Cheng Tianyuan shook his head and smiled bitterly: "Is it so easy to have a housework, are you tired?"
"There is no way!" Xue Ling whispered: "The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law problem is a big problem in the family. Can it be handled well? It affects the stability and happiness of a family."
For the wife, she grew up in her parents' home and got along with her parents and sisters. She suddenly married into her husband's home, which means she was in a brand new and unfamiliar environment.
Her husband's family's personality traits and living habits must be adapted to everything.
Those with strong adaptability can barely integrate into it quickly. Those with poor adaptability will inevitably become noisy.
"If it's your own parents, even if you scold you and beat you, it may be fine in one or two days. Because I have lived under the same roof for so many years, my flesh and blood is thicker than water, so even if it's noisy, I'm notorious.
, and it will soon disappear. Just like if you quarrel with your mother just now, if you call her a few times later, she will probably forget about it in the afternoon. Because you are her own son."
Xue Ling sighed and shook her head: "But if I quarrel with her, even if she loves me, even if she loves me and cares about me, once there is a crack in the quarrel, it will be difficult to repair. The mother-in-law's tolerance for her daughter-in-law is no match for her son.
Correspondingly, the daughter-in-law can act coquettishly with her mother, but most of the mother-in-law can’t tolerate it. In fact, it’s really not easy to be a woman.”
Just like Sister Chen, she grew up with her husband’s childhood sweetheart and had a deep relationship. Now she has a cute and beautiful little daughter. What a happy family she should have been.
But her mother-in-law and father-in-law came to her house to make trouble every few days, which made her unable to bear it again and again, and she felt sad and even made trouble with her husband.
She didn't mean that Chen Shuiyu was the right party, but felt that getting along with was not a matter of one party, but of both parties.
"My parents-in-law cannot just ask for it, but also consider the actual situation of the family. Don't always think that my son was born and raised by me. It is natural for me to go to my son's door to pay for his son. Although my daughter-in-law is someone else's daughter, she is also you.
The daughter-in-law of the family. She lives in her parents' home for at most 20 years, but she has to spend the rest of her life in her in-laws' home. Don't always treat her as an outsider, otherwise how can we get along well."
Cheng Tianyuan was stunned when he heard this, and he felt that Xue Ling's mood seemed a little heavy.
He is not a married daughter, so it is difficult for him to understand that feeling.
However, when he heard her say this, he felt deeply distressed.
She married here from afar. At first, her family was poor and she could work hard with herself, and gradually supported this family, respected her parents, and took care of her sister-in-law... She had already done her best!
But as a husband, he ignored the grievances and hardships she had endured deep in her heart.
"daughter in law……"
"I'm fine." Xue Ling quickly regained his smile and smiled low: "I just... I was just feeling it for a moment. I'm very lucky that there is no conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the family."
Cheng Tianyuan nodded.
He remembered the scene where she was blocking between him and his old mother just now.
As a mother, how could she bear to let her son get sick from the cold? She should have advised her mother earlier, but the old man was stubborn and wanted to spoil her grandson.
She held back and did not quarrel with her mother-in-law head-on, but stood aside and watched the old and the young play with snow.
If she was like herself, she immediately scolded the old man with a serious face and even said ugly things, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law would have already started arguing.
I have to say that her tolerance made him admire and moved her.
If you want to get along well, you must have someone’s silent tolerance and regression.
He held Xue Ling's hand and squeezed it hard.
Xue Ling smiled at him, shook her head, and said that she did not take it to heart.
At this time, Liu Ying from the kitchen shouted: "Ling, the ginger water has been boiled. I have put some sugar on it and it is drying it."
"Hey!" Xue Lingsong lifted Cheng Tianyuan and quickly walked to the kitchen. "Mom, it's really cold outside. Let's drink a bowl each before setting off. Xiao Ranran puts a little more sugar, otherwise he would be afraid that he wouldn't dare to drink it."
Liu Ying nodded and asked worriedly: "Does he still sneeze? Isn't he running nose?"
"Don't sneeze anymore." Xue Ling explained: "But there is still some water in your nose. It's okay, so I'll try to coax him to drink ginger water and it will stop flowing soon."
Liu Ying whispered embarrassedly: "It's all my fault for being soft-hearted... I can't bear to let my eldest grandson cry... When he cries, my heart hurts a lot! It's so uncomfortable!"
Xue Ling smiled and said, "That's because you love him so much!"
Liu Ying laughed and said, "Who doesn't love his eldest grandson!"
Xue Ling shouted: "Brother Yuan! Come and drink ginger water! Mom has already cooked it!"
Cheng Tianyuan came over, Liu Ying signaled the inside of the kitchen with his chin and said, "The sugar has been put down, so drink it quickly."
"Okay." Cheng Tianyuan nodded.
Xue Ling looked at the mother and son and smiled softly.
That's it. As long as you call you to have a meal between your mother and your son, nothing will happen.
But if it is between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it will take a long time to have a quarrel, or even a long time to be separated.
So, she asked Chen Shuiyu to find Shanyue as a backer and let Shanyue go to handle his parents, which was an excellent suggestion.
At first, Xiao Ranran was afraid of the spicy ginger and water, so she only drank a little.
Xue Ling and Cheng Tianyuan coaxed him to drink a few more sips and add a little more honey. The little guy finally drank them all.
After drinking ginger water, the family set out to the development zone.
The store has not opened much these days. Today is a happy day and the store has not done any business.
Chen Min's relatives and friends have already arrived. Fortunately, the store is wide and there are many chairs. They sit in groups of three or two. Everyone smiles while eating and chatting, and the atmosphere is very good.
Liu Ying glanced in the car and said with a smile: "It's great to have a small restaurant now! You can just pay for it when you eat and drink! Look, relatives and friends don't have to help with their work at all, just sit and wait for food."
"Yes!" Xue Ling explained: "The hotel is outside the development zone, just walk over, it's really convenient."
Cheng Tianyuan stopped the car and carried his son into his arms.
"The snow on the ground is a bit thick, you can walk better."
Xue Ling hurriedly walked around and helped her mother-in-law walk together.
Ahu's mother was calling everyone to eat melon seeds and peanuts. When she saw them coming, she laughed happily.
"Old sister-in-law! I'm waiting for you!"
Liu Ying rushed forward with a big step and asked with a smile: "Where is the bride? Hurry up! Let's see the bride first!"
Ah Hu's mother was so happy to see Xiao Ranran.
"Hurry! Hold Xiao Ranran first and hold it in the bride! Next year she will give birth to a boy who is as cute as Xiao Ranran!"
Everyone on the side laughed one after another.
Cheng Tianyuan carried his son to Xue Ling and whispered: "They are all on the second floor. You take Xiao Ranran and your mother up there, and I will help greet the guests."
Several bridesmaids on the second floor were chattering, and the bride was also inside. It was inconvenient for him to go up as a big man.
Xue Ling nodded and took her mother-in-law and Xiao Ranran to the second floor.
Cheng Tianyuan ran to the big kitchen and saw his father boiling water. There were several large hot water kettles waiting next to him, while Ah Hu was still sleeping soundly.
The coffee last night was super effective, and he and Chen Min didn't feel sleepy until early in the morning.
Ah Hu was greedy and drank a lot. He tossed and turned on the bed for a while before falling asleep. He still couldn't wake up until now.