Xue Ling smiled gently and said confidently: "Based on Xiaohuzi's foundation in this industry, he should be able to make a comeback soon. There is no need to worry that he will not be able to raise two children."
Xiaohuzi is a pioneer in this industry and is one of the first people to make a lot of money.
With his current connections and abilities and sufficient capital chain around him, I believe that the situation will be reversed soon.
"Auntie, I know you will help him." Shan You whispered in embarrassment: "But you can help for a while, but you can't help for a lifetime. His mother is seriously ill now, and Xiao Xiaohu's grandfather has to take care of her. The two old men can no longer help take care of her.
It’s a child. And the child needs the care of his parents and the warmth of the family. It is far from enough to rely solely on nanny to take care of him. He has to be busy starting a business again and taking care of his mother, so how can he take care of his two children?”
Xue Ling shook his head: "He will do his best. In addition, we will also help. The two families live so close to each other to take care of each other when it is inconvenient."
"But... the child needs the company of his parents." Shan You still refused to give up and insisted: "If he can't do it, he should consider the child and leave the child to me to take good care of it."
Xue Ling did not answer positively, and her eyes fell on her belly.
"Youyou, you are still pregnant now, you have to give birth and have a confinement period next time, and there is a baby to take care of. How can you free up your hands to accompany the two little tiger brothers?"
"Uh... don't I have my parents?" Shanyou stammered: "My parents can help pick up and drop them up and accompany them."
Xue Ling shook her head: "Your parents are not in good health, let them take care of themselves first and take good care of themselves. In addition, the two brothers Xiao Xiaohu grew up here since childhood, and they are used to the care of Wang Qing and Ahu.
It is not a good thing for them to rashly ask them to change to a brand new and unfamiliar environment."
She is telling the truth, not deliberately targeting anyone or who.
Sometimes the failure of a marriage cannot be attributed to one person, but it is indeed inappropriate to have two children follow Shan You at the moment.
First, she has never been able to take care of her children, and now she is pregnant, so she obviously has no time to take care of herself. Second, Xiao Xiaohu and Minihu have been helped by their grandparents to take care of each other since childhood, and they cannot do without the environment in the imperial capital.
Furthermore, the two little guys are now the lives of Wang Qing and Ahu. If they were taken away, Wang Qing would not know what he would be anxious about.
With her current condition, she must not be stimulated by any further, especially such a bone-stripping incident.
"Children change quickly and adaptability is better than adults. They can get used to it quickly." Shan You whispered with red eyes: "Auntie, you are also a mother, you should understand my mood. I have been very good during this period.
I miss them very much, and I almost want to be crazy."
Speaking of this, Shan You was heartbroken again.
The child is the flesh that fell from her body, how could she not miss or worry about it!
If she hadn't had to take care of her fetus and care of her body, she would have flew to the Emperor Capital to see them long ago.
Every time I think of the scene where two little guys looked at her with strange eyes at the beginning, her heart couldn't help but thrust, and even her breathing was painful.
Xue Ling's face was light and his voice was low: "Youyou, this is your choice, isn't it? Your choice will definitely cause the collapse of your family. Two children are either one by one, and two brothers are one by one. If so,
For either side, the child either loses fatherly love or loses his mother. This is the inevitable result, isn’t it?”
Shan You was stunned, tears flashing in her eyes.
"Auntie, I...I'm not a good mother, I know. But I...I love two children, can you understand?"
"Yes, I understand." Xue Ling smiled bitterly and sighed: "But love is one thing. Can you take good care of them and give them a better and more stable environment? I have no confidence in you."
Shanyou lowered his eyes, and tears dripped down.
Xue Ling whispered: "Although Ah Qing fell ill, Xiao Huzi can still take care of the two children. At least for now, the two children are living a good and stable life. Let's not say that Xiao Huzi cannot agree. Let's see first
Look at your side. You are still pregnant now and you are very likely to organize a new family in the future. Are you sure your lover can accept Xiao Xiaohu and the others? How difficult will you be in the middle then?"
Everyone can see how good her abilities are. Since Xiaohu was born, the family must have a nanny and a nanny, otherwise she alone will not be able to take care of the children.
Later, Wang Qing and Ahu came, and the family hired a nanny, otherwise there would be no room for chores.
After Xiao Xiaohu went to kindergarten, Wang Qing and Ahu took care of Mini Tiger wholeheartedly and were able to go to kindergarten until now. During this period, the two elderly people were mainly working hard.
In the past two years, she often traveled to the South Island, two or three months, or even longer, and she had very little time to stay with her two children.
It’s not that Xue Ling is cruel, nor that she doesn’t understand Shan You, but that she guesses that Shan You is not able to take good care of the two children.
Since that's the case, why bother to fight for the custody of the child at this time!
"I-I can try it." Shan You choked.
Xue Ling shook his head slowly: "Youyou, the child's childhood is only once, and the child's growth process is only once, and he will never be able to try it. Because if he fails, it may never be able to be saved. The child stays with Xiaohuzi, at least they
We will grow up in a familiar and comfortable environment, with grandparents, fathers and aunts around us, and our family. We are their closest relatives, and we will definitely care for them. But if the children remarry with you, they will be by their side.
Apart from you, there is not even a person with blood relationship. How much love can they get?"
Shan You was stunned and couldn't answer for a moment.
Xue Ling's face was calm and whispered: "Youyou, you are about to have another child. How much can you spread your love, energy and time to each child? Have you ever thought about it? In addition, your future is different.
How much can a companion love Xiao Xiaohu and the others? How confident can you have?"
Shan You wanted to speak but stopped, but in the end she couldn't speak because she couldn't confirm it in her heart.
It is naturally because of nature that you love your own child, so there is no need to say that.
But Xiao Xiaohu has no blood relationship with him at all. She was also unsure of how patient he could be with them and how much pain he felt.
Xue Ling sighed softly: "Youyou, a person's greed should be matched with his ability, so that he will not be considered greedy. If he exceeds his ability, he will be ridiculed as a delusion. It is a delusion to ask others to do things and achieve themselves. How much should he do?
It’s difficult. Many people don’t actually know that asking themselves is the easiest thing in the world, and asking others is always unknown, and it’s far more difficult.”