"Study... is of course the most important thing, but the child is now in adolescence, and he is still in the rebellious period at the age of fourteen or five. You, try to spend some time with your child, and don't just focus on letting her study and study all day long.
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Xue Heng couldn't help but sigh as soon as he heard this: "She's studying is already terrible! If this continues, I'm afraid she won't even be able to attend an ordinary high school."
"Is that bad?" Xue Ling asked nervously.
Chen smiled bitterly and shook his head: "It's not an ordinary person. This child is so beautiful that he can tell that he is a smart girl at a glance, but he is not a material for studying. Her parents are both intellectuals, and her father is studying.
It has always been among the top students, and we never need to worry about our parents in our studies. But I don’t know who this child looks like. His grades have been declining since the fourth and fifth grades of elementary school. He failed several subjects at the end of the last semester. If it weren’t for Ah Heng
He insisted that she would not be allowed to resign. The principal and the teacher kept saying that she had to resign because she couldn't keep up."
"That's bad?" Xue Ling asked: "It's the second year of junior high school now? How many courses are there in the first year of junior high school? How many failed? No?"
"Yes." Xue Heng replied: "Except for music and art, the main subjects are basically unqualified. Geography, history, and politics are all the same. It seems that one subject is only 60 points, and the others are all 30 or 40 points.
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Xue Ling: "..."
Chen laughed helplessly: "There's no way! The child comes back from school and goes into the house to do his homework. He goes to classes from Monday to Friday, and makes up for classes on Saturday and Sunday. She insists on learning and doing it, but she just can't learn it well.
Maybe, she is not born to be a good student. I told Ah Heng that you must be more open-minded and don’t force your children. People have similar intelligence, but their grades are very different. Some people are born to be good at learning, so they don’t need to learn how to do it.
Some people can do well in the exam. Some people keep studying hard, but they may not be able to learn well."
"Even if I don't look at it, I have to look at it!" Xue Heng looked desperate: "She either went to class or did her homework all day long, but the teacher said she was wandering every day, and she was obviously sitting in the classroom obediently
But she never listened carefully to what the teacher said, nor did she think about it. She relied on all exams, except for multiple-choice questions, almost all the other exams were blank."
Xue Ling couldn't help asking: "Then... I haven't thought about resuming the grade? What did Afang say?"
"You can't keep the grade." Xue Heng shook his head and smiled bitterly: "Even if she stayed for a few years, it would probably be the same. Let her finish it as soon as possible and learn a skill in the future. Afang was very worried and anxious.
Tianman Emperor Capital asked for famous teachers and excellent teachers to give Xiaohan a lesson. I know that she is also trying to improve her children for more or less. But I think the effect is very small, and it is impossible to even "better than nothing."
Xue Ling felt uncomfortable when she heard this.
Xiaohan seems to be a serious problem!
Xue Heng rubbed his temples and sighed repeatedly.
"Sometimes, I can't help but wonder about life when I look at her transcript. How could I have given birth to a daughter who is so poor in studying... I really can't stand it, I can't accept it in my heart, but I have to accept it.
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Chen stopped: "Don't talk about children like this. Xiaohan is actually very well-behaved. It's just that he is not a good student in nature, so he reads so poorly. Children are healthy and mentally healthy, so they are already good enough. Don't expect to ask for it.
Too many. At our age, I have seen through everything. If you study well, you may not be able to live a good life. Xiaohan looks good and looks handsome. She can learn some art tricks in the future.
Heng is just a daughter like her, and her family property will be hers in the future. She doesn’t have to work hard to make money. It’s enough to find a leisurely job and live a stable life."
Xue Ling swallowed, and was a little reluctant to speak but stopped.
Xue Heng, who was standing beside him, sneered on the sofa and smiled bitterly: "Mom, the child is only in his teens. It is not easy to say this in front of her, otherwise she would not want to work harder."
"She has worked hard enough." Chen whispered in pain: "Everything from Monday to Friday, I go out at around 6 am during the morning and get home at around 6 pm. After dinner, I go back to my room to study and can't go to bed at 10 pm.
. I have to go to cram school on Saturdays and Sundays, and I don’t even have time to play at all. The child is like this, what do you want her? Didn’t you say it? It’s not that she doesn’t work hard enough, it’s her
If you work hard, you will have little effect."
"That's right, you can't say that in front of her." Xue Heng reminded again.
Chen glared at his son with a angrily glaring at his son and said, "What is the popular thing for young people nowadays? If it is not too tired and uncomfortable, how could young people pursue lying flat? They must be unable to bear it. Nowadays, children are studying
If you have a lot of pressure, you will have more work pressure. Don’t worry too much, it’s enough for your child to be healthy and happy.”
Xue Heng sighed helplessly and hooked Xue Ling's fingers.
Xue Ling leaned toward him, and only heard him murmur: "Xiao Han is running around studying now, and it takes more than an hour on the road every day. A while ago, she told me that she would buy her one next to the school.
Setting up a small house so that she can go to and from school. I dare not agree. She has been pestering me for the past two days and must agree. Lingling, is there any real estate you are familiar with near No. 4 Middle School? Do you have a house there?"
"Uh..." Xue Ling shook her head: "No."
Even if there is, she will not lend it out and it is impossible to sell it.
Xue Ling glanced at him and said, "What did I say just now - the child is in a rebellious period and needs the company and attention of his parents. She is a teenage girl, do you think she can live alone?
The consequences of letting go of the liberty are very serious, and it is undoubtedly letting the tiger return to the mountain."
Xue Heng explained helplessly: "I think it's not good either, but she begged me every day and asked her to live outside the school. I'm sure I'm worried. Either Afang will go to live with her or hire her a full-time nanny."
"Not possible!" Xue Ling shook her head flatly: "You can't agree. Afang works on the TV station and doesn't work on time. Sometimes she works for more than 30 hours in a row and can't take care of her at all. She is so old, and at most a nanny is a nanny.
Help clean and make three meals for her to eat. I can’t help you discipline her or tutor her.”
"No?" Xue Heng slutted and rubbed his hair, and whispered: "I've been physically and mentally exhausted recently, and my heart is tired and I can't control her too much. A Fang told me a while ago that she can have something after returning from this business trip.
In the one-month gap period, she will take Xiaohan over and try to help Xiaohan with her homework. I can take care of the two elderly people with all my heart and strength without having to take care of both of them."
"Did Xiaohan dye her hair?" Xue Ling asked with a slight look in her eyes.
Xue Heng shook his head blankly: "No... why did you suddenly ask this?"