Xue Yang was extremely nervous and didn't know how to put his eyes.
"Our family has always had many people and many brothers. Of course, it is impossible for me to have one child... I told Xiaoxiao before that when the economy is better and I am free, we will have one or two more children. I hope to be with my dad
Mom, you guys - have four children."
He grew up in a lively big family since he was a child, with grandparents and grandparents behind him, and brothers and younger brothers and sisters around him. He never had to worry about loneliness, let alone worry that no one else would come to take responsibility for something together.
Because no matter what happens, everyone works together.
From childhood to adulthood, the atmosphere at home has been harmonious and the old and the young have fallen in love with each other.
The elderly support each other, take care of each other, and have deep feelings.
My parents are as loving as the sea, and they have almost never quarreled. No matter what happens at home, they are all in business and support this huge family side by side.
People who grow up in such a big family will naturally love their family and want to struggle with their own big family. They hope that their descendants can enjoy the excitement and collective feeling brought by the big family just like him.
"Just..." Xue Yang stammered: "It's really not the time..."
Cheng Tianyuan glared at him and asked, "When is the time? Ah?"
Xue Yang shrank his neck and whispered: "At least, wait for my financial conditions to be more stable and I am free. Xiaoxiao has to adapt to work after she finds a job, and she has to wait for her to work to be more stable. Also, Xiaoyu Xiao
Pengneng is going to elementary school and is more sensible. We will definitely be much more relaxed when we come to have children when we come."
"Impossible." Cheng Tianyuan and Xue Ling spoke in unison.
Xue Yang: “…”
Cheng Huanran poked his brother on the back of the head and whispered: "Listen to the explanation of parents first."
Xue Ling smiled, with obvious fatigue at the corners of her eyes.
"Yangyang, Xiaoxiao, there are a few children in the family. At present, you are the only one who gets married and starts a family. They have raised a pair of children. No one else has officially entered the marriage hall. Mom and your dad are both experienced people, so I have to say a few.
The facts make you know a little.”
Wang Xiaoxiao nodded obediently: "Mom, you said."
Xue Ling looked at the eldest son with a wry smile: "In my opinion, we have never been idle since we gave birth to the eldest. Before we got pregnant, the family's financial situation was very poor. Your father and I were alone.
I had to do two jobs, I was busy during the day and at night. Those days were very hard, but they were also very sweet. When I was pregnant with Ranran, my family's financial situation was slightly better. I cooperated with Ah Hu and the others to open a store, and I also got from my grandfather.
The clothing factory took some subsidies to do wholesale. Then, we continued to work hard to take care of the baby. Later, the second child was born, and a few years later, the third child and Xiao Xin. Ranran is now thirty-two,
To this day, the third brother, Xiao Xin and the others are all junior. It seems that your father and I haven’t had a leisurely life for a few days.”
The others were stunned.
Cheng Tianyuan sighed helplessly: " Raising a child is not something that can be raised overnight, but it is countless days and nights. When he was still young, you thought it would be easier for him to go to kindergarten. Later, when he went to kindergarten, you will find that there is still one
There are a lot of things to do. You think you will be better at elementary school in the future, but in fact, no matter whether he is in elementary school, junior high school, high school, or even a graduate student in college, his parents will not worry about it."
"Yes!" Xue Ling said with a funny look: "Yangyang, you are almost twenty-seven. You are married and you are a father of two children. Your father and I are still worried about your second child. What I want to say
Yes - as long as you become a parents and an elder, you will probably never worry about it in your life."
Xue Yang and Wang Xiaoxiao: “…”
Xue Ling lowered his voice: "I started a business several times, from clothing to real estate, to later Tianshu Group and Pharmaceutical Group, my career is expanding little by little, almost everything from nothing to something. In my opinion
As long as you have enterprising spirit, you will not be able to stabilize it at any time, especially before you were fifty. I used to be busy with my children and careers, but now I am busy with the elderly and the little babies. I don’t think I can get more relaxed at any time.”
"Yes!" Cheng Tianyuan smiled bitterly: "Who doesn't live a life while trying to make money to take care of the elderly? The so-called "When will you be idle and when will it be suitable" is because you think too much."
Cheng Huanran couldn't help but add: "If you work in the company, the next ten years will be very difficult. Xiaoxiao and Yangyang, you both graduated from college a few years later than ordinary people because of competition and training. When your career is stable,
It will take at least seven or eight years. By then, you will no longer be young, and Xiaoxiao will also enter the category of elderly mothers."
"How many years have you Aunt Xue Cong been waiting for, and your cousin got thousands of injections before she finally gave birth to a little little bit." Xue Ling couldn't help feeling distressed when she thought of it: "I almost couldn't save it at the beginning, and I still slept in the insulated box.
It was over a month old. It was so young that it was called this name. The child was prone to illness and his body was weaker than ordinary children. These are the reasons why your cousin gave birth to him at the age of his age."
Cheng Huanran agreed: "So, if you don't want to have a child, that's another matter. If you still want to have a second and third child, then you might as well give birth while you are young and strong."
"Yes, I think so too." Xue Ling laughed: "The economic problems you are worried about are not a problem for the time being. In addition, instead of letting Xiaoxiao give birth to a baby for two or three years, and it is impossible to stabilize intermittently, it is better to take the opportunity to give birth to it.
When the three of them grow up and go to kindergarten together, Xiaoxiao will consider going to work. At that time, all the inherited property of Yangyang should be divided. These alone will be enough to be busy, and you don’t have to find any job outside. Take care of your husband.
Wealth is much more important than other jobs and should earn more.”
Instead of leaving it to outsiders for care in the future, it is better to teach your daughter-in-law to let her manage their small family's property.
It’s not that you can’t afford to raise a few children, nor that you have no other ways to find employment. Your own companies and groups are well-known, so why worry about economic problems and future employment!
"That's what it means... it seems to be true." Xue Yang pushed his wife in his arms and whispered: "Wife, I want to start a business now, and I will have to rely on you to manage my family business in the future. If you don't want to do anything else
You will be in charge of your work in the future.”
Wang Xiaoxiao hesitated and sobbed and sniffed.
"I...I didn't think so much. I just felt... I was afraid of dragging you down, and I was afraid of dragging my parents down. In fact, I couldn't bear to fall into the child at all... I was very confused and worried."
She is a person who loves children very much. Other children want to love them, let alone her own blood.
"Since you can't bear it, stay." Xue Ling smiled: "Anyway, you will graduate in two or three months. At that time, you will hire a nanny or nanny to help you, and bring them all up together.
Make plans slowly and don’t have to worry too much. Life is long and there are too many turning points and problems. Let’s come one by one, solve one by one, and keep a steady mind and face it.”