Xue Ling shook her head: "How can there be so many temporary things? Afang, your brother is already fifty years old, do you know? We are all no longer young."
Cheng Tianfang smiled bitterly: "...I just want to keep up with Xiaohan, watch her grow up, see her successful career and a happy marriage, and I will be satisfied by that time."
"But the child will have his own family and his own life in the future." Xue Ling advised: "You must also have your own life."
Cheng Tianfang's eyes turned red for a moment and whispered: "Sister-in-law, I made my life awful. I... dare not try again. I disappointed my relatives and friends, and I indirectly killed my dad..."
"It's all over." Xue Ling interrupted her and said in a warm voice: "Time can heal some scars. You and your mother are mother and daughter, and blood is thicker than water. We still think you are relatives."
Cheng Tianfang shook his head: "But Mom and my elder brother have always refused to forgive me... I can't even handle the relationship between my dearest relatives well, and I don't dare to harm others anymore."
"You can't say that." Xue Ling whispered: "You can't give up the right to pursue a stable life because of these things. You are not old yet, so you don't understand the discomfort of the elderly suffering from illness, let alone not
The Dharma experiences the pain of loneliness. I advise you to find a companion while you are young. At least when you are old, you should take care of each other, be able to talk, and be a crutch."
Cheng Tianfang smiled miserably: "Sister-in-law, don't wait in the future... I have always applied for overtime in the past two years. On weekends, I have Xiaohan accompanied me, and there are voices and laughter at home. But I am the only one at the other time...
Many times I turn on the TV, hoping to have more sounds and not look too deserted. If I could stay at the unit and work overtime, I would rather stay at the unit. The TV station is not short of people, and I am busy colleagues coming and going.
In such an environment, I feel at ease occasionally.”
"Then you should find a companion," Xue Ling reminded.
Cheng Tianfang sighed softly: "Sister-in-law, it's not that easy."
Xue Ling couldn't help but ask in a low voice: "Are you... waiting for Ah Heng?"
"...No." Cheng Tianfang smiled bitterly: "I have no qualifications to beg for reuniting with him. I just didn't think about finding him. I didn't have the intention. Apart from Xiao Han, there is only work left in my world."
Xue Ling sighed, but didn't want to hide it from her.
"Do you know that Ah Heng already has a girlfriend?"
Cheng Tianfang was slightly stunned and smiled bitterly.
"...I don't know. But sooner or later, I'm not surprised. He is such a good person. Even though he is older, rich, house and career, a lot of young girls like it."
Xue Ling shook her head: "No, the other party is about the same age as you. She is a divorced mother with a child, and the child is a little older than Xiaohan. She is a lawyer, very good at abilities, and has her own law firm. Moreover,
You know her."
Cheng Tianfang asked in surprise: "Lawyer He?"
"Yeah." Xue Ling explained: "She is responsible for handling the legal affairs of our group and has a lot of contact with Aheng and me. Maybe because she has many opportunities to get along with each other, they are both single parents and have more topics, so she slowly walked to the scene.
Together, maybe a few months ago, they started dating. Maybe the relationship is not stable, so the two of them are not going to make it public yet."
Cheng Tianfang had red eyes and whispered: "...It's pretty good, they match very well."
"It may not be together." Xue Ling said the truth: "Aheng talked to me and said that they did not feel in love. Maybe they are old and have long been worn out by life without any passion.
, but they have topics to talk about each other and feel comfortable getting along, so I want to try whether they can be together."
For middle-aged men and women who have successful careers, it is important to get along well, especially whether their families can integrate into each other's families.
"Aheng said that what he was most worried about was Xiaohan's reaction. Over the years, he has been growing up with her singles, and everything is centered on her. She may have been raised from a single-parent family and is more sensitive than other children around her.
Many. Because of this, unless He Miaomiao is a very certain person, he will not make it easy. Of course, if they can get along, they will give the children a shot in advance so that they can feel a little bit in their hearts first.
Prepare."
Cheng Tianfang nodded: "He is a good father and a good father. I know he loves Xiaohan very much. At the same time, I also believe that he can handle this matter well."
Xue Ling's eyes moved slightly and advised: "Afang, when Xiaohan goes to your side, you can give her some temptation and mental preparation."
Both of them are not yet in their seventies and eighties. When they meet the right person, they may choose to be together.
Whether she or Xue Heng, Xiaohan must face the possibility of her parents reorganizing their families sooner or later. Give the child some mental preparation so that she can accept it better in the future.
Cheng Tianfang agreed and whispered: "Sister-in-law, I can."
Seeing that she quickly accepted the matter between Xue Heng and Lawyer He from surprise to calm, Xue Ling breathed a sigh of relief.
"Afang, your life is only half past at most. Don't give up like this. Aheng told me that he no longer hates you. As his child's mother, he also hopes that you can live a good life in the future.
.”
Cheng Tianfang suddenly burst into tears: "...Thank you! Sister-in-law, I have no regrets with this sentence from him. I am so sorry for him...Thank him!"
Xue Ling took out a tissue and gently patted her on the shoulder.
"Afang, he has already walked forward. You should also clean up your mood, adjust your condition, and start a new life."
Cheng Tianfang sniffed and nodded.
"...I'm not in a hurry. After he and Lawyer He stabilized, Xiaohan accepted it and I would consider whether I should find another one again. Sister-in-law, it would be fine if the other party was a good person, but if it was a scumbag, it would be better than that
Don't look for it. I'm single. Although I'm a little lonely, I can be quiet. If Xiaohan's future family doesn't want me to intervene too much, I'll find a quiet place to retire. When I'm so old, I'll go to a nursing home."
Xue Ling sighed and said in a low voice: "Don't think so for the time being. If you like family, just rethink it. If you really don't want to, then when you are old, you can come and live with us."
"...Thank you sister-in-law!" Cheng Tianfang laughed gratefully and said jokingly: "I think...I am not the kind of person who can live for a long time. I hope my elder brother and mother have forgiven me by then...and I also hope I won't be too tired.
you."
"What are you saying?" Xue Ling looked at her angrily and looked at the sky: "It's getting late, you can go back early. I have to go buy a gift quickly. The dinner starts at about 7:30."
"Yeah." Cheng Tianfang nodded: "Sister-in-law, I'll contact you if I'm free... Remember to send me a photo of my mother. By the way, I need a family photo."