she will become a child who is indifferent to family affection. Until we try every means to coax her back, let her live at home, make breakfast in the morning and eat with her,
Let her go home to sleep at night, and the family of three goes out to climb mountains or have picnics on weekends, eat out, etc. Try to spend more time together and chat so that she can integrate into the family without realizing it.”
"She joked that she envied other children after she was three years old, and it was not realized until she was thirty years old. Although it came a little late, it was better to have it than not. We also found that she had a lot of intimacy with us after she came back, because of family affection,
Blood is thicker than water. Some things do not require too much effort for parents and children, but they just lack thoughts."