At around nine o'clock in the morning, Chen Xinzhi accompanied Xue Xin to drink porridge in the big dining room.
Xiaohuzi came late while yawning and muttered: "It's so early!"
Xue Xin looked suspicious: "No, right? Brother Huzi, you just got up at this point? Where is Xiao Xiaohu? Don't you need to go to class today?"
"I went to school in the morning." Xiaohuzi explained: "I had breakfast with him early in the morning and then personally sent him to the school gate. After delivering it back, it was only 7 o'clock. I was still sleepy, so I just went to bed and went back to the cage.
Sleep."
Chen Xinzhi raised his eyebrows and asked, "Old Chen is not here today?"
"Here." Xiaohuzi smiled bitterly: "The boy insisted that I send him this morning, saying that the classmates laughed at him for not being able to pick him up and drop him off. I specially sent him over to support him."
Xue Xin felt distressed when she heard this and asked, "Students laugh at him? Really?"
Xiaohuzi explained helplessly: "All boys of this age are heartless. Not only do they like to compete, but they also like to dig out the mistakes of their classmates. His grades are not very good, and his classmates will not give him face.
He only had a driver to pick him up and drop him off, so he laughed at his father for not loving his mother. The little guy couldn't help crying when he was frustrated, so he told me that I had to pick him up and drop him off when I had time. I said, I would go to pick him up and drop him off in the morning, but I might not be able to hurry up in the afternoon, so I would still let him go.
Old Chen goes to pick it up.”
"So that's the case." Xue Xin couldn't help but persuade: "If you have time, please pick him up and drop him up."
Xiaohuzi is both a father and a mother. He was originally a person who was generous and had a completely different personality because he was beaten up by life.
"As long as I can separate myself, I will definitely not miss his school activities and parent-teacher meetings. But... there are so many things in the school! When we were in school, we had a parent-teacher meeting at most one semester. Now,
Not only does parent meetings, parent-child meetings, but also sports meetings. There are so many leaders! What kind of handicrafts, paintings, and festivals - I can't count them! I occasionally want to go to the parent group
There are a few roars and shouts! Really! Parents don’t just wait for their children to go to school every day to sleep! Parents also have to make money, they all go out early and work late!"
Grandpa and grandparents gave birth to seven or eight children. If they wanted to raise each of them like the current children, would they dare to give birth to seven or eight? Both of them thought they were too many!
Xiao Huzi is now so dazzled that he is so tired that he deals with a child alone!
Xue Xin heard it and muttered: "It's true now... There is a working mother in the company. Her child is seven or eight years old. She goes to work every day and gets off work in a hurry. Sometimes she doesn't even have to comb her hair and can't wear clothes.
As the season, the makeup is hard to describe, and it looks quite embarrassing. hr said that she often asks for leave, various parent-teacher meetings, and occasionally invites twice a month. Many hr insist on recruiting single women, and all the married women are applying for each case
Rejection is because my mother’s working hours are not stable.”
"It's not that people suspect that working mothers are incompetent." Xiao Huzi shrugged: "It's because the reality is too cruel. Working mothers don't have so much time to work overtime, and they have to take leave from time to time because of their children. Nowadays, families with many children usually have to take full-time care by one person.
Children, pick them up and drop them off to and from school, and deal with all kinds of trivial matters in the school."
"It's so miserable~" Xue Xin muttered: "Fortunately we didn't need this when we were young, otherwise my mother might not be President Xue."
Xiaohuzi chuckled and said, "Auntie can probably become President Xue, but Uncle Ayuan may not even be able to do business, so he can only be the head of the family forever."
"It's so miserable!" Xue Xin couldn't bear to imagine.
Although Chen Xinzhi spoke a little, he also agreed with their words.
"In the past, there was a family yard in the factory, and basically one person made money, and the family could barely feed. Most mothers were housewives, taking care of the elderly, taking care of the hygiene and having three meals. If the children were older, mothers would make money by doing odd jobs and handmade work.
, help subsidize the household income. Now it’s different, everything is expensive, every thing you eat, drink, accommodation and transportation is expensive. There are various mortgage loans that force mothers to go out to find a job. The family doesn’t care about it and cannot do a good job. It’s very important
Not easy.”
Xue Xin was curious when she heard this and asked, "Family resident? It's the employee dormitory? As long as it's someone from the unit, you can send it?"
"Most factories have family yards." Chen Xinzhi explained: "Some are built by units, and some are built by units and individuals. The houses are not big and crowded, but they all came here at that time. There are units with them.
The family resident yard solves the living problems. The unit benefits are good and the suites can be divided into good areas."
"Yes!" Xiaohuzi explained: "My father said that the unit used to divide houses. He was not married at first, so he couldn't get a house. Later, he resigned and made money with his aunt, and then started buying commercial housing. He also said,
The first batch of commercial housing in Rongcheng were all those by the river, most of which were developed by my aunt.”
Speaking of this, Xiaohuzi couldn't help but complain: "The commercial housing was cheap at that time, not as expensive as it is now! Everything is expensive now! There is nothing inexpensive about food, clothing, housing and transportation! Children study, buy houses, and medical care... It seems
It's really not expensive. Last week, Xiao Xiaohu coughed, so I bought a bottle of Child Cough Cuckoo and other things - fifty-six yuan! Just a small bottle! A pacifier costs dozens of yuan, and a bottle costs one or two hundred yuan! Price
It's ridiculously expensive!"
Xue Xin nodded and turned to laugh.
"Aren't we... talking about the topic of children just now? Why did we come to social pressure as we talk?"
"It's very reasonable!" Xiaohuzi said: "I am a father who makes money, but I am still worried about raising children. It can be seen that those who don't make much money or cannot make money, how should they raise children?
Isn’t this social pressure?”
"The pressure is high." Xue Xin rubbed her lower abdomen, "I didn't dare to have a second child anymore."
Chen Xinzhi reminded him funnyly: "It's not too late to give birth to the first child safely, and then worry about the second child. You, you're worried about it."
Xiaohuzi didn't dare to delay for too long, so he went to work after breakfast.
Xue Xin didn't sleep well last night. After taking a few sips of porridge, she planned to go back to her room to make up for her sleep.
"Wait!" Chen Xinzhi stopped her and explained: "The medicine is almost ready, drink it before taking it to take it to rest."
Xue Xin looked around and asked, "My second brother hasn't come back yet, right?"
"No." Chen Xinzhi replied: "Go out at three or four in the morning and you will probably not be able to come back in the evening."
Xue Xin felt distressed when she heard this: "He has been really busy and tired recently. No need to be nervous about his second sister-in-law. How could a person who is really busy have so much effort!"
Chen Xinzhi's brows moved slightly and asked, "What? Xiaoxiao is really worried about this?"
"Yes!" Xue Xin lowered her voice: "She was worried that her second brother would be surrounded by beautiful women, and she would be targeted by other women if she accidentally did, so she was trembling."