Xue Ling felt it became more and more funny and asked back: "Electricity is very dangerous. Will we not use electrical appliances because it is dangerous? Water can drown people. Could it be that we will not use water or drink water because we are afraid of drowning?"
Wang Xiaoxiao was speechless for a moment and stammered: "That's not."
Xue Ling smiled: "Many people think it's tiring to hold on to a marriage, and think that marriage is a burden, a shackle, a burden, and a arduous responsibility. In fact, marriage is indeed the case. But everything has its disadvantages and advantages, and we cannot just see all the marriage.
The disadvantage is ignoring its beauty.”
Shan You pouted and felt aggrieved: "There must be some beauty, but it feels too little. If you can barely half of it, that's OK. But obviously the disadvantages are greater than the beauty! Some people who are about the same age as me don't want it yet.
When I got married, I was already the mother of two children. I had old age and young ones. I was so responsibilities that I could not breathe. Many times I really envy those unmarried friends, who were free and did whatever they wanted.
Well, it is impossible to take a trip wherever you want to go anytime and anywhere. Full-time housewife like us."
"Didn't I say it just now?" Xue Ling smiled and explained: "If you envy others, how can you know that others don't envy you? Some people envy you for being a mother of two children at a young age. I envy you for living in a courtyard house. I envy you for having a
A luxury car and a very motivated husband. If you want to go on a trip, the premise is that the financial conditions allow, the working environment allows, and the original family allows, it is not anyone who can be so casual as long as he doesn’t get married.”
Shanyou said "Yeah~~" and turned to laugh.
Xue Ling narrowed his eyes and continued to fan the air, saying, "Everything needs to be managed with care, and the emotions and marriage are the same. If you invest more and the methods are correct, you will get more. If you manage it properly, you will get happiness and happiness in your marriage.
If it is better, if you don’t manage well, your family will be like a mess, with only all kinds of trivialities and discomforts, and may even go bankrupt - divorce."
Shan You and Wang Xiaoxiao looked at each other, and they were both deeply touched and thoughtful.
Xue Ling still wanted to pull the weeds, and was about to get up-
Wang Xiaoxiao held her hand and said coquettishly: "Mom, you are so good at doing business and managing marriages. Why don't you give us some advice and teach us!"
"Yes, right! Auntie, please give us some tricks." Shan You also acted coquettishly.
Xue Ling laughed and said, "First adjust your attitude and recognize your choices and marriage. Then, be harmonious with your family, respect the elderly and love the young, be considerate of your husband and love your husband. Especially if you love your husband and feel sorry for your husband, you must remember it carefully.
live."
"Why do you feel sorry?" Shan You couldn't help but smile bitterly: "He was so busy that he didn't even let me see a soul shadow. How could I be considerate and sorry for him?"
Xue Ling shook her head: "I have worked hard outside. I understand that it is not easy for men and women in the workplace to work hard outside. As for relationships, they need to interact with each other. If you feel pain, they will feel pain. If you care about him, they will feel pain. As long as they don't mess around,
I will also know how to be considerate of you. If he is a man who is working hard outside and works hard, he will only want to take a break after returning home, hoping that someone will care about him. But you want him to be considerate of you after returning home.
You have to coax you, over time, he will feel tired or disappointed. When he is missing, he will be moved when he meets someone who gives him warmth."
Speaking of this, Xue Ling lowered his voice: "Some men cheated not because they wanted to cheat, but because they could not get family warmth and consideration with their wives. Others could give him, so he turned to others. So, you must grasp it.
Stay in that degree and don’t take your husband’s love for you for granted. You must also know how to repay his love. Remember, love is mutual and never an unconditional effort by one party. Of course, this is an example of a good man and a good husband.
Suitable for a scumbag.”
Shan You and Wang Xiaoxiao both laughed.
Xue Ling said warmly: "We are all very lucky to choose the person we like for the rest of our lives. I have always advised the younger generation to say that the most important thing is to choose a person, and then talk about love. In addition, it must be because of the deep love of the other person.
Marry him. After the passion, the marriage is only dull and three meals a day, even trivial matters all over the ground, and all kinds of cruel reality that makes people crazy. If that person is not your true love, you want to persevere.
It's really hard to go on."
"So, my mother never forces my elder brother to go on a blind date, nor does she force the third brother to fall in love." Wang Xiaoxiao laughed and revealed the reality: "If it weren't for grandparents' daily nagging, my mother even arranged various social interactions for my elder brother.
I don’t want to have a banquet.”
Xue Ling held back her laughter and hurriedly looked towards her parents. She found that the two were staring at the rapeseed that had just sprouted. She obviously didn't hear the "gossip" here, and she breathed a sigh of relief.
"I already have a lot of things, and I don't want to exchange the happiness of my children for something I already have. As long as they are happy from the bottom of their hearts, they can find someone who truly loves each other and stay with them for the rest of their lives, slow down, hurry up, or don't pick them in the future.
, I won't mind it too much."
Wang Xiaoxiao smiled softly and whispered to the confused Shan You.
"Recently, several of my mother's business friends came to her and said she was interested in her elder brother's talent and work ability, and wanted to marry a wealthy family and join forces. My mother refused, saying that if her son had a crush on their daughter or niece, she would naturally be able to do so.
She will take the initiative to pursue her. At most, she will force her brother to participate in social activities and will never arrange a marriage for him."
Shanyou suddenly realized and said with a smile: "I understand Auntie, she is not that kind of person. She creates wealth but is not bound by wealth. She is a businessman, but she is not a person who only values profit and only values interests."
"Yes!" Wang Xiaoxiao was full of admiration: "In the future, I will take my mother as an example and be a secular person, but not be trapped by the secular world. I can see through the world and live a life of ease."
Xue Ling laughed, "I was so gloomy that I heard it! Nothing is as good as you said! I am just a vulgar man. I am just older than you and see more things in the world than you, so I just know a little more than you.
.When you reach my age, you will definitely be more transparent and free than me."
"Madam! Madam!" Achao walked over quickly and lowered his voice: "Earlier, someone sneaked into Xinyuan across the street, and the other party seemed to be a private detective."
"Oh?" Xue Ling asked calmly: "What is the origin? Have you found out?"
A Chao replied: "I found out that he is a well-known detective apprentice. The specific reason why he spied on Xinyuan has to contact him in person. However, according to the industry rules, he should not disclose it."
Xue Ling thought for a while and whispered: "Don't be careless. After investigation, contact him. Be sure to find out who hired him and what the other party's specific purpose is."
Achao nodded and quickly stepped back.
That evening, Xue Ling received investigation information from the bodyguard.