Xue Ling stunned for two seconds and asked, "... don't want to give birth? Why?"
Chen Xinzhi's bitter smile: "She brushed some videos of having some children and children all day, which was frightened. She was always worried that she would deform when she was pregnant.
Teach the baby all kinds of anxiety and troubles. In short -she is now afraid of giving birth to a baby, so she does not want to prepare for pregnancy, and even think about Dink in the future. "
Xue Ling gave a white eye directly: "If every woman thinks like her so, human beings will be extinct long ago?"
It is so easy to raise a baby to raise a baby, but when it comes to the word "mother", many people will not be the word "great" in the first reaction.
If the mothers take care of their figures one by one, they don't want to conceive the hard work of October, and they don't like the trivial and upset of the baby to raise a baby. Where can the children come from?
"
Chen Xinzhi's grievances explained: "Mom, I have given her freedom and time in these years. She is younger than me, and I can’t bear to be held by her children at a young age.
I want children again after the year. I have never said that I don't want children ... you know. "
"I know." Xue Ling nodded gently: "Most people get married to organize their families to reproduce their descendants. I recognize it."
Although single is independent and relaxed, but people are generally pursuing a universal model -love, getting married and having children.
Human beings are inherited from generation to generation, like those who do not have a family, they are generally treated as aliens or alternatives. They have no social recognition or pursuing the freedom of freedom of the whole people.
I do n’t know if there is any, but at least I have never heard of it so far.
Chen Xinzhi smiled: "I am a traditional person, I just want to organize a happy family with my beloved, my children and grandchildren, and my family is happy."
Xue Ling helplessly said: "She is the oldest of the family, not mature and stable than other brothers. Listening to the wind for a while is rain, one thought for a while. You may have to give her a while."
Among the few children, the fourth child made them the most worrying. I thought that the family had established a karma and married, and it should be more mature. Who knows that it is difficult to move in nature!
Chen Xinzhi's explanation: "My mother urged me to say that it should not be too late, because the child is not able to conceive at any time. So, I don’t intend to contraception, and want to let it go.
Nourishing the child to give birth to a child. If there is no good news, there is no need to be anxious, anyway, it is naturally. But she suddenly said that she didn't want to have children, because she satisfied the current work and family environment.
The set changed her original life trajectory. "
"... haha!" Xue Ling laughed: "The first time she heard her" think deeply "! Have you told her -the boat to the bridge is naturally straight? There are so many families in the world to have children.
Will life be messy? "
Chen Xin looked at the beloved little wife subconsciously and lowered her voice: "She refuses to listen to me now, and I can’t force her."
"So, do you want me to persuade her?" Xue Ling asked: "Have you not talked to her?"
After all, her daughter has grown up and marrying people, and she is not easy to interfere with too much. If she is just discussing discussions, then she is not able to talk about it.
Chen Xinzhi explained: "I have said it several times, but she refused to listen. She said she felt that Dink was pretty good."
"Have you told her that our family can't accept Dink." Xue Ling said: "The older generation does not need to say, and her dad has 10,000 opposition!"
Chen Xinzhi's eyes were slightly embarrassing, and he subconsciously glanced at Lin Qingzhi on the other side, and quickly retracted his eyes.
"She said that you and dad have always been very enlightened parents. Even if they can't accept it temporarily, they will soon accept it. She also said that you can accept the third child and A Qing.
It can be hard to fall down. "
Xue Ling: "..."
Chen Xinzhi hurriedly explained: "Mom, she has nothing to ridicule -simply thinks that you are not ordinary parents.
"Can you compare it?" Xue Ling secretly became angry, and his tone aggravated: "Have you told them -the third child and Aqing will have a few children in the future? Ah?"
"This ..." Chen Xinzhi laughed: "Really? A Qing and the third decision?"
Xue Lingzhong nodded: "Yes, they have decided. If they are fast, they are next year or later. People want to give birth to their offspring by IVF.
Brother Bi, what do you do to have a child than to have a child? She has four or five, and there are fewer younger than her! "
Chen Xinzhi's slightly embarrassed, whispered: "Where am I willing to make her suffer so many ... the most two. I am not greedy, I just want to have two me and her children."
"You persuaded first." Xue Ling reminded: "You can still be slow, and the things of Xiaoyu are almost imminent and have to deal with it."
"Not in a hurry." Chen Xinzhi explained: "I will be able to communicate with you first, I hope you will urge Xiao Xin more when you are free. She has always listened to you and dad. If you oppose it, she dare not insist."
"Rest assured." Xue Ling promised: "I will find a chance to scold her."
Chen Xinzhi couldn't help reminding: "Mom, she won't let me ..."
"I understand." Xue Ling calmly said: "I just pulled you to ask Duoduo and Xiaoyu, didn't ask other."
"Thank you Mom." Chen Xinzhi smiled thanks.
Xue Ling Wenxuan reminded: "Since there is a mind to prepare for pregnancy, you have to contact your family doctor to talk about some matters. No matter how many blessings, we must be eugenic and good, right?"
"Okay." Chen Xinzhi nodded: "I will contact me when I turn around."
Xue Ling whispered: "Iron head, Xiaoxin is still young and not sensible enough. Although she is married, she is still our daughter. It should be the responsibility of her parents.
It has nothing to do with us when marrying. If she has something extraordinary, you have to tell us that you are not allowed to help her hide. "
"No ... no." Chen Xinzhi's embarrassment: "Xiaoxin is very good, just a little naughty, no other disadvantages."
Xue Ling haha twice, and then drank the remaining water.
"When you spoil her, you have to weigh whether you can control her. It is not a relationship between the partners to manage each other, but you must control the other party with your heart.