When Xiao Zheng Zheng was taken care of by her mother-in-law, she was chubby and white, and she was so cute.
He likes to sticky Zheng Duoduo, but he is too busy. He can hold the child and play with him for a while, and then he goes to eat and take a shower.
He also likes to stick to himself, but she doesn't like to put on hugs and posts. She feels that being so intimate with her son will make him like to stick to others more and want others to accompany him to coax him more.
Therefore, she didn't get close to her son much, and even told her mother-in-law not to accompany her child for twenty-four hours, and try to let him play and play by himself.
Gradually, the child only needs to be hugged by his father, and he will stop looking for her to hug him.
She didn't think anything was wrong, but instead felt that the child wouldn't bother her and ask her to disturb her - it would be great!
A kind mother often defeats her son. She wants to be a strict, capable and courageous mother. Unlike her own mother, she walks around the stove at home and around the children every day, but she will not get the understanding of her children and husband.
The father looked down on his mother, and his younger brother looked down on his mother like his father. He rolled his eyes and was bored, and even spoke harshly to his mother from time to time.
She felt sorry for her mother and secretly vowed not to repeat her mother's mistakes and would never spoil her children, especially boys who should have a sense of responsibility and responsibility.
So, she said she loved her son, but secretly vowed in her heart that she could only be a strict mother and never spoil her child.
When my mother-in-law was alive, she took care of her children in every detail. She secretly felt that it was not good, but the children were all under the care of the elderly and she couldn't help herself. Moreover, her mother-in-law loved her like her biological daughter, so she couldn't say too much.
Later, my mother-in-law was gone, and the nanny came to apply for the job one after another, and she drove away one after another.
Those who spoil their children too much, let everything be with them - don't!
Those who care about their work and don’t care about their children – don’t!
She is timid and unconfident, she does whatever she says - no!
I sit next to my child every day and circle around my child, and I am lazy in any work - don’t!
No sense of responsibility, lack of confidence in speaking and speaking, and perfunctory - don't want to do it!
Relying on his beauty, he dresses up beautifully every day, and he is delusional to hook up with Zheng Duoduo's - he can't even ask for it!
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So the nannies left one by one, and even the agent boss was scared and did not dare to take her orders, saying that her money was too difficult to make.
Zheng Duoduo was also very angry and said that the child got sick every now and hadn't gotten familiar with a nanny yet, so he immediately changed another one, and he didn't even have the chance to adapt and run-in. He obviously didn't have the ability to take care of him, so why should he force too much?
Yes, she is not able to take care of her, but it doesn’t mean she pays for it, and she still has to accept unsatisfied child-raising services.
Every time the child falls ill, Zheng Duoduo and she have to take turns to take leave and take turns to accompany the child in the hospital.
During the epidemic, there were panic everywhere, and the hospital staff were even more nervous. Without a 24-hour negative nucleic acid test report, no one is allowed to enter at any door.
Zheng Duoduo was afraid that she might be infected, so he took the initiative to go to the hospital to accompany her son every time, and occasionally asked her assistant or assistant to help her help.
Many times she could go to and from get off work normally and didn't even have to go to the hospital. But as her son's condition worsened, Zheng Duoduo became more and more dissatisfied.
He said that if you want to hire a nanny, you should be self-aware that the nanny will definitely not be able to compare with her family, because she is working with money, not because her relatives are taking care of the children based on love and thinking about the children.
He also said that if she is always unhappy with the nanny, she might as well quit her job and stay at home to take care of the children.
This sentence ignited her fear and anger!
What she cares most about is her career, what she cares most about is that her talents cannot be displayed, and what she fears most is to be a housewife.
Even if the current housewife is changed to a "full-time housewife", its connotation has not deteriorated due to its name change. It is still the former housewife, and it is still a family and children.
This is what she fears the most!
Zheng Duoduo also became angry and said that he was carrying too much behind his back, saying that Sister Ling trusted him so much, and that his uncle valued him so much, and handed over the huge group to his hands, he could not let their expectations down, etc.
After all, it was nothing more than saying that he could not resign. If he could, he would have quit his job to take care of his son.
He can't, she can?
At that moment, she also broke out and had a fierce argument with him.
The child cried, crying very scared, and was trembling and looking for his father to hug him.
Zheng Duoduo picked up his son and went upstairs to coax his son.
She was so angry that she didn't want to face such a husband and family, so she packed up her things and went out angrily.
Zheng Duoduo ignored her and stayed at home with his son.
Emperor did not lack good hotels or hotels. She walked out for a moment and found a four-star hotel and checked in without saying a word.
A few days later, his tone softened and he coaxed her back.
She made it clear that as long as his proposal remained unchanged, she would never be able to compromise.
Zheng Duoduo asked her back, saying that even if he didn't want to share dividends, his salary and subsidy income alone would be several million or tens of millions a year. And she could not even compare to his fraction of the money.
, let her compromise.
He also said that the child is the son of the two of them, not someone else's. Even for the sake of the child, isn't it okay?
She got angry and asked why she had to sacrifice her career for her son.
Zheng Duoduo said that this is a job, not a career.
She cried and said loudly that she needed work. She liked work and also liked the feeling of working hard step by step.
Zheng Duoduo was quiet for a few seconds and hung up the call.
She was very worried, very scared, and especially afraid that once she quit her job and takes care of her children at home, she would never be able to live without her family and the four words "full-time housewife" in her life.
How many powerful professional women are originally so glorious and beautiful. Once they get married, have children, and resign to raise children, she becomes a housewife who can only circle around the children and roam around the kitchen, with disheveled faces.
If you can go to kindergarten for one child, your husband will persuade you that you have already quit anyway, so take the opportunity to have a second child. When the second child grows up, you will be relaxed and go to work if you want to.
According to Zheng Duoduo's personality and family environment, he will pursue a second child or even a third child.
But she is no longer young!
It takes at least six or seven years for the eldest, and then prepare for pregnancy and pregnancy, and then take care of the child until he goes to elementary school.
By then, she would be nearly forty years old and would be out of the workplace for seven or eight years. No matter how high her diploma or ability is, which unit would have a new employee in her forties!
She was afraid, she was really afraid!
Once she can't stand giving up, it means she may reach such a pitiful state.
She didn't want it, she didn't want it at all.
So, she made it clear that she would rather divorce than leave her job!