Cheng Muhai glared in surprise and asked, "You have encountered it too? There are still many?"
"Yes!" Ahu said softly: "In the neighborhood committee in our hometown, there is also... my mother-in-law."
Xue Ling knew that he had helped Wang Qing's family a lot over the years, so he was embarrassed to ask too much, so he turned around to wash his hands, and took out a kettle from the kitchen.
Ah Hu had already taken out a cigarette and lit it, and said it to his godfather.
"Whenever there is anything wrong with my neighborhood committee, no matter what kind of household is in trouble or repairing an aging water pipe, I have to call me to help. As for people, if you can, I can help you.
I am still happy to help. I just come here again and again, occasionally once in a month or two, which bothered Ah Qing and my mother very annoyed."
"We are struggling outside. When we opened a wholesale shop, we went out every day before dawn. We couldn't eat three meals on time. We occasionally encountered goods coming, and stayed in the warehouse in the middle of the night. We occasionally went to the carton and slept.
I have a quick break and I have to go busy again. We don’t mean we can pick it up on the side of the road. Every piece of money is hard-earned money, it’s not easy!”
"Some people think that you are rich, you have to help others, and you have to do charity. We like to do good deeds and also like to help others, but not everything comes to you. Giving it means giving it is generous, and not giving it means having no conscience or morality.
What we think is that I have the ability, and I try to do what I can and help you if I can. But I can't force me, right? I have to decide how much I want to help, right? Alas!"
Cheng Muhai nodded in agreement: "It's true... It's not their money. I don't necessarily want to give it to them. I even take it for granted and scold you if you don't give it."
Xue Ling washed the cup, took out the small tea bag she carried with her, and prepared to make tea.
"A rice feeds hundreds of kinds of people, and there are all kinds of people. There is no need to care too much about them. Live your own life first. If we don't live well, we will be ridiculed, especially for such people."
"That's for sure!" Ah Hu sighed helplessly: "Some people are even waiting for you to go bankrupt!"
Cheng Muhai asked curiously: "Then your mother-in-law... shouldn't have made things difficult for you? I think Wang Qing is a very honest person."
"A Qing is indeed very honest and responsible." A Hu whispered: "But my mother-in-law is not! As long as I stay in their house for a while, she will definitely make her young widowed at that time, and it is not easy for her to do anything. How can she work hard to say?
Then she emphasized that she had to sacrifice my brother-in-law for Ah Qing to study because her family really had no money. Anyway, she wanted to let me know that she even gave up the future of her son, hoping that Ah Qing could get education.
, able to have a decent job. After marrying me, Ah Qing had to stop paying for his job and stay at home to write books and be a housewife, making such a great sacrifice for me."
Cheng Muhai rolled his eyes and whispered: "Parents raise children are responsible and obligations. How can they say that?"
"Even if she doesn't say it, I'm grateful to her." Ah Hu smiled bitterly: "But she has to say it, and it took more than half an hour to say it. Godfather, in fact, I've been in Ah Qing's mother's house many years ago.
Spend money. My brother-in-law bought a house and a car, and even if he had a car accident and hit someone, it was all my money. When he started a business, I gave the capital to the way. When my mother-in-law was sick, I was responsible for the medical expenses. The couple
People hurried back to help take care of them. I thought I was doing well, but my mother-in-law always felt that it was not enough."
Cheng Muhai couldn't help but ask, "What's the point? Why didn't she sell her daughter at the beginning? At least you can pay it in one go, knowing the degree."
Xue Ling and Ah Hu both laughed.
Ahu whispered: "She always emphasized that if Aqing's father was alive, the family's financial situation was better and both children could go to school, the lives of his son and daughter would definitely be comparable, and there would not be so much difference.
Now there are more than ten or twenty houses in the provincial capital, and several houses in the county town, two cars, and several stores doing business. But Ah Qing's younger brother only has one old house, and the others are all given to us.
The difference between the two brothers and sisters is too big because she really couldn't take care of both of them back then. Her helplessness and regret always made Ah Qing feel very guilty and always felt sorry for her younger brother. Ah Qing felt uncomfortable, so I can't feel uncomfortable.
Is it? I buy this and that, but my mother-in-law always feels there is a gap and it always feels not enough."
Cheng Muhai snorted coldly and shook his head: "If she is not satisfied, it will not be enough for you to give. I have a daughter and a son, and I never thought that the two of them would have to be exactly the same. One married, the other married Lingling, and everyone else was
The families go to fight for each other. How can it be the same if they have their own family and their personal happiness? Is it possible? My daughter and son-in-law used to eat and drink freely every day, and they didn't have to cook a portion of noodles at home for a few years. I didn't think about it either
She is married, so if she can take advantage of her, she will try to take advantage of her. On the contrary, she always comes to her husband's house to take advantage of her!"
"That's it." Ah Hu couldn't help but smile bitterly: "So, people will die more than people!"
Xue Ling made some tea and handed them a cup each.
"So don't compare, otherwise more people will die."
Ah Hu took it, took a sip, and said happily.
"In this world, there are only a few people who can avoid being greedy, and even fewer people can see it. Most people are prone to jealousy. Seeing that other people are better than their own, there are always big knots in their hearts. But they don't even look at it.
Why can others make progress and progress when they are on the same starting line? That is what people have worked hard to do! It’s like Aqing and my brother-in-law. If Aqing is still working in a newspaper and his brother-in-law works in a factory, theirs
The salary is only a few dozen yuan, but Ah Qing is a little more stable. If that is the case, their life gap will definitely not be big. When Ah Qing married me, I almost earned the money alone, but my mother-in-law didn't
I think that since my sister is better than my younger brother anyway, I will get some points for my younger brother.”
He did absolutely impeccable for his mother-in-law and brother-in-law's family. He gave money, houses, and cars, and even helped him take care of his ability to make a living.
But my mother-in-law is not satisfied. Every time I openly and secretly I feel sorry for my son for his hard work, which is much worse than my sister.
One, two, three or four... After hearing too much, he felt so nervous.
Xue Ling smiled softly and said, "If you can't change your mother-in-law's idea, you can only do Aqing's ideological work. She is sleeping with you and supporting you. It's easier for you to change her ideas.
If not, then continue to be generous. If it really doesn't work, don't let A Qing know all the wealth and can hide the liquid funds. Or tell A Qing not to tell all the money in her family, as this will be better
Some of the things that make the old man feel unbalanced all day long, and he is dissatisfied with his daughter being better than his son, and it is not good for her health."
Wang Qing's mother has never been in good health. The biggest reason is probably because of her heart disease. Her mentality is unbalanced every day. How can she live a good life and feel comfortable!
After hearing this, Ah Hu turned his eyes and laughed.
"Sister-in-law, you have the best relationship with A Qing. She probably talks to you more than my husband. Otherwise, if you have time, you can persuade me to persuade her? That------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
My brother-in-law is fine, I will definitely not miss it! These will not affect it."
Xue Ling took a sip of tea and nodded happily, "No problem."