Xue Ling and Cheng Tianyuan sat together, looking up from time to time to greet the guests beside them and looking around.
"Wife, look over there." Cheng Tianyuan lowered his voice: "Titou looks a little cold, but he is very considerate to others. I just saw him helping Xiaoxin peel shrimp shells. Look, he is still spoonful of soup for her."
Xue Ling looked over and turned to laugh.
"Tietou hurts Xiaoxin very much. Even after so many years, she still loves her very much. Considerate men are popular, and now girls like to find considerate boys. Two days ago, cousin Xue Cong told me that my daughter has a blind date partner.
I don’t have any big requirements, I just hope that the conditions are similar to her, just be considerate of her personality and temper, and other things are easy to discuss."
Forehead?
Cheng Tianyuan asked back with a funny look: "Aren't these two requirements high?"
Her daughter has good abilities, good looks, a better family background, and a very good job. It is rare to find a young hero who matches her - it is hard to find!
In his opinion, no one can meet the first condition, and it should not be difficult for the second condition to be inconsiderate.
Xue Ling shook her head: "Isn't it difficult? It's also difficult to find considerate men, especially boys today."
After hearing this, Cheng Tianyuan turned his head and looked at the three sons on the other side.
"Our boss should be a considerate person who is considerate of his wife. It is probably impossible for the second brother... it should be okay, but it is definitely not as good as his elder brother."
Xue Ling smiled: "I can't guess. Some people will unknowingly consider their daughter-in-law and take good care of their daughter-in-law."
Shan You beside her heard a little and couldn't help but interrupt.
"Some people can't get a clue in their entire lives, such as Xiao Huzi. Even if someone teaches him step by step, he can't be considerate. He rarely considers other people when doing anything, even his son and I."
Xue Ling's eyes were slightly dark, and she whispered: "Youyou, Xiaohuzi has been a child who has grown up since childhood. He will definitely not be considerate of you. Give him some time to let him learn slowly."
"He can't learn it." Shan You sighed softly, and the chopsticks in his hand paused, "Auntie, it's not that I don't give him time. Even if I give it to him for a lifetime, he probably won't learn it. Do you know, he goes to him
I went home twice a month. Once, Xiao Xiaohu had a fever. After I called him more than ten times, he finally ran over and glanced a few times. He couldn't help with anything, so he stood and waited to watch.
The second time, he went home lazy after I urged countless calls. I was feeling uncomfortable and depressed. He never cared about me, let alone considerate."
Xue Ling couldn't help but look at Xiao Huzi who was chatting with Xue Heng and eating happily, and then looked at the little guy who was sleeping soundly beside him.
"He is still too young after all."
When Shan You talked about the emotional part, her eyes turned red without realizing it.
"Auntie, sometimes I... really want to divorce him."
Xue Ling was stunned and turned around and said, "You are all young and are prone to impulsive when doing things. Youyou, Xiaoxiaohu is still too young. Please think about this problem for him when considering this issue."
Shan You choked up: "I... have been very uncomfortable recently and I am always in a low mood. Xiaohuzi is heartless. Apart from buying gifts and giving me some inappropriate gadgets, I don't know how to care about me at all."
Xue Ling thought for a while and asked, "Where are you feeling uncomfortable? Why do you feel depressed?"
Shan You lowered his voice: "...I don't know either. I feel very depressed and in a bad mood... My life seems to have no goals, and everything revolves around the child. Now I seem to be looking forward to him faster.
Growing up healthy, my mind is empty and nothing.”
Xue Ling suddenly heard the problem.
"Youyou, you may have to find something to do, otherwise you will be stuck at home all day and will sooner or later become sick."
Before, in order to give up her freshly-official online singing career and became a full-time housewife.
The cleaning work and three meals of the villa are solved by the nanny, and the child is taken care of by the nanny. She has nothing to do except accompanying the child.
If people are too busy, they will become tired and sick, and if people are too busy, they will become idle and even become sick.
Shan You's psychological pressure-bearing ability is worse than that of ordinary people, and it needs to be cleared in time to avoid recurrence of old diseases.
"I...but what can I do?" Shan You red eyes and whispered: "Auntie, I have a low diploma and didn't graduate from a technical secondary school that year... In addition, I can't pick it, I can't take it, and I can't do rough work.
.”
In big cities like the imperial capital, the competition culture of enterprises is very fierce, and people with low diplomas generally can only find physical work.
She hired a nanny to work, but she went out to find a rough job. It was rumored that she would not only be scolded to death, but also be regarded as a joke.
But she couldn't even do rough work!
She grew up in pain when she was young, and she didn't know how to do housework because she never had to do it. She was weak in body and a weak temperament, and she couldn't stand the pain of doing rough work.
Xue Ling shook her head: "How can you do the rough work? Even if you think about it, Xiaohuzi will not agree. What I mean is to continue to develop your talents, your interests and hobbies, and continue to sing online."
Shan You's eyes lit up when he heard this, but he quickly hesitated.
"But... my parents are always worried that the Internet is too messy... and they say that girls, especially those who are already married, are not good for showing up to perform. They say that they don't have that money, and there is no need to make that money.
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Xue Ling couldn't help but laugh: "What do they regard online entertainment activities as? They are simply nonsense! In fact, the older generation does not understand online culture very well. You should give them appropriate popularization and introduce this emerging one.
culture."
Shan You nodded and asked tentatively: "Auntie, do you think I'm better singing online again, right?"
"Of course!" Xue Ling said: "I am very supportive! First of all, you don't have to run around, you can still work from home, you just need to equip the corresponding equipment at home. In this way, you can work while taking care of the children, using
You don’t need to stay at home for a long time during the day or at night. Xiaohuzi is busy and doesn’t need home for a few days. You have to stay at home. This can better protect Xiaohu and also be good for the growth of your children. Secondly, you have to have your own
Career pursuit. Xiao Xiaohu is still young now, but he will grow up in the future and will leave you to be independent. Then you will be more lonely and bored. With career pursuit, people's spiritual desire will be able to live happily."
"Then I... turned around and discussed with Xiao Huzi." Shan You smiled.
Xue Ling nodded: "Yes. No matter what, try to discuss as much as possible, solicit each other's opinions, and learn from each other's strengths and weaknesses."
"Yeah." Shan You sincerely thanked: "Thank you aunt!"