Chapter 1493 young people who pursue individuality
Xue Cong came in with the New Year's goods with a smile on his face, hugged Xue Ling, and turned to hugging Xue's father and mother.
"I came here today. In addition to wishing you new year to my uncles, aunts and everyone, I also want to share with you a good news."
Xue Ling glared in surprise: "Is it true - Rongsheng's mother-in-law?"
"Oh!" Xue Cong laughed: "I said why are you so smart? Sure enough, businessmen are different, they have a very strong sense of smell. You already know before I started saying this."
"Really?" Xue Daddy said in surprise: "Mimei has a partner?"
Xue’s mother hurriedly asked, “Where is my boyfriend from?”
Xue Cong replied with a smile: "He is from the south, tall, thin and handsome. In the words of young people, he is a typical handsome man."
"How could anyone Ami likes is bad?" Xue Ling couldn't help but smile bitterly: "I remember how many young talents I introduced to her, but none of them could see them."
"That's because she has good conditions." Dad Xue gave a thumbs up: "The little girl is tall, has a beautiful face, and has strong scientific research skills. How could she fall in love with ordinary people?"
"I'm in my thirties." Xue Cong shook his head helplessly: "What little girl! Uncle, she is the little girl in front of you octogenarians. Over the years, she has made me worry a lot. Ling
The young men introduced by Ling were all top-notch talents, but she just looked down on them. She also introduced a lot of friends and relatives, but she never nodded once."
"The problem has finally been solved!" Xue Ling laughed: "I can finally get her married."
"It's getting soon!" Xue Cong replied with a smile: "I'll get engaged in spring and plan to get married in the third month of the lunar calendar. The days have been cleared. When the in-laws decide, we will inform everyone to have a wedding banquet immediately."
"Okay OK!" Everyone was happy: "What a good news! Good news!"
Xue Ling asked curiously: "Sister, who is the other party? He was able to abduct Xiaomei's heart? The internship should not be underestimated!"
"Yes!" Xue's mother smiled and said, "Tell us quickly and learn about my future sister-in-law."
Xue Cong stopped and said, "He is not young anymore, he is still in his thirties!"
"Most young people nowadays like to marry late and have children late." Dad Xue shook his head and said with a hilarious look: "I don't know what's going on? I don't dare to take responsibility, right? The responsibilities are all theirs. If you don't take them now, you will have to do so in the future.
It’s not bad to be married early and pregnant early. Being a parent earlier can become a grandparent earlier—how great!”
"You think it's good, young people don't think so at all." Xue's mother squinted her eyes and pointed at the TV: "Now a lot of shows are blind dates. If girls and young men are in love freely, how can they need old tricks like blind dates? Right?
?Some people say that young people are smart and don’t want to get married or have a family, but in the eyes of our older generation, they just don’t have the courage to take responsibility.”
"That's it! I just thought." Dad Xue said: "How hard we were in those days, but no matter how hard the men were, they wanted to marry a loving wife to live. It was so difficult at that time, and sometimes they couldn't even guarantee food and drink.
, We are all willing to get married and shoulder family responsibilities. Life is so good now. As long as we work hard, we will not worry about starving to death and poverty. But we never expected that life will be better and our living standards will improve, and young people will not want to get married, or even
I also advocate late marriage and late childbirth, and DINK and non-married people. Alas... I really don’t understand the young people today!”
"If you understand, you are a young man." Xue Ling smiled: "What young people nowadays think and like are not something that people of our era can understand, let alone you old people."
"Yes, yes, yes." Xue's father shook his head: "We don't understand, but the road we walked is longer than the bridge they walked. The old saying is good. If you don't listen to the old man, you will suffer a loss before you."
"Young people nowadays pursue themselves." Xue Ling analyzed: "They have a strong sense of self, pursue independent thinking and independent personality, and emphasize that they must have a unique personality."
"How can I be considered independent?" Xue Dad said with a hilarious feeling: "I want to be so independent, how many days can I try to live on an isolated island? Independent thoughts and personality? People are group animals, and they are the same principle as monkeys. A group of people are.
It’s easy to live, how should you live alone? By the way, what is the name of that person who wanders around the island?”
Xue Cong hurriedly replied: "Robinson Crusoe."
"Yes, yes, yes," said Xue's father: "If someone is on a deserted island, he has to have a 'Friday' to accompany him, otherwise life will not last. People, if they don't speak for a few days, no one will communicate with him,
Soon they will become dull and speak stutter. These facts tell the younger generation that there is no absolute true independence, and that are just excuses for their rebellion. As long as they are human beings, they must respect human nature and respect
Reality. Spirit is based on matter. Material cannot be separated from the masses. How can spirit have personality? It is very good to pursue uniqueness, but there is no so-called independent thoughts and personality, because those cannot exist."
Xue Ling and Xue Cong looked at each other, then smiled and applauded.
"Dad is so old!"
"Uncle, where did you come from? Haha! It's impossible! Lingling's children are all very well-behaved. I heard that they all have girlfriends, right?"
Dad Xue laughed and pointed to the TV and explained: "Earlier, there was a young man's program. The host spoke in a way that was independent in his personality. I was a little annoyed when I heard it, so I quickly switched the station. You just mentioned it, I
Just take the opportunity to nag a few words."
"Well said." Xue Cong gave a thumbs up: "Uncle, although you have been retired for many years, you have never been out of touch with the real society."
"Is there a TV?" Dad Xue replied with a smile.
Xue's mother pushed him away and whispered: "Okay, okay, if you really have any big theory, what have you done long ago? Why don't you become that theorist and philosopher? Less embarrassing, that's all,
Your own daughter and niece hold you up.”
Dad Xue stepped back embarrassedly.
Mother Xue laughed, her face full of gossip.
"Cong, he just disconnected the topic. Let's continue talking about my sister-in-law, let's talk to us quickly."
Xue Cong smiled and narrowed his eyes and held her hand.
"He is my wife's student, surnamed Zeng. He was sent abroad for secret missions more than ten years ago and did not return home until last year. Later, the superiors transferred him back to the imperial capital and worked in the national defense department. As soon as he settled down, he came here specially.
Visit my wife. At first I didn't care, but when I saw that it was already dinner, I kept him for dinner. The stinky girl from my house came downstairs and was stunned when she saw him. Xiao Zeng was also staring at her, and the chopsticks in her hand fell off.
We asked them if they knew each other, but they didn't speak up."
"It should be that I have dealt with abroad before." Xue Ling blinked his eyes and guessed: "I might have dated you!"