Shan You felt ashamed of herself and whispered: "If it were me, I would definitely not be able to do it. I was so anxious that I even brought both kids, let alone any career!"
Wang Xiaoxiao thought for a while and said, "In the past, the older generation was busy every day, and had to go to work and take care of their children. The family used honeycomb coal and cooked everything slowly. They had to wash clothes by hand, and even had to carry water to drink...
...I don't know how they survived it."
"But they still survived!" Shan You lowered his voice: "After comparing, we are really weak."
Wang Xiaoxiao smiled bitterly: "My mother said that when she was pregnant, she had to go to work, and she went up and downstairs with a big belly every day, and did all the work she could do by herself. After she gave birth to our sisters, she and her father were the same.
At work, we were pulled up and raised. She said I don’t have to go to work now, with four children and three nannies, there are professional chefs in large and small meals, and there are housekeepers in cleaning. The elders at home will help take care of the children as long as they have them.
She asked for help. She said she couldn't figure out why I said I was too busy and tired all day long. I don't know if it's because it's hard to take care of the children nowadays, or if I'm too pretentious."
"We are too pretentious." Shan You smiled and told the truth: "Aren't I the same? When the child was young, he had a nanny and a nanny at home. Later, his parents-in-law helped him take care of the housework. Now the nanny is still doing the housework.
.”
Both of them looked at each other and felt a little embarrassed.
At this time, Wang Xiaoxiao's cell phone rang.
She glanced at it and whispered in a depressed voice: "Yangyang said he wouldn't come back for dinner, he would have to be busy if he had something to do, and he would not get home at about ten o'clock."
Shan You was used to it: "My family rarely gets home before 10 o'clock, it's great if you can come back before midnight!"
Wang Xiaoxiao sighed quietly: "No, I have to lose weight and exercise well. I must lose weight, otherwise I may be disliked by my husband one day."
"I think so too." Yamayu couldn't help singing a classic line: "Fall in love with someone who doesn't go home, wait for a door that doesn't open..."
Xue Ling hurriedly walked past with a straw hat and holding a pile of weeds, stuffing them into the big trash can in the corner.
Then, she walked back quickly.
Wang Xiaoxiao laughed and shouted, "Mom, take a break and come here to enjoy the cool air."
Xue Ling smiled and took off her gloves and hat, wiped the sweat from her forehead with the back of her hands.
"The weather is not very hot, but I can't help but sweat when I get sunny. Why don't you go to drink tea? There is Biluochun in the gazebo."
Wang Xiaoxiao shook her head: "No, I'm afraid I can't sleep if I drink too much."
"I don't want it either." Shan You smiled and said, "The long night is long, and if you can't sleep, you will feel more intuition. Don't drink it anymore, so as to avoid insomnia if you drink too much."
Xue Ling sat on the small stone pier beside him, slapped in a big straw hat.
"At your age, I wish I could sleep a little longer every day. Drinking tea is to refresh myself and not always sleepy. As long as I can get on the pillow, I can sleep to death. As long as I sit down, I drink it.
Try to drink more tea and strive to get better.”
The two young mothers looked at each other, laughing and crying and chatting about their worries.
After hearing this, Xue Ling felt funny and laughed out loud.
"If Xiaohuzi or Yangyang are those kind of man with a colorful heart, you may need such concerns or concerns, but they are not at all. They don't have that much time to spend with you because they are really busy. What do you think
Woolen cloth?"
Shanyou blushed and stammered: "Auntie, he is different from before... He is not even active in having a third child with me."
"You can't do it!" Xue Ling is an elderly aunt-level person after all, and she doesn't have much taboo to speak. What do you say: "No matter whether it's a man or a woman, as long as she has passed the childbirth period and is busy with work, she is intimate with her husband and wife.
Things are not as active as they were when they were young.”
"Mom, did you and dad... do you... do you do this too?" Wang Xiaoxiao asked boldly.
Xue Ling nodded: "Yes! Not only us, but most couples are like this. We are talking about universality, not everyone is there, and there are exceptions for all things. In fact, young people are even more important now, after all, we are
The work pressure and financial pressure are not as great as you. When you are in love, intimacy is common. After getting married, having children, I am busy with work and children every day, and my mind and energy are taken away, plus some miscellaneous things.
Things are enough to make people busy. If you have time, just want to have a good sleep or go dazed, play with your phone, where does it come from when you are tired and thirsty!"
Shan You echoed: "It's all like this! Every time I go home, I'm in the middle of the night, I take a shower in a hurry, then I lie on the bed and snoop on my phone, and fall back and sleep. When the child goes to school, he still doesn't wake up. Occasionally, I can't help it.
When he talks about him, he is tired and stressed."
Wang Xiaoxiao curled her lips: "Yangyang is almost the same. He went home a little earlier, but he was tired every time he came back. The children crawled around him, and he lazily coaxed them. Many times the children still
He didn't sleep, he was already sleeping like a dead pig."
Xue Ling understood very well: "I heard from my third brother that Yangyang seems to be working with Aqing to start a garment factory recently. People's energy is limited, they have to take into account the company and open a new factory, so they are busy outside.
, Of course, when you go home, you just want to fall down and sleep.”
"I always worry that he dislikes my body's worsening." Wang Xiaoxiao said the truth: "Occasionally, I see myself in the mirror, but I can't accept it. Some best friends say that men are all big pig's hooves and the flowers are no longer fragrant.
Of course, I have to go outside to steal food, and it’s not one or two, and the probability is very high. If I hear too much, I can’t help but feel furious in my heart.”
Xue Ling smiled and said the truth: "There must be men who cheat on food and love to steal food. There are enough people who broadcast on TV. The family of ordinary people is stable and there is nothing surprisingly good at watching. Naturally, some special ones should be broadcast, otherwise the audience will
I don’t have any interest in watching it. In the past, the carriages were slow, and I only loved ones in my life. Now it’s a world of flowers, and there are too many temptations outside.”
"Mom, do you have many male friends or colleagues around you cheat?" Wang Xiaoxiao asked curiously: "Have you ever calculated? Don't you meet many, right?"
Xue Ling thought about it carefully and replied: "There are probably one or two out of ten people. In addition, men with traditional thinking generally do not cheat or divorce. Instead, the cheating rate and divorce rate of the younger generation are relatively high. Really successful
People, whether men or women, will handle their marriage calmly, and will not betray the marriage at any time, nor will they divorce easily."
"Why?" Shan You asked with a giggle: "Successful and rich people also need to be afraid of divorce? Not so?"
Xue Ling smiled and shook her head: "There are indeed a few such people around me, but they are not really afraid of divorce. They just don't want to mess up their families. Maintaining the stability of their families will only benefit and not harm them. With the pros and cons,
Natural selection maintains the stability of the family.”