After all, Xue Ling was a senior generation of people's thoughts and whispered: "Most parents are for the good of their children. The starting point is good, but the method is not necessarily right, and the final outcome is not necessarily satisfactory."
Some things and some emotions are difficult to determine whether they are right or wrong.
She has experienced many people and things in her two lives, and is well aware of this truth.
Different people, different positions, different emotional experiences, and different views, can still have a variety of views when seeing exactly the same things.
No matter how good the starting point of parents is, it may not be good for children.
But most parents in the world love their children, and even work hard for the next generation to die. They also have their own difficulties and helplessness, but their children may not understand them.
Of course, the ideas of one generation are very different from those of the next generation. After all, parents are Lao Jiang, and their views on things will be more experienced and far-sighted than those of young children.
In short, as long as the word "love" is involved, it is difficult to tell whether it is family affection or love.
"Madam, I understand what you mean." A Chao explained around the steering wheel: "I am a father, and I can fight for my daughter--really! I can understand my parents a little, but I can do more.
After many years, I still feel a little resentful of them.”
"How about it now?" Xue Ling couldn't help asking.
Achao nodded and whispered: "I was really persistent at that time. I told them that even if I picked the wrong one and chose the wrong one, I would give me the chance to regret it myself, so that I can truly be free from complaints.
Regret. But they just don’t listen, and they can’t say it. That thing is like a scar on my heart…it will never be better.”
Xue Ling narrowed his eyes and looked at the dark night outside the window, and said warmly: "Time can heal all scars. Don't keep in mind the scars, otherwise the old wounds will still hurt from time to time."
"Oh!" Achao smiled bitterly: "The years have been better, and time is indeed a good medicine."
Xue Ling chuckled: "Yes, time is indeed a good medicine. Achao, everyone is moving forward, and no one can go back to the past. Since you are determined to live a good life with your wife, let the past pass. This is what you have done.
In other words, isn’t it a kind of relief, right?”
"Yeah." A Chao whispered: "I'm pretty good to my wife. Apart from being a little lazy, she has no major problems. She takes good care of her daughter and her family is well organized, that's enough.
I dare not tell her a word of the matter. It was just the past and had nothing to do with her. I only blame my parents and did not dare to take their anger on anyone."
Xue Ling couldn't help asking: "Your parents regret it, right?"
"They were really anxious and regretful in the years I had been alone." A Chao frowned and replied: "Later I got married and had a daughter, and they seemed to have forgotten everything. I didn't say it, but in my heart
I'm remembering it."
"Is it possible to blame for the rest of my life?" Xue Ling laughed silently.
A Chao shook his head: "I don't know. Anyway, I still blame them now. I guess I will still blame them in the next few decades."
The car became quiet.
Suddenly, Xue Ling asked without any brainstorm: "Achao, what do you think of Lin Qingzhi, a young man?"
"He?" A Chao laughed and replied: "I am the old emperor capital. I have never eaten pork and seen pig run. I have heard of the name of the Lin family for a long time, but unfortunately I only heard it.
I am not qualified to deal with such a young man, and I have no chance to get closer. I have been following you by your side over the years. I have seen many big names. This young master is very low-key. I was lucky to meet him when he was in contact with the third master.
Take him."
Xue Ling asked again: "What do you think...he is like?"
"Ouch!" Achao laughed: "Madam, I am not qualified to comment on the noble young man like me! They don't look like us mortals! It's a few more words to be a blasphemous person!"
Xue Ling laughed: "Is it that exaggerated?"
"Yes!" A Chao said the truth: "He looked like an extraordinary person. I heard that the Lin family's wealth could not be counted, and no one could estimate how huge their wealth was. After all, they were old nobles.
Who can tell me how many people are hidden in the vault at home?”
"Yeah." Xue Ling nodded: "He is indeed a very elegant and refined young man. It is rare to have such a demeanor at a young age."
A Chao agreed quickly: "After more than a hundred years ago, we would have to kneel down and kowtow when we met! Haha! Some people on the Internet said that when seeing the appearance of the Qing young master, the ancient nobles and princes finally had a look that they could refer to!
”
"Online?" Xue Ling couldn't help asking: "He has appeared online?"
As far as she knows, the Lin family has always been very hidden and low-key, and rarely appears in the upper reaches of the imperial capital. Except for the older generation of respected old people, only the older generation of respectable old people have the opportunity to contact the older generation of Lin family. In the past decade, the Lin family has not been in the imperial capital very much.
The media has appeared.
A Chao replied: "Someone has taken a secret photo of him. It is a silhouette with a certain appearance, which looks very elegant - the feeling of déjà vu of ancient scholars. I used to pick up and drop off the third young master and had contact with Qing Shao's bodyguard.
.We were afraid that we would offend Qing Shao accidentally, so we planned to check his information online. But we only had a few secret photos and nothing else. His bodyguard said that Qing Shao didn't like to do fancy things online.
Pai. As long as it is a little too much, the lawyer will go to the public relations.”
Xue Ling smiled slightly: "There is no reason why the Lin family can stand firm for more than a hundred years of storm."
"Yeah." A Chao lowered his voice: "In the past, no one in the imperial capital did not know the Lin family. Now the imperial capital has changed a lot. There are many outsiders than our locals. How can outsiders understand how profound the Lin family is?
I don’t know if there are hundreds of billions? It’s probably more than that.”
Xue Ling laughed: "Other people's wealth may shrink or change. Their real estate is large, and antiques account for the majority, which cannot be estimated. On the contrary, they will continue to appreciate. Not to mention outsiders, they will even guess them.
Most of the time, I can’t estimate it.”
After a pause, Xue Ling asked with a smile: "I ask you how he evaluates in your bodyguard circle. You can't say a suitable adjective for a long time, so you keep saying how rich and powerful the Lin family is - I know these,
You don't need to emphasize it."
"Hahaha!" Achao explained: "The Lin family is definitely a well-reviewed family in the circle, and the reward is too high! It's just that their family doesn't hire people casually, and the conditions are very high, so there are not many people who can go there."
Xue Ling became interested and asked curiously: "What are the conditions?"