Xue Ling asked back with a funny look: "When I grow up, I love to run outside, and each has his own work and circle of friends and colleagues. Even if I have a football team, I will feel that I have fewer at that time."
Everyone laughed.
Xue’s mother couldn’t help but remind: “When I gave birth to one more child, I was fined a lot of social support by the neighborhood committee. The third and fourth child were one child, so our family could only be considered as having a third child. When the second child was
I was fined once, and later gave birth to a third child, and I was fined a lot of money at once."
"It's okay, it's okay." Liu Ying smiled and said, "I said on TV that the country now encourages everyone to have more babies, the more the better!"
Xue Ling chuckled and explained: "No, it's just a third child. There is no encouragement as much as possible."
In fact, among her friends at her age, there are most of them one or two, and there are very few cases of four children like her.
"Hey!" Xue Zhilan interrupted: "Don't mention letting go of the third child, even if it is fully relaxed, young people nowadays are not willing to have more. I have two sons and three grandchildren, and I may have only three great-grandchildren in the future.
, even less. Many young people like DINK, and some don’t even like to get married.”
Dad Xue lowered his voice: "Fortunately, we guys have all grown up in a big family, and we are all together to be harmonious, otherwise we have to worry about this."
"Don't say it!" Xue Zhilan said: "At most young people have two children, there is no more."
Liu Ying said "Oh~~" and said, "The young couple Yangyang said, "They are enough for one child, and they also said that one child and two babies are enough. I am worried secretly! Fortunately, they are pregnant with twins,
If it's just one, they might just have one."
Xue Ling was not worried, and explained: "When their child is born, we will help him take care of it, and then ask a professional nanny to help subsidize some milk powder and daily necessities. As long as young people don't feel too stressed, they will
Have one or two more children. Children who grow up with big families will not subconsciously want to have one. But we shouldn’t force it. After all, this is the choice of young people themselves, so it’s not easy to interfere too much.”
"Wrong!" Xue's father hurriedly reminded his daughter: "You can't be too enlightened about this matter! Young people are greedy for comfort when they are young, but they know how miserable they are when they are old. The older generations say that there are many children and many blessings, and there are also people who have many children and many blessings.
It makes sense. If there are many children, the parents will naturally be less responsibilities shared by them when they get old.”
Xue Ling thought for a while and explained: "It's not that I want to be enlightened, but that the times cannot help us to be enlightened. Nowadays, young people have high freedom and extremely free thoughts, and the things they pursue are much more complicated than ours in that era. In addition, they
A generation pays more attention to themselves and will not think about too much responsibility and how to prepare for the distant future. They will do more at will and pay more attention to their own self-feelings."
Modern technology is changing with each passing day, and information technology is extremely developed. The stronger the independence and better privacy are protected, the more young people will pay attention to themselves.
No matter how busy she was in the past, she would try to take time to spend with her children. No matter how tired she was, she would not dare to stay away from her family for a long time.
Despite this, the generation gap between her and her children is still very large. Even though she has been studying, she tries to change and adjust with an open-minded attitude, and the generation gap will be narrowed, and it will still be there.
"When they get old, they will regret it." Xue Zhilan agreed with his cousin's idea and said: "Most parents will consider their children. As long as they can handle themselves well, they will never bother their future generations. But what they are most afraid of is themselves.
Sooner or later, I can't handle it, so I can only rely on my children. People eat grains and grains, so how can they not get sick? Once they get sick, their children have to go to the hospital to make money and hire families. It's not easy! The older generation always says that people have more power.
This is the reason. If there are many children, you can spend money and work hard. After the responsibility is shared, you must fulfill your own responsibility even if you are unfilial."
"Yes!" Liu Ying nodded constantly: "Why do people have to raise children? Isn't it to pass on the family line, and to have descendants who can rely on when they are old?"
Xue's mother thought so, and said loudly: "When I was young, I felt that my children were less, my financial pressure was less, and my life was better. When I get old and disabled, all the pressure would be transferred to my children. What if I regret it then
Is it time to rebirth? It is said that the benefits of the elderly are good now, but the most important problem is still not solved. When you fall ill and have no money, who will find someone to take care of you? Even if you go to a nursing home, you have to have it.
Money, right?"
"Mom, I forgot to bring your headphones." Xue Ling hurriedly took out a small thing from the old man's pocket, carefully stuffed it into his ears, and debugged it, and reminded him: "Remember to bring it with you when you wake up, otherwise you will be confused if you don't know if you speak.
I feel louder.”
Mother Xue said a few times, laughing loudly.
"No wonder you always feel that you were talking a little softly today! It turns out that you forgot again! Look! This is the principle that you must raise children, right? When you can't cook by yourself, at least someone will remind you and help me.
you."
Everyone laughed.
Dad Xue said earnestly: "Sometimes I can't help but wonder, is it too wrong for young people to advocate for free and willful thinking? You said that we humans are originally a group life, and no one lives together, and everything depends on it.
If you are alone, you will definitely not be able to survive. Even if you really can, it will be similar to wild savages or animals in the wild, so you can't be considered a human at all. If you can't get rid of materials, why are you talking about spiritual freedom? "
"Uh..." Xue Zhilan chuckled: "That's right, not right. Brother Wu, I feel that this question is more like a philosophical question."
Dad Xue laughed and stopped.
"It's too difficult. Anyway, we are not young people, so we must not understand. They don't understand us, and vice versa. Let's not talk about it, and then play chess."
Liu Ying turned his head and reminded him again: "Ling Ling, you still have to let a few children have one or two more, at least one person has to have two or two. We are both good at both men and women, no matter how many men and women, we have to have two or three."
"Okay." Xue Ling smiled bitterly and pretended to agree very happily, "Mom, don't worry. When they give birth to a baby, I will definitely contribute money and support my actions in terms of money."
Four children mean at least ten grandchildren. She needs to save more money quickly, exercise her health, and strive to be a good grandmother in the new era in the future.
So she hurriedly took out her cell phone and contacted Xiao Liao to prepare to start work tomorrow.
Cheng Tianyuan came back and took off his coat while coming over.
"What are you doing? Haven't the private room already been booked?"
Xue Ling lowered his voice: "I plan to have a meal with Xiao Liao at noon tomorrow. I am going to sell a portion of the stock I have on hand and leave some money to spare."