The problem of Ah Hu's family was solved. After eating the hot hot pot, the family happily returned.
Some are happy and some are sad.
Cheng Tianyuan couldn't swallow his food, and was absent-minded all night.
Xue Ling saw it but did not dare to feel sorry for her husband. She secretly asked Lao Li from the big kitchen to make a portion of white porridge and put it in a small casserole to bring it back to the room.
Sure enough, Cheng Tianyuan was sitting by the window, with a glass of water on the table next to him. The temperature was gone, but he still had half a cup of water.
Xue Ling put the white porridge down and said warmly: "The hot pot soup base at night is a bit spicy. I don't think you have eaten much, so I asked Lao Li to make a casserole white porridge for you. There is a small handful of pickles on it, which should be very good when you eat it.
Xue Ling turned around and went to the cloakroom to change his clothes.
After a while, she walked back to the room.
Cheng Tianyuan was already eating porridge and asked with concern: "Have you all stopped? I lowered the temperature in their room a little earlier so that they wouldn't feel that it was too stuffy again."
"Stop." Xue Ling replied: "It's cold, and the old man couldn't help sleeping as soon as it was dark. However, I probably couldn't sleep as well in the second half of the night. I originally advised them to go to bed later and try to have a sleep.
By dawn, they said no, they might get sleepy early, and then they would wake up at three or four o'clock in the middle of the night. Instead of forcing them to doze off, it would be better to go to bed early and sleep as much as they can in the second half of the night, without having to
It's forced."
Cheng Tianyuan chuckled: "The old man can adjust it himself, and they have to arrange their work and rest time."
"Yes!" Xue Lingruo said: "We try to treat others with our own attitude, but we think that good things may not be suitable for others. So, just stop as long as possible."
The spoon in Cheng Tianyuan's hand paused and frowned.
"…The third brother really said that he wouldn't get married? Really?"
How could his most well-behaved son suddenly become an unmarried man? When did it happen? Why did he think so? Was he stimulated?
He couldn't accept it at all!
Xue Ling smiled slightly, not saying anything.
"He's still young and he has a lot of time to choose."
Cheng Tianyuan still couldn't believe it: "It's probably just talking about it, right? You didn't take it seriously, right?"
"I... took it seriously." Xue Ling took a deep breath, feeling a little drowsy in her head: "Maybe this is not the worst case, but I think it's better to take it seriously, so as not to accept it in the future. The boss is in his thirties.
There is no sign of marriage at the moment. We must also be mentally prepared, maybe he can't find a suitable one and he won't get married."
When Cheng Tianyuan heard this, his brows frowned, and the porridge in front of him seemed to be no longer fragrant at all.
"Wife, you...what happened to you today?"
Xue Ling held his temple and smiled softly.
"I'm going to give you a vaccination."
Cheng Tianyuan glanced at her and asked, "When did a heart disease also have a vaccination? Why don't I know!"
Xue Ling was amused by him and coquettishly: "Is it that exaggerated? If your son chooses not to get married, you really can't accept it at all? Other parents and children from abroad don't care when they become adults, and they will ask whoever they want to get married and who they want to live together.
Follow them, even - even when they get married, choose to respect and understand."
"Foreign is abroad, we are us." Cheng Tianyuan knocked on the spoon in his hand, "As long as they are my sons one day, as long as I am still alive for one day, I can't ignore them, just as they can't ignore us."
Xue Ling was not surprised, and Youyou breathed.
"If you care too much, it may not be good. It may not be good for children, nor may it be good for us."
Cheng Tianyuan couldn't help but suggest: "How about you listen to your mother and introduce them to a blind date?"
"Haha!" Xue Ling shook his head: "No, they won't accept it. Look, my parents have done less for him? When did he agree?"
Cheng Tianyuan was silent.
Xue Ling raised his eyebrows and whispered: "I still know the son I gave birth to. They are all people who are better than nothing. Unless they really like, they will never choose marriage. As long as they live a good life
, if you live a happy and fulfilling life, why force our concept of marriage on them? Maybe tomorrow or the day after tomorrow, they may not necessarily find the person they are moved by, right?"
Cheng Tianyuan still didn't open his mouth and continued to stir the white porridge.
Xue Ling thought for a while and whispered: "Some people's marriage is a relationship of partners. They jointly support a family, divide the work and cooperate, and support the family and take care of the elderly and the elderly. Some people's marriage is a means to change their status and situation.
Using the other party’s superior position to achieve class leap and achieve their own life ideals and goals. Some people have love because of love and want to stay with each other for a lifetime, so they finally use marriage to consolidate their love. Our eldest and third brothers are not
In the first and second situations, they will only enter marriage for love. Because of this, we are not good at interfering. What if we force a person they don’t like, wouldn’t it ruin their happiness?
, let it be."
After a pause, Cheng Tianyuan finally spoke softly.
"Wife, why did I suddenly realize that you are a bit too idealistic to deal with the problem of the eldest and third brothers... it is not very realistic."
Xue Ling chuckled: "I don't think it's like my previous style? I'm a practical and practical style?"
"Yes." Cheng Tianyuan nodded.
Xue Ling touched her nose and whispered: "We are talking about love... we can't be too practical."
Cheng Tianyuan couldn't help but complain: "We married first and then love. Is this kind of love practical enough? Why don't they learn a little?"
"We are us." Xue Ling asked back with a hilarious question: "God has given us such great luck, are you still so greedy?"
Cheng Tianyuan smiled slightly and said, "Can I be more optimistic? How did the word 'Dream Comes True' come true' come from? It can't come out of thin air, right?"
"Well." Xue Ling smiled softly: "It's worth looking forward to and optimistic. But if you really can't get what we want... you have to learn to accept it. As we get old, we have been abandoned by the ideological trend of this society."
Cheng Tianyuan took a deep breath and said with difficulty: "It's a bit difficult... In the past, poor old men in rural areas wanted to get married even if no one wanted it."
"Learn to accept it." Xue Ling smiled bitterly: "When the conditions are too good, when their cognition exceeds what ordinary people think, their choices are different."
"Can you really accept it?" Cheng Tianyuan was a little disbelief.
Xue Ling shook her head: "Aren't I trying hard to learn? Take your time. Don't break it for now, don't say it out loud, just let it go, take your time."
Cheng Tianyuan stared at her narrowed his eyes and then raised his eyebrows.