Ah Hu frowned and asked, "What if it's true? You didn't see how quarrels were!"
"No matter how powerful it is, it doesn't matter." Cheng Tianyuan analyzed: "How serious can a couple quarrel? You helped you and also helped your son - that's wrong. Xiaohuzi was incited by you and beat Shan You-
You are also responsible for this matter!”
"I...I didn't say I was right." Ahu was irritated and held his forehead, "Aren't I so angry at that time? I have only two precious grandsons, so how could I bear to stay on the South Island!"
Cheng Tianyuan's tone was a little slow and he whispered: "It's just a discussion at the moment, and it hasn't been decided at the end. If Xiao Huzi refuses, Shan You will naturally not do it rashly. This matter mainly depends on Xiao Huzi."
Ahu said "Oh!" and said angrily: "Youyou is also an unintentional one! Listen to her parents in everything! She does whatever her parents say! She only cares about her parents' parents, she
Why don't you think about it for us! My mother is a widow and raised me. I was in my thirties and married Wang Qing. I only had Xiaohuzi a son. I finally had two grandsons, but I didn't need to be single-handed for three generations - how can I let the little guy
Adopt to the South Island!"
Cheng Tianyuan shook his head: "Don't think too much. Xiaohuzi and Shan You are still young, and they are planning to have a third child. The couple of Shan Yue have been sick in recent years. The only daughter, Shan You, is married here again.
The two old men are too lonely and inevitably want a lively and cute little guy to be their companion, so they make such a request."
"What about me?" Ah Hu shook his head: "I can't bear it either! I want my mini tiger too!"
Seeing him angry, Cheng Tianyuan couldn't help but remind: "Calm down, your blood pressure will rise again."
Ah Hutteng fell on the sofa and spoke in anger.
Cheng Tianyuan wiped Xiao Xiaohu's mouth and coaxed him to watch TV aside.
"You, you must have a little mentality. As the saying goes, children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. If you are anxious here, maybe Shan You and Xiao Huzi have already made up and discussed it. The son and his daughter-in-law have quarreled.
, If you just quarrel, you pretend not to hear it. If the argument is so strong, you have to go forward and persuade me to leave. When you quarrel, you will not give up with one word or one word. But only one side is pulled apart,
If the elders help coax it, it will be fine soon. You are fine - if you don’t help persuade them, you will help your son! This is your biggest mistake today.”
"Actually, both Ah Qing and I were in love with Youyou." Ah Hu said in a muffled voice: "You know this too."
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "I know! But at that time everyone was angry and couldn't calm down and think about it. If they could calm down, why would they quarrel, right?"
Ah Hu sighed deeply.
Cheng Tianyuan said: "My daughter-in-law is no better than her daughter. My Xiaoxin is the youngest in the family. She is the most coquettish and has many bad habits. Although I love her the most and pamper her the most, I still have to say it when I should.
He said that he had to scold him when he should. Ling Ling also said that she was the most worried about the children. But Xiaoxiao was different. We could scold Xiaoxin, but it was hard to talk about our daughter-in-law, even if the tone was heavier.
No. Even if my daughter is beaten, she is raised by us. If you break the bones and tendons, you can grow well and recover as before. Your daughter-in-law is different. It is duty to love her, and it is too much to scold her."
"You rarely scold children," Ah Hu murmured: "It's not like Xiaohuzi-I've been angry with me since I was a child!"
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "Every child is different! Xiaohuzi has been naughty since childhood, and we are all a little gentle. He angers you, but he is also filial to you, right? We Xiaoxiao is also a good child,
Diligence and politeness can endure hardships. She gritted her teeth and persevered. She spent less than two years in the family and gave birth to two boys and two girls in one breath. She is a great hero in our family. Just this, our whole family is full of
You must love her."
Ahu couldn't help asking: "If the mother-in-law ran away and said he wanted one or two of them to take their surnames - can you agree? One for them?"
"Let Yangyang and Xiaoxiao decide by themselves." Cheng Tianyuan laughed softly: "Ling Ling and I really can't care so much. When my mother was still there, I was angry that Xiaoyu and Xiaopeng didn't follow my surname "Cheng", and even made a lot of trouble.
God. Do you still remember this?”
"Yes." Ah Hu replied: "Remember."
Cheng Tianyuan continued: "I had the same idea as Ling Ling at that time. Leave this matter to Xue Yang and Xiaoxiao, and we will not interfere. My mother couldn't accept it because she was an old traditional and old head. Ling Ling and I
The idea is consistent. No matter what the child’s surname is, it is our grandson, and there is no difference. The four of us, one or two, each of us, will take our surname. But no matter what their surname is, they are our children, and there is no difference at all
.Brother, times have changed, and people’s thoughts and ideas are also changing. Don’t care too much about what is there. The truth is to live a peaceful and stable life."
"You said it too easily!" Ah Hu said depressedly: "That's because you can see it openly... In fact, you are also very traditional in your bones."
Cheng Tianyuan smiled softly: "I have changed a lot over the years. Partly because Ling Ling has changed me, partly because I am older and have taken many things lightly. I don't know why, maybe I have lived for a long time and have a lot of calmness.
In the past, some things that seemed to be dead are now seemingly trivial, and Xiaoxiao doesn't care. I am indeed old."
After living for a long time, many things are no longer caring. Sometimes it is powerless and helpless, sometimes it is indifferent and calm, and it is also the calmness and wisdom accumulated over the years.
Ahu thought about it and whispered: "What you said just now - some people think bird's nest is treasure, while others think it is garbage. Whether it is treasure or garbage, the most important thing is how that person thinks it, right?
When you care, it doesn’t matter. When you care, it’s in your heart.”
Ayuan and Ling Ling are both open-minded people, so they didn't care much about what their grandson was surnamed, and they left it to the younger generation to deal with it.
He is different from Wang Qing. They care too much, so they are worried about gains and losses.
"That's the reason." Cheng Tianyuan lowered his voice: "Don't take it too seriously, you can relax yourself. If you can control your sons and daughters, and if you can control your grandchildren, can you continue to manage it? When did great grandchildren?
When the ancestors changed their surnames, they thought they just recognized it correctly and remembered which clan they came from. Later, there were more people, and they became crippled, married and intermarried, and all kinds of surnames were given and changed, which had already become chaotic.
In our lifetime, the children are living well and living a stable and happy life is already good enough. Brother, please take everything lightly."
"Oh..." Ahu sighed softly: "Forget it, let them young people make their own decisions. It's really... I can't control it."