Ah Hu couldn't help but frown and asked, "Not all?"
"No!" Chen Min smiled bitterly: "The boss is almost the same as Yang Yang from Ayuan's family, but Yang Yang is already the father of four children! None of the three are suitable for each other, so he still refuses to look for them - I am so worried!"
Ah Hu also looked disbelief: "At their age, if I could get a fixed salary a month, I would definitely find a partner! When I was in my twenties, my heart was so hot every day that I could stop me.
Don't stay that kind!"
Everyone laughed.
Cheng Tianyuan said: "We were different from now. The materials were not as rich as they are now. They were very simple. They were lucky enough to be able to fill their stomachs. At that time, we would also give us a wedding candy and wear a formal set.
Clothes, wear a red flower, and post a big happy word, even if you get married. For families with better financial resources, it is enough to place a few dishes to invite friends to gather together."
"Yes!" Ahu laughed and said, "If the unit can get thirty yuan in salary, it can be the kind of person! So I don't understand the young people nowadays. They have everything and life is so good.
Why don’t you get married or find a partner?”
"Implications." Chen Min frowned and explained: "My daughter loves to watch TV and TV series on her mobile phone all day long. She always tells me that the divorce rate is so high now. Since she is going to divorce in the end, why should she get married?
The partner can make money, but she can make money too. When she gets married, the child must be born to the woman, and the woman has to take care of the woman, and the woman has to do housework. What can I get if I work so hard? In the end, I have to get a divorce. When I get divorced, the child
How pitiful, I have to work and take care of my children, where can I get the energy to make money and live? I can't do anything, anyway, I'm afraid of marriage and childbirth. I also said that unless I can marry a rich and beautiful president like her cousin, it would be better.
I would rather be alone for the rest of my life.”
"Xiao Tong?" Ahu asked, "Duoduo's wife? Yes?"
Chen Min nodded: "Among my sisters, the little Tong, the younger sister, is the best married. She is beautiful and has good grades in school. After graduation, she can still find someone who is so outstanding and rich.
My husband has envied all the relatives. The young girl thinks that others can marry well, so why can't she? So she chooses all kinds of dislikes and has a very high vision. That's how my daughter is
The influence comes."
"Where do you get so many presidents!" Ah Hu laughed: "There are so many companies and groups in the imperial capital. How many young presidents are there yet? Ten fingers are enough?"
"Yes!" Chen Min stopped: "Everyone has to choose good ones, and he has such a high vision. Where can I find so many excellent presidents to marry, right?"
Cheng Tianyuan said funny: "Little Tong is not necessarily so happy. She has to study and take care of her family and children, which is quite hard. Besides, Duoduo is a workaholic, and everything is focused on work, working overtime every few days. The couple
Everyone is busy, so I'm afraid they can't even get together on weekends. It looks very glorious and seems very good, but how many people can understand the hard work and bitterness in it?"
"Look!" Chen Min smiled bitterly: "Xiao Tong also has Xiao Tong's depression!"
Wang Qing's hands trembled and said in a low voice: "Mentality... is all a matter of mentality and three views."
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "It's indeed all a matter of mentality."
"But I don't know how to persuade them." Chen Min shook his head: "I can't persuade them, and I don't know how to persuade them. Say a few more words, they think I'm nagging. If I don't say it, it seems that it's not right.
.How can parents be willing to let their children live alone without finding a partner, right?"
Ah Hu patted his shoulder and sighed: "Brother, don't think too much. We really don't have many things to do. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. If they think it's good, then let them do it."
"There is no way not to follow." Chen Min laughed and said, "I don't care about what they like. I ended up with divorce. I don't have the qualifications to teach the children how to organize their families and take care of them.
family."
"You can't say that." Cheng Tianyuan whispered: "We can't do more things! Could it be that we are not qualified to care about our children? Yes?"
Chen Min smiled bitterly: "Parents are role models for their children. I can't do it. The children... are very disappointed with marriage and family. They are afraid of marriage and childbirth, and there are reasons for the failure of their parents' marriage."
"You are no wonder." Ah Hu comforted: "You have always been a good father, and they all know it in their hearts. They are now celebrating you and are very filial to you, that's enough."
Chen Min's eyes turned slightly red and he whispered: "If my family is harmonious, why would the children be like this? Look at Ayuan's family, he and his sister-in-law have always been very loving, and the children are all very good. Even if it's too late,
Some people look for partners, but they will eventually go to find one. They will not be afraid of getting married, nor will they insist on being infertile. Family and parents are the main factors that affect... I know."
"They have to think it through themselves." Cheng Tianyuan comforted: "There will be some more or less influence, but not all. The main reason is that the current media propaganda concept is not very correct. None of the optimistic consumption concepts are correct. What kind of thing is that kind of thing?
Life is short, love yourself more, buy all kinds of luxury goods, pre-consumption, etc., is not correct."
Ah Hu frowned and shook his head: "It's all wrong! It hurts a lot!"
Cheng Tianyuan continued to explain: "Some young people even use credit cards to buy luxury goods - these will cause trouble for the younger generation. How much money can they spend, parents and families don't have to bear it? Even if they don't have to bear it for the time being, they don't have to plan for the future.
Make plans? The older generation is afraid of not saving. If you don’t have money around you, you will feel unsure and feel uneasy. Young people must taste the pain and panic of not saving before they finally wake up. Some wrong concepts
The spread is too fast and the impact is very bad. It sounds very reasonable, and all kinds of coax and seduction are easy for young people to make mistakes, but in the end they pay a heavy price."
"Young people have weak ears and no social experience, so they are easily deceived!"
"Yes! Recently, there are still a lot of people who prefer boys over girls, which makes family relationships indifferent and have various confrontations with their parents. My Xiao Yuner can't help but get angry every time she sees them! Girls are also born to parents.
How can someone raise a family occasionally engage in opposition and confrontation because of different treatments from their parents? Family relationships are becoming worse and worse because of all kinds of messy TV series and media videos. Fortunately, Xiao Yuner has grown up and understands
Distinguish where is right and where is wrong.”
"Not necessarily, one generation escapes by chance. Isn't there a next generation? Don't let your children see the messy things. We should promote the correct values and family view to avoid being taught randomly!"
Cheng Tianyuan raised his eyes and unconsciously found that the sunset had set, so he quickly got up.
"You can't rest, go back and wash the river clams. If you continue chatting, the supper will be gone!"