In a blink of an eye, Xue Ling was almost ready to go out of confinement.
Xue’s mother and mother-in-law Liu Ying have been with her at home, cooking three meals and helping take care of the children.
After all, Xue Ling is young. Except for being a little uncomfortable a few days ago, she gradually got better, which is similar to usual and has no discomfort.
"Apart from the two days of breastfeeding, nothing else was uncomfortable." Xue Ling said.
Wang Qing and Editor-in-Chief Lin looked at each other, one blushed and smiled, while the other couldn't hide his envy: "Young is good. When I was pregnant with the third child, I was already in my thirties and had been raising it for more than half a month before I got out of the house.
Get a bed."
Editor-in-chief Lin has been thinking about coming to see her, so he took advantage of the weekend to pull Wang Qing together.
She is already in her forties and the children at home are getting older, so she doesn't have to worry about taking care of them.
She raised three children at home. She was very experienced in raising children and was able to do it with ease. She told Xue Ling a lot of parenting stories and told her to go.
Wang Qing listened with relish and remembered it carefully.
Xue Ling smiled and said, "I didn't take it myself. Now it's all my mother-in-law and mother. I occasionally hug you when I have time in the morning and at noon, but I don't care."
Editor-in-chief Lin said: "The main reason is that you are in confinement now. They can't bear to bear it and want you to rest more. When you are out of confinement, you have to take care of it yourself, right?"
"My mother-in-law said she wants to help me take care of it." Xue Ling explained: "I discussed it with my lover. During the day, the old man helped me take care of it, and at night we will take care of it. The old man is old and has poor sleep at night, so let her sleep more.
We can take some of them ourselves.”
Editor-in-chief Lin praised: "You know how to be considerate of the elderly, it's great! I had to go to work and take care of the children, so I was so busy that my mother-in-law was in good health at the time. I came to take care of me for a few years, otherwise I would
It must be too busy."
Xue Ling smiled and said, "This is the first one, and there are enough manpower at present."
"Don't worry about having a second child too soon." Editor-in-chief Lin hooked her finger, "Although you are young and healthy, you can't oversquander. Pregnancy and giving birth to a child is a very difficult process, and you have to raise it first.
Recover slowly and then decide to have one more. First, it is to increase the age of the child, so it will not be too tiring to raise him, and it will take care of the child more thoughtfully. Second, it is that your body can rest well and there will be no major damage.
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Xue Ling nodded.
Wang Qing, who was standing by, couldn't help but wonder: "It's very hard to conceive a child... isn't it? I see many friends say they have morning sickness or something."
"It's not just this hard work," explained Editor Lin: "It's mainly because after getting pregnant, the hormones in the body will change everywhere in the chest, and there will be a big change. This process needs to be changed and then slowly repaired. In short,
It’s not easy for women to have children!”
Wang Qing blushed, and he couldn't ask anything else.
Xue Ling had already experienced the process of giving birth, and immediately nodded and echoed: "It hurts so much! I don't know if I don't have a child. Only after giving birth can I know how painful the pain is!"
Editor-in-chief Lin shook his head and smiled bitterly: "When I gave birth to my first child, I had a pain in the hospital for three days and three nights."
Wang Qing was so scared that his face was pale and asked, "Three days and three nights?! Are you kidding, are you?"
"Of course, it's not the kind that keeps hurting." Editor Lin laughed and explained: "The pain is a burst of pain, otherwise it would have been painful all the time - that person would have been in pain for a long time! Haha! At that time, I took advantage of the time when I was out of time.
Eat quickly, and when I was tired, I fell down to sleep. My wife had never been a father at that time, and she was so scared that she almost didn't have a rest for three days and three nights. I almost lost my energy after giving birth, but my wife was still in good spirits, but my wife fell head-on
I was so scared that the doctor and the nurse rushed to him."
Xue Ling and Wang Qing both laughed.
Editor-in-chief Lin ran to see Xiao Ranran, and kept praising her after she came back.
"The little boy is so handsome. I don't know how many women's hearts will be harmed when he grows up! I just said it was 'Huangran', right? Oh! This name is well-known, very charming and has a good meaning."
Wang Qing smiled softly: "It must be what Ling Ling, the mother-in-law, took it?"
"No." Xue Ling explained: "It was my lover who took it. He said that after having me and my child, his life and family were completely renewed. So he named the child 'Huangran'. Now we only call him
The nickname is Ranran."
"Ah..." Editor-in-chief Lin almost applauded with a smile: "It's so romantic! It's nice and romantic!"
Wang Qing's eyes were also shining: "Your lover looks a bit rigid and serious, but I didn't expect that his heart was so soft and considerate. How much does he recognize you!"
Xue Ling covered her mouth and smiled, "I don't know this!"
"Will you not know?" Editor-in-chief Lin sneered: "Just pretend you!"
All three of them laughed.
Editor-in-chief Lin said: "Other colleagues asked me to greet you. If you can't come together, I'm afraid you will have trouble calling me. They have prepared gifts for your Xiao Ranran. When you are out of confinement, remember to go to the newspaper to get it when you have time."
Xue Ling smiled, "Thank you for me. My lover has also prepared some gifts for you. When I am out of confinement, I will take them to you together."
Editor-in-chief Lin was soon surprised by the decoration of her house, "The decoration of the wooden structure is very attractive and has an ancient charm! Your place is so big! Can I go out for a walk and take a look?"
“Some visit.”
"Okay! Then I'll go and take a look. I've wanted to see the legendary 'Wangjiangyuan' elevator room!"
After Editor-in-Chief Lin walked out, Wang Qing hurriedly came over to Xue Ling, lowered his voice to talk about his family affairs.
"Ling Ling, I have listened to your advice last time. I have been chatting with my mother for a long time. She finally nodded in agreement. She agreed that I would give my family a hundred yuan a month, and the other half would
I'll assign myself."
Xue Ling laughed after hearing this and held her hand.
"This way you don't have to worry, it's great! No matter what you say, it's your mother's daughter, she will still feel sorry for you."
Wang Qing sighed softly, "It hurts, but compared to my brother, I'm nothing. She said this was a decision after marriage, and I still have to hand in it all in the past few months."
Xue Ling whispered: "Your mother compromised halfway, and you should be satisfied. It is not easy for her to raise you. As a child, you have the right to support your parents!"
Wang Qing nodded and suddenly remembered something.
"By the way, Ling Ling, are you the only daughter? Then when your parents get old, you will have to bear their obligation to support them."
"Yes." Xue Ling was not worried at all and explained: "My parents are still young now, but I have already booked a pension plan for them, which is very detailed and comprehensive. Of course, when they are older, I will
They came here to live with us. They and my parents-in-law were both old acquaintances and had a good relationship, so they were not afraid that they would not get along with each other."
"Then... do your lover agree?" Wang Qing couldn't help but remind: "Some rural men ignore their daughter-in-law's family when they get married."
Xue Ling raised his eyebrows and replied with a smile: "I should agree! I will discuss with him carefully then and I will never let him suffer too much."