Cheng Huanran was a little immersed in his ears and whispered: "I seem to understand, but I don't understand."
Xue Ling smiled and said, "It doesn't matter. You will understand after you experience more in the future."
Cheng Huanran may have some feelings, and finally told the truth.
"Mom, since I went to college, I found that not only the level of study has been different, but my life has been different. In the past, girls used to write to me secretly, but they all secretly. When I arrived at college, the teachers just kept studying.
Things, we have more time in private, more opportunities to contact after class, and more people we know. I met a very beautiful girl who is one level older than me and is also studying clinical anesthesia."
"Oh." Xue Ling asked curiously: "It's just a good impression? Isn't it really like it?"
Cheng Huanran shook his head: "It's not that level yet, but I will pay close attention to her. Every time I meet her, I will always find opportunities to glance at her. She doesn't know my existence. She is the most famous school beauties in our university.
, I heard that her grades were average, but she was the most beautiful girl in history, so she was the most beautiful girl she met once in a century in our college.”
"Wow!" Xue Ling asked: "A beautiful girl must be very popular, right?"
"There are so many!" Cheng Huanran explained: "I heard that she was arrogant and entered school, and her beauty immediately spread. A lot of people wanted to know her, secretly wrote letters and confessed, called her dormitory, and there were still a lot of people who also wanted to go to her dormitory.
Those who ran to her classroom to accompany her to class—even innumerable numbers!”
Xue Ling smiled and said, "It seems that my Ranran is still very sensible. Such girls must be very popular. But such girls should be very arrogant, right?"
"Yeah." Cheng Huanran whispered: "I heard that she rejected many people and never agreed. She also said that she would not like ordinary men. The partner she wanted to date had to meet her conditions."
Xue Ling asked curiously: "What are the conditions? Have you asked?"
Cheng Huanran shook his head: "I... dare not ask. I vaguely heard from others that her boyfriend must be over 1.85 meters tall, must be handsome, and must be very rich. In short, there are a lot of conditions, and I cannot meet it for the time being.
, there is no need to ask."
Xue Ling smiled and said, "Since you can't achieve it, then work hard."
"Mom, don't you object?" Cheng Huanran asked.
Xue Ling shrugged: "You are old and adult, and have your own worldview and emotional outlook. What do I object to you?"
Cheng Huanran whispered shyly: "Actually, there is a girl in our class who always comes to talk to me recently and squeezes around me to study whenever she has the chance. She also buys fruits for me to eat, and she is so enthusiastic... some of them have passed.
The classmates in the room said that she liked me, and there was no need to say that the blind man could tell. Every time she looked for me, I was always a little embarrassed."
"Are you in love with her?" Xue Ling asked.
Cheng Huanran whispered in a low voice: "Not yet... I just go out to have a lot of meals. I found that she is quite interesting and cheerful, and she smiles a lot every day. Every time I see her, I can't help but laugh."
Xue Ling smiled softly: "No wonder you always smiled a little strangely when you come back this time. I thought you were in love!"
"Is there any?" Cheng Huanran asked nervously: "Is that strange? What's the strange thing?"
Xue Ling replied: "Not either! I just couldn't find other words to describe them for a while, so I used this word. If you like someone, then get along with them seriously. Some people have talked about it more than ten or twenty times.
Only when you fall in love can you find something you really like. First love is beautiful, but most first loves are not successful..."
"No?" Cheng Huanran smiled bitterly: "Mom, I haven't started yet. Just say this, I will be very unconfident."
Xue Ling asked back: "When you are learning to walk, can you walk out the first step, and then you don't have to fall down in the future? Is it possible?"
"Oh." Cheng Huanran seemed to understand and asked, "Then how do I know that person is the one who is really suitable for me?"
Xue Ling smiled mysteriously and whispered: "I have read a book, and there is a saying in it that the famous philosopher Plato said, which may be suitable for sharing with you at this time."
Cheng Huanran couldn't help laughing and said, "Mom, you suddenly look a little like my teacher."
"Be serious." Xue Ling smiled and said, "The teacher can't teach students the principle of love! I don't remember what the original words are, so I can only roughly say the general words. Plato's students are curious about the difference between love and marriage.
Plato did not answer them positively, but took them to a rose garden. The roses were in full bloom, and the flowers were very bright and beautiful. He asked the students to walk in and find the most beautiful flowers in it, and they could only pick them.
One flower, walk along the way, don't go back and pick flowers. After a while, a student picked a rose and walked out with disappointment. He explained that as he walked, he found that the flower was beautiful and beautiful
, hurriedly picked it. Who knew that the more you walked back, there were more and more beautiful roses on the road. He regretted it while walking, and he still regretted that he picked the flower too early until now."
Cheng Huanran blinked and asked, "What's the matter?"
Xue Ling explained: "Plato told the student that this is marriage. At this time, another student also came out, with no roses on his hands, and two pairs returned empty-handed. He didn't pick anything, and he was also very disappointed.
. The student explained that after he walked into the rose garden, he found that many roses were very beautiful. However, he told himself that there would definitely be more beautiful flowers behind him, so he looked for them while walking, but found that the more the roses were, the more they were.
There was no way that the flowers in front were no more than one, so he never picked them until he finally reached the end and could not pick any flowers. Plato explained that this was about falling in love."
Cheng Huanran seemed to understand but didn't understand. From the beginning, he slowly fell into deep thought.
Xue Ling whispered: "The story is roughly like this. It took a long time. I can't remember what it is. But I have told the essence of the story. If you think about it carefully, you should understand it. In fact, visiting the Rose Garden
Just like our life. There are many beautiful roses, but we can only pick one, not many. If we blindly think that there will be something better in the future, then you may miss the flowers that suit you on the way. Once you miss it
, Life is over, and we have no chance."
"But...that marriage." Cheng Huanran couldn't help but smile bitterly: "It sounds so disappointing!"
Xue Ling smiled and said, "It varies from person to person. At that time, you thought that when you picked it, it was the most beautiful, so you should always think it was the most beautiful. In real life, people will grow old,
There will be all kinds of problems, and you will find that other people are more beautiful than their wives, smarter than their wives, virtuous and capable, etc. The world is so big that there are people outside of people and mountains outside of them, and there are definitely more people than their wives.
Who can be sure that what you find is perfect? The key is your attitude. Since you have taken her off, you must insist that she is the best attitude to treat her, otherwise
A marriage will have problems sooner or later.”
Cheng Huanran thought silently, not knowing what to say for a moment.
Xue Ling patted his shoulder and said, "This principle seems simple, but it is actually very practical and cruel. But mom hopes that when you enter the rose garden, you should try to be calm and patient."