Xue Ling held her hand and whispered: "Auntie has been young and has been young. I know your girlish thoughts. In fact, you are not wrong in dating, but you used the wrong method, and it was a bit too early.
.”
"Really?" Xue Han's eyes lit up and he asked in surprise: "Auntie, do you really think so?"
Xue Ling nodded: "Of course it's true. What am I going to lie to you? How did you stop your cousins and cousins from dating? Who did I stop you?"
"...Not even." Xue Han said in a muffled voice: "Even Sister Xin, you are willing to fall in love."
Xue Ling smiled: "Yes, because we all know that you have begun to grow up, know how to love, know how to love another person, and share your feelings with others. This is a normal human relationship, and everyone must experience emotional experience.
So we won't stop it."
"Then why did my dad stop me like crazy?" Xue Han muttered: "You have seen his angry look last night and his angry look just now."
Xue Ling explained seriously: "Because you are too young, too young."
"I'm almost fifteen!" Xue Han defended: "Some of my classmates have boyfriends at the age of twelve or thirteen, so I'm the latest one!"
Xue Ling was so amused and laughed and said, "Our legal marriage age is twenty. How many years do you think you are still twenty years old? What are you so anxious to do? The fruits on the trees must be picked when they are just ripe, and the taste is
It is the best taste. Pick the fruit when it is green. The taste is astringent and sour. Can you eat it? The fruit is ripe but it never picks it. Soon the fruit will worry about rotting to the ground, and finally
It’s not much. It can be seen how important the timing is! Your cousins are in love after the age of 18, and it has not affected their studies, so your uncle and I will not stop it, nor should we stop it."
Xue Han seemed to understand but not understand and finished listening, looking at her thoughtfully.
"Aunt...you...did you really love your uncle before?"
Xue Ling raised his eyebrows and asked with a smile: "Why did you suddenly ask this? If I didn't love him, how could I marry him, give birth to children for him, and live with him for more than 30 years?"
"But-" Xue Han stammered: "Uncle, he is not as good as you, you have such a big group, and his business is not as good as you."
Xue Ling shook his head: "Actually, your uncle has better business skills than me. It's just that for this family and to take care of the elderly and children, he had to sacrifice most of his working hours in the family, so his business is not as good as me.
If he goes to make money, I go to make money, and the elderly and children in the family have no time to take care of it, then what is the point of making money? He knows that I like to do business, so he focuses on the family so that I can go without worries
Work hard. He sacrificed part of his career for his family. He could not work wholeheartedly until after I retired. If he had not made silent efforts in recent years, he would have no time to pick up and drop off a few children to and from school and take care of his family and outside the family.
And energy to make a lot of money? I was moved by how he could do this for me. I never felt that I was comparing with him. I could not compare to him in sacrificing his family."
When Xue Han heard what she said, she suddenly woke up.
"Yes... why didn't I expect this? If you say that, I think my uncle is amazing. In contrast, many men shouldn't be able to do it, right? Many boys love face and don't like girls to be better than them."
Xue Ling's eyes flashed slightly and she whispered: "Silly, if that person really loves you, how could he care about face? The more he cares about you, the more he thinks he is a great man, he will definitely love him even more.
Love you. If your uncle had minded the issue of face, we might have often quarreled or even had divorces because I am a very professional person. But he loved me deeply and would rather sacrifice his career than support me.
Chasing dreams. Because of this, he has won the respect of me and my parents, and is worthy of my deep love for the rest of my life."
After hearing this, Xue Han dodged his eyes a few times.
“…Yes, my uncle is really good.”
Xue Ling clicked until he said warmly: "Okay, don't think too much. The most important thing you are now is not to make trouble with your father or mother, but to find a way to get their support. You must remember that your father
It’s not that mom refuses to fall in love with you, but is worried that you will pick the fruit when it is so young and eventually taste the bitter fruit by yourself. Which parents don’t want their daughter or son to find true love to get married and start a family? Right?
The reason why I object so much now is that you are too young, you are still a student, and you have not done your studies well. Think about it, if you study hard and learn, what excuses can your parents have to stop you? Age
They have no reason to stop them!
Xue Han was moved and murmured: "It seems that this is the reason. My father kept yelling just now, saying that I must study and cannot fall in love, which delays my study. I have to prove it to him, but I can do it when I fall in love.
Learning to make progress depends on how he opposes it!”
"Yes!" Xue Ling smiled: "You are a smart child, and you can understand it at one point. If you can do your studies well, you can give your parents conditions and rewards, right?"
"Yes." Xue Han emphasized: "Auntie, I understand."
Xue Ling smiled and said, "It's great, clean up and have breakfast quickly. If you don't go to eat, you'll probably be late."
"Hey!" Xue Han quickly turned around to get his schoolbag, "Oh! Aunt, there is not enough time. It takes more than 20 minutes to drive to No. 4 Middle School here. I may not be able to get over when I eat enough and then go there! If I am late for early reading, the teacher will definitely be sure.
I'll be punished to stand."
"It's okay, I took the breakfast and ate it in the car." Xue Ling said: "I'll drive you over and leave."
At this moment, Xue Heng walked in with a light face, holding a snack box and a water bottle in his hand.
"Have you packed it up? Time is in a hurry. I brought you a few buns and dumplings in the big kitchen, as well as your favorite corn juice. Eat it in the car, don't be late in a while."
Xue Han looked at him in disbelief, his eyes red: "...Thank you dad."
"Let's go." Xue Heng smiled slightly: "I'll go drive."
Xue Ling winked Xue Han and leaned against her ears.
"Your parents are the ones who love you the most in the world, so there is no need to question them at all. Remember, no matter what happens, you can't hurt your parents. Don't make the person who loves you the most sad, do you understand? Otherwise, you are
The stupidest small cotton jacket with leaky air."
Xue Han blushed and nodded slightly: "I understand."
After a while, Xue Ling watched the father and daughter drive away, turned around and went to the big kitchen for breakfast.