Mother Xue sat on the concubine chair, blowing the sun and blowing the sea breeze.
Xue Ling took a hair dryer to the old man carefully drying his silver hair, and told: "If you wash it at night, run out directly.
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"I know." Mother Xue joked, "I'm just old, not stupid."
Xue Ling put down the hair dryer and helped her comb her hair.
"I have told the housekeeper and An An so that when they help you wash your hair, let you lie down and clean, and you can't bend down your neck. Your old man must remember it yourself, don't put your head for too long."
"Know, you know!" Mother Xue teased: "Old, not using it, not even lowering his head. When I was young, I resolutely did not bow to the difficulties. Now I am older.
, I still can't bow my head. "
Xue Linghaha laughed, stroking the old mother's silver -white hair.
"Because you are a new era of women who can't bow their heads, I don't know how to bow!"
Mother Xue's smile took a bit of bitterness, saying: "The so -called new era has passed. Our new era was decades ago, and the new era is young and has no relationship with us. The new era is too
Beautiful, too novel, we didn't bow our heads, but we have to fold it. "
"Isn't it all?" Xue Ling smiled: "I'm younger than you, I have to serve the old, let alone you."
Ms. Xue sighed lightly: "It is easy to serve the old, it is still more difficult to convince you. You, what should you be busy, and my dad has been moving. Besides, is there no A Yuan?
More attentive than you, and more than you like a few of our old guys. "
Xue Ling couldn't help laughing and asked: "Do you like this to praise the son -in -law or scold the son -in -law?"
"Of course praise!" Mother Xue excitedly said: "He is a son -in -law, taking care of us is not his duty. Can he do this, all the way is love. Can I do it?
It ’s not picky, what can we do if he said." What can we do? "
"Yeah!" Xue Ling teased: "What I said, repeated three times, you can not hear it. A Yuan said only it, you immediately executed it. Sure enough, the son -in -law's face is valuable!"
"Of course!" Mother Xue politely said: "You can't compare with him! No comparable to him!"
Xue Lingle saw it: "So, I asked your son -in -law to take care of the two of you, and he worked hard to take his grandchildren."
When Mother Xue thought of a few great -grandchildren, her heart suddenly stepped on.
"Everyone is still small, and they are inseparable from the age of her mother. Xiaoxiao she hasn't come back yet, you have to help look at it well. It is responsible for seeing children."
Xue Ling cried and laughed: "I am a grandma, without the obligation to see the child, but I have the responsibility of seeing the child."
"Of course!" Mother Xue explained: "The young man entrusts the child to you, and it is determined that you have to help them bring them. If you are not good, the child is sick, and the young people will naturally think that you do not take care of it.
Or somewhere is not good enough. It ’s so good to bring children, and they think it’ s taken for granted. If you do n’t do well, you complain secretly. "
Xue Ling understood the hints in the old mother's words, saying: "Children and parents cannot be separated for a long time. The current domestic epidemic is stable, and the situation is better than foreign countries. It’ s eight or nine months here, and it ’s time to go back.
"
Ms. Xue nodded: "Yes! You can help you, you can't rely on you everything. You are all old, you can’t keep up with this society, you can’t teach the child. In the end, the child has to rely on
Biological parents teach, you are your grandparents, not parents. Don't always think that you are better, young people are much better than you! "
"That's it." Xue Ling nodded: "The key still depends on their own parents. We are assisting, we can't be the full -time grandparents."
Mother Xue picked her bald brows and whispered: "You have to think about other daughter -in -law. You are not only promoting a son, not only Xiaoxiao, a daughter -in -law. You can help the second child with four children, what about your old everyone?
My son brings it, can you not help your daughter? You still think about it, don't just feel that you can help. The boss already has one child, and there will be a second child soon.
. The third child should not be far away. The four are your baby, you won't prefer anyone, but if you just turn to a certain one, the days are long, and others will have no opinion? "
"Yes." Xue Ling smiled bitterly: "You are right. There were only the second house before, then we naturally helped them more. Now the boss also has children, we can't always help the second home."
Mother Xue looked at the left, right.
"You, don't think that daughter -in -law is a child with a reasonable affection, you can think of it. They are reasonable. It is the same thing that you have to be an elder for a long time.
It is inevitable that there will be dissatisfaction, even 龃龉. "
"I know." Xue Ling stroked his mother's hair, warm voice: "Thank you for your reminder."
Mother Xue nodded with satisfaction and whispered: "You, you, and only did the grandparents and grandma for a few years. There must be something wrong with it. Remember, don't help which household, and no one.
Children, as soon as they are equally. Seeing the children, we must maintain the same. One of them is their own cuisine, we set up a handle. They have something to do with it, you can help it. For a short time, the days are long.
I can't three heads and six arms, I have to be more cautious. "
"Yes." Xue Ling smiled bitterly: "I and A Yuan are not young, and they are prone to dizziness when they are in trouble. Now there are four or five, even if there is a nanny to help, we are still overwhelmed, so busy. If there are a few more more,
, That's even more impossible. "
"Take care of you." Mother Xue continued: "Not the children are not filial, they have to make money one by one, and they have no time to take care of you at all. While you give them a handle, you should take care of you.
You. Once you are ill, they take care of them, and they can't care about you. You take care of yourself, you are physically and mentally relieved, and children do not have to worry about it. While hurting others, they should hurt themselves, especially they should hurt themselves, especially for themselves, especially for themselves.
It is the old man of this age, which is easier to be ignored by them. "
"Isn't it!" Xue Ling murmured: "After I was old with A Yuan, I was too tired to be uncomfortable. Some minor illnesses and small pains were afraid of the young people who were worried about it. They would generally not say it.
We are still old -fashioned, but we know our hard work and exhaustion! "