Zheng Xiaoyi was slightly stunned and turned to laugh like a self-deprecating person.
"Sister, look at me! Haha! I kept saying that I had confidence in him and believed that he was a man who would never mess around! Alas~~ Actually, after all, it was me...I..."
"Don't have confidence in yourself?" Xue Ling raised his eyebrows and asked with a smile.
Zheng Xiaoyi glanced at her and said coquettishly: "Sister, you are so smart! No, why are you so powerful? You hit my heart with one word! It hurts my heart!"
Xue Ling laughed and patted the back of her hand.
"What's wrong? I'm getting older and I feel that I'm not as good as the younger generation?"
Zheng Xiaoyi smiled bitterly: "That woman looks very good and looks very attractive. The key is that she is younger than me!"
Xue Ling couldn't help laughing again and asked, "Ahuan is more than ten years older than you, and he still has people chasing him. You are younger than him, but you don't have confidence? As for?"
Zheng Xiaoyi curled his lips: "There is no way. He looks like the same in the past ten years. His figure is similar, his appearance is similar, he is still as mature and steady as he doesn't seem to have grown old. I am different! I used to be young and beautiful,
Now we are all in the ranks of middle-aged aunties. Our lower abdomen is getting bigger, and we can't wear beautiful and slender pants anymore. We can only wear skirts or rubber pants, otherwise we can't cover the fat on our waist. The skin on our face is not as tight as before, and the flesh begins to begin.
It’s loose and I don’t dare to look at myself in the mirror once I wash my face.”
When I was young and beautiful, I was busy every day, taking care of my studies, my work and my family.
After finally getting free, I found that I was no longer young and my condition was not as good as before.
On the other hand, my husband who was sleeping beside him had not distorted, and his appearance was similar, but he still looked gentle and elegant.
Nothing more than not caring, I feel sad!
Xue Ling narrowed his eyes and asked with a smile: "Do you think others will not grow old? Fool! Am I the same? Who has never been young? Who has never been beautiful? But children will grow up, and the elderly will grow old, so we naturally
They will also start to age. Don’t believe in anti-aging words, or believe that anyone can stay young forever. Those are advertising slogans for cosmetics and skin care products, and those words to make women happy. Face them calmly, no one can avoid it.”
Zheng Xiaoyi was still a little angry and whispered: "Why do I think Ah Huan seems to be similar..."
"Who said that?" Xue Ling explained with a hilarious explanation: "He is a little older, but you face him every day and don't notice it much. In addition, middle-aged men who know how to take care of themselves are indeed more patient than us."
"Yes!" Zheng Xiaoyi said depressedly: "Although he is so many years apart, he looks almost the same. Last time he went shopping together, a clerk actually guessed that I was older than him!"
"That's because they don't have to conceive or have children." Xue Ling sighed helplessly: "In those years when the child was young, I stayed up late every now and then, and I really couldn't stand it! At that time, you had to go to class and work, and you had to take care of your family and children, and you would do it every day.
I was so busy that I was busy. We were both busy and we were neighbors who lived together. If we didn’t make an appointment to have dinner together in advance, we would almost never have a chance to meet them. Do you still remember?"
Zheng Xiaoyi smiled bitterly and said, "Remember. I don't dare to remember those dark days now - it's so scary!"
Xue Ling sighed: "A woman's youth and youth cannot withstand the trouble of children. As a mother, unless you don't care about the children, there will be endless work every day, there will be endless things every day, and there will be no time to be idle at all.
Come down. When the child is finally older, you can finally take a breath, but more than ten years have passed in a flash, and you are already forty-gone."
"Yes!" Zheng Xiaoyi put her arm around her and leaned on her shoulder: "Sister, it feels so comfortable to chat with you! You are a veteran, you are older than me, smarter and wiser than me, so you
I can always talk to my heart all at once.”
Xue Ling laughed in a pampering way: "I finally said it right - because I am a veteran!"
Zheng Xiaoyi said "ah" and couldn't help asking: "Sister, have you found that our women are really hard-working?"
"Yes." Xue Ling nodded: "A good woman is more hard than a good man, a good mother is more hard than a good father, and a woman who has to work and take care of the family is more hard than a man."
Zheng Xiaoyi whined twice, as if he was feeling emotion and helpless.
"It's really hard to be a good woman, a good mother and a strong woman... it's really hard. Fortunately, my parents-in-law gave him a good foundation and he worked earlier than me. When we got married, we already had a car and a house.
Despite this, I always feel that I have a hard time, especially when my child was young, I was busy, messy and depressed. Now when I think back, I don’t know how I survived it.”
Xue Ling smiled softly: "Don't you all survived it? I'm lucky than you. When I was vigorously developing my career, the children were still young. Ayuan was willing to give up his chance to achieve great things, most of them
The focus was closer to the family, so I had no worries. He made sacrifices to help me and our family.”
"Yes." Zheng Xiaoyi nodded: "Brother-in-law is indeed great. On the contrary, when I graduated and started working, he was already a chief physician and soon promoted to the level of vice president. At that time, the Pharmaceutical Group was also in its development stage,
He often couldn't go home for several days or nights. If his children rely on him, they didn't know whether they could grow up. For the sake of my family, I had to weaken my career."
Xue Ling sighed: "It's all sacrifices. This is how a family is. Without giving or sacrifice, the family cannot operate at all, and the family will eventually be broken. If you can understand each other and care about the other person's efforts, you will give some of it.
I give some money and don’t care about how much I can have a harmonious and happy family. Every family is something that many people cannot easily make up."
"Sister, your children are old now and your financial conditions are so good." Zheng Xiaoyi asked with a smile: "There should be no regrets, right? I finally can be more leisurely."
Xue Ling raised his eyebrows and replied: "I don't think I'm still busy every day. There are old people above, young people below, and young people, so I don't have much leisure time at all. Don't think that people with good financial conditions can do it.
Life is very comfortable and easy. Everyone suffers, but his suffering may be different from yours, and the way is different."
Zheng Xiaoyi couldn't help but mutter: "I...I have always envied you."
"Is that?" Xue Ling smiled and said, "Actually, I envy you too. I envy you for having an older brother and younger brother, and I am much luckier than me, the only daughter. I envy you for being free and easy quit your job and working with your beloved person together and retreat together.
The husband and wife follow you. I envy you for being much younger than me, and there are not as many wrinkles on your face."
Zheng Xiaoyi was stunned for a moment when he heard this, and then laughed.