Ah Hu patted his arm and whispered: "It's okay to pay more attention to the child in the future. He is still young now and has more opportunities."
"Oh..." Chen Min sighed bitterly: "I'm in my early twenties, it's a little late."
Ahu said "Ha!" and said, "My little brat finally settled down after getting married. He used to do things like heaven and earth. If Ayuan and his sister-in-law hadn't helped me suppress him, that boy would have known that he would have been there.
Somewhere is the second-rate guy?”
Cheng Tianyuan didn't think so, explaining: "Little Huzi is just a little bit naughty. He loves to play but not to study, and has no big drawbacks. The worst thing is that the family environment is too good, spends money and loves to show off. Others are
It’s a minor problem. As long as the time comes, people become mature and have a more stable personality, many of them can be changed over time.”
"Hey!" Ahu stopped his hand: "If it weren't for your strict control at that time, my sister-in-law even found an opportunity to help him do his career, and he would definitely not be able to change. People, they have to know how hard it is to make money, so he knows that the money comes.
It’s not easy, you have to save some flowers, and you can’t do it.”
Chen Min couldn't help but envy him and said, "He makes so much money now. He has married a beautiful wife and two such cute kids. Brother, what else are you not satisfied with?"
Ah Hu laughed: "Satisfied! I'm quite satisfied!"
He touched his round beer belly, as if he was moved and admired.
"I think he is only in his twenties, and he can have his own career, buy such a large courtyard house in the imperial capital, and have a warm bed with his wife and son. Compared with people of his age, he is considered the best.
At his age, we are still like a fool. I go to learn to drive. You sell things to people in the supply and marketing cooperative, and you can spend a few cents in your pocket all day long. Thinking about it, that kid is really not bad!
”
All three of them laughed.
Go around the corridor, come to the back garden, and go straight to the back door.
Cheng Tianyuan walked ahead and led the way, looking back from time to time.
"Amin, it's better to take advantage of this trip to the imperial capital to change the environment for the children. Xiaohuzi is no longer a boy from a few years ago, especially in the past two years, he has become much calmer. I suggest that you might as well let Xiaohuzi take the small group around you.
Chen, let him see a broader world, and perhaps his world outlook and values can undergo major changes or changes."
Ahu also echoed: "Yes! We are all old antiques, and our thoughts can no longer keep up with this society. Nowadays, young people are all engaged in the Internet system. If you have a computer or a mobile phone, you can know the whole world.
.We can't do it anymore, we've long been out of touch. We don't understand any of their trendy words. After all, young people have to be led by young people to be able to move them."
"Oh." Chen Min smiled embarrassedly and stammered: "I'm afraid of causing trouble for you... Xiao Huzi has a family and career, and is very busy every day, afraid of affecting his work or something."
"What are you afraid of?!" Ahu said readily: "I will turn around and say he will go! That brat doesn't do anything else, and his heroism is similar to when I was young. I am righteous, and he is righteous. Take care of my little cousin and take care of you.
Is it not right for your own relatives?"
Chen Min still didn't dare to agree and whispered: "Xiao Huzi is very busy and has a big career now. He has always cared for and loved his cousin, and I have always been very moved by this. But that boy Ahao is so useless
Maybe he didn't even dare to follow Xiaohuzi-"
"Don't think about it!" Ahu interrupted angrily: "How can you say that child like this? He is still young and still studying. How can you determine that he is not promising? He is not promising now and will definitely do it in the future. You said you
Why do you become a parent? Just blame your children! Even if you really don’t dare, you have to encourage them!"
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "Yes, you have to encourage your children appropriately. Xiaohao is now facing academic and emotional crisis, and his body and mind are already exhausted. As parents, you have to change your perspective. Don't be angry and blame me. You must encourage and help your children leave first.
come out."
"Oh!" Chen Min sighed in embarrassment: "I dare not tell my wife at home... If she knew that the boy was going to jump into the river, she would probably have to jump into the river."
Ah Hu curled his lips: "What's the difficulty? If you don't say it, how could my sister-in-law know?"
Chen Min grabbed the gray-white short hair, which was quite helpless and sad.
"In the past, when I was a son, I was thinking about my family, taking care of my parents and my sisters. Since I had a son, I always felt that their generation was very good. I had to eat, drink, and live.
The car is in, and there is money to spend in the pocket. The parents above don’t need to take care of them, and they don’t have to make money. They just need to read the book well. But they are depressed at all times and have to jump into the river when they turn around! I really don’t know it’s the day.
What's going on? It's already so good, what else do they want?"
After hearing this, Ah Hu laughed foolishly.
"I thought about this, but I can't think of the reason at all. That's right! We were so difficult at that time, it was not easy to have a full meal. How could we survive well? Why did we get to the young people?
You are so fragile and untouched!"
Cheng Tianyuan calmly thought about it and concluded: "It's probably caused by the general environment."
Chen Min smiled bitterly: "There are also problems with his family. My wife and I don't know how to teach our children. Look, your children are all very good, especially Ayuan's four children, each with excellent ones, each with its own differences.
They have good grades in their studies. What I envy most is their good temperament, confidence, sunshine, and generousness. That day, Yangyang got married, and I watched their brothers get along well, and they also know how to socialize and receive guests, and they talk very much.
OK. I secretly looked at it while secretly envious.”
"There are also a lot of shortcomings." Cheng Tianyuan said: "Don't just see other people's strengths, but stare at their own weaknesses."
Ahu nodded quickly: "That's it! The four children of Ayuan family are all among the people, and they cannot be compared with them. In addition, they also have some small shortcomings, but you haven't been in contact for a long time, so I didn't find it."
"Everyone has shortcomings." Chen Min said: "No one is perfect. However, Ayuan's children are indeed excellent and have few shortcomings. The key is to make parents worry. Unlike Xiaohao and Xiaohu
Zi, one is so dull that he can't even speak, the other is so naughty and active that he is so active - they are all uneasy guys!"
Cheng Tianyuan burst into laughter and signaled Ah Hu to open the door. He turned around and sat on the wooden pile at the entrance of the Siheyuan.
"Didn't I say everything just now? Don't always envy others randomly, others' things may not be as good as you envy them. Everyone is a parent, so it should be the same. I have many of those who have given me a lot.