"Dad and Brother Yuan think so, for the sake of good in the future. Afang's personality... If she is down and out in the future, you can help her because of her many years of love between husband and wife, and her father and others favor you.
After all, for now, equity is more expensive.”
"I know." Xue Heng nodded immediately: "This is for sure. I will remember it in my heart when my dad and brother help me like this. Our Xue family is not cruel people, you can't understand it any more. If she has difficulties in the future, she will be in trouble.
, because of her love relationship, she is Xiaohan's mother, I will never stand by and watch."
Xue Ling smiled slightly and said, "Remember what you said today."
"Don't worry." Xue Heng smiled.
Xue Ling asked the Finance Department to transfer four million to Xue Heng's account and stated that it was for early payment.
A moment later, lawyer He Miaomiao came.
Xue Heng carefully explained Cheng Tianfang’s request and where the child custody was going.
He Miaomiao smiled politely: "There is no dispute over the custody of the child, and the distribution of property has no objection to each other, that's all the easier. Wait for me for half an hour, and I'll print a copy for you to refer to first."
Lawyer He is worthy of being a professional, and soon drafted a duplicate agreement and handed it to Xue Heng and Xue Ling for reading.
Xue Heng glanced at it and turned to smile bitterly: "I didn't expect that the divorce agreement would need to be so complicated. I never even thought about it."
"This is exactly the meaning of my profession!" He Miaomiao said.
Xue Ling yawned and chuckled: "I never thought it would be so complicated."
"Do you want to refer to it?" Xue Heng asked with a smile: "It's okay for us to say that if you want to divorce your brother, just the two items of property division and child custody will definitely be more complicated."
"Get out!" Xue Ling smiled and scolded: "What are you doing with your crow's mouth?! Our fate will last for generations and we will never divorce!"
Xue Heng smiled embarrassedly and whispered: "We thought so too at the beginning."
"Can it be the same?" Xue Ling asked back: "We have been married for almost twenty years. We have had a fight several times. Do you know? It's less than three times! Based on this frequency, how likely do you think it is? Ah?
”
Xue Heng shook his head and gave a thumbs up: "I admire you!"
He Miaomiao was also envious and whispered: "Mr. Xue, your relationship with your husband should be very good."
"Very good." Xue Ling chuckled: "But more important in marriage is tolerance and trust, not just good relationships are enough."
He Miaomiao's eyes flashed slightly, and before he knew it, the corners of his eyes were wet.
"…I'm sorry, I suddenly felt a little sad."
Xue Ling couldn't help but ask with concern: "You must have been married for many years, right? My view of marriage is personal, so please don't laugh."
"No." He Miaomiao wiped away the tears in his eyes and whispered: "I am the one who really makes the two laugh. In fact, I also divorced a few years ago, and the child was awarded to his father. Later, he remarried and the child was born.
I was busy suing him for a while, hoping to regain custody of my son. The child was only ten years old and still needed his father and mother's age. His father didn't want him anymore, so I can't do it.
Don't want him. Although I have a boyfriend, I won't remarry. The children will still be with me, so I can feel more at ease."
Xue Heng was stunned and blurted out, "Why didn't you fight for your child at the beginning? With your conditions, it should not be difficult to raise a child!"
In his impression, Lawyer He is smart and capable, has a great business, so he should not have to worry about child support.
He Miaomiao smiled bitterly: "Mr. Xue, you are very light-hearted. Maybe you don't have to take care of your own children, so you dare to say that. Yes, I am indeed very financially, but my hometown is in Yancheng.
My parents are there too. I usually have to go to work, occasionally socialize clients, and I have to go home at 11 or 2 o'clock, so I don't have time to take good care of my son. In addition, my ex-husband is the only son, and his parents refuse to take care of the child.
I was given the custody of my family, afraid that my family would lose their blood in the future. At that time, my career was in the rising stage and my child was too young to be sent to the kindergarten. I had no choice but to give up the custody of my child."
Xue Ling nodded in understanding and sighed: "We women are all like this. If we don't do careers, we will not only not be able to gain a foothold in society, but also in the family. If we do careers, we will not take care of children, but also in the elderly and the family."
"Yes." He Miaomiao was thought to himself and choked up: "It's true. Our women's abilities are no worse than men, but why are men occupying the middle and upper levels in almost every field? It's not 100%, but at least 100%
More than 80% of them. The biggest reason is that women sacrifice their career for their children and families. After my ex-husband remarried, the newlyweds soon became pregnant and forced him to send his son to the elderly. I will be on the weekend
I went to see my child. I usually go when I have time. I would rather stay up late at night and squeeze in some time to eat with him during the day. It is precisely because of this that my son has been getting close to me. Recently, my ex-husband's father is in poor health and has to rely on his mother-in-law.
I couldn't take care of the child at all. I discussed with my ex-husband to get the child back, but he refused, so I simply brought it to court to deal with it."
Xue Heng asked curiously: "Don't your ex-husband have children again?"
"Yes." He Miaomiao whispered: "But his second-married wife gave birth to a little girl for him. My ex-husband is a typical traditional man, and his idea of favoring boys over girls is very serious. Because of this, he
I can't bear to give it to me. I told him that whether he raises his son or I raises him, he is his son, and this will never be changed. But he is always worried that I will take my son back and ask someone else to do it.
Dad. I couldn't persuade him or persuade him, so I simply sued him. He neglected to take care of the child, and the elderly in the family could not take care of him, so the child could no longer follow him."
Xue Ling nodded and said, "Now your career is stable and your child is in elementary school. It would be great to be with you. The old man is in poor health and he doesn't care about himself. He should agree to let go. His second-married wife
If you like your son, you don’t have to send him to the old man to take care of him. Your ex-husband is probably too greedy.”
"It's not ordinary greed." He Miaomiao sighed: "One person does two jobs, loses one's attention, and his income is not high at all. His son wants it, and his daughter wants it, but he can't take care of both of them, and in the end he will only harm the child.
This person is like this, but he doesn’t listen to advice, it’s really hard to deal with.”
Xue Heng asked curiously: "You should be very confident in winning the lawsuit, right? After all, it is your own unique skill, and you can't do it any more."
"It's okay." He Miaomiao finally smiled and whispered: "He is not stable at work now, his income is not stable, and there are elderly people and children in the family to take care of, so he is overwhelmed. In addition, my son also wants to follow me.
You should be 80% sure you will win this lawsuit.”
"Come on!" Xue Ling said softly: "As long as it is good to the child, try hard."
He Miaomiao sighed: "If I hadn't been able to take care of the children and there was no elderly person around me who could help me, how could I have been willing to give up the custody of my son? A mother is usually more soft-hearted than a father and is reluctant to let my children suffer."
After a pause, she said to Xue Heng: "Your wife voluntarily gave up the custody of her child. There are quite a few situations like this. Fortunately, this is the case, otherwise you may not be able to win. Because your child is still young, the judge will generally consider it.
The age of the child is more likely to be inclined toward the mother.”