"We all know." Cheng Huanran felt deeply sympathetic: "Xiaohan has a sensitive personality and has less calmness and freedom with others. You have a lot of effort when teaching her."
Xue Heng shook his head and sighed: "I don't want to say it, after all, no parents can easily take on the position of "parents". Originally, I only hoped that I could "give me a lot without any loss", but I still had a sense of fatherly love flowing eastward.
ah."
"Uncle Heng, don't be too sad." Cheng Huanran comforted: "Maybe things are far less serious than what we are worried about. It's probably just that we are too sensitive and nervous."
"Not to mention what her relationship with that man is." Xue Heng whispered: "She can make up excuses to deceive us, which is a big deal. We love her and care for her, but she is full of slandering us.
.We didn't even have basic trust between us. Going to the South Island is considered a long trip, not as simple as leaving the city. She could hide it from us. I thought I was in college and gave her enough space, but I didn't know
Let the tiger return to the mountain.”
Cheng Huanran didn't know how to persuade him, reminded: "Uncle Heng, it may be a certain link... Ignored. It's better to talk about this kind of thing. Maybe Xiaohan just doesn't want you to know too much, after all, girls of this age have it.
It’s normal for your own little secret.”
"It's not just that." Xue Heng sighed: "If it's open, she might get angry and lose her temper, and then your aunt will quickly admit defeat and coax her and follow her. Even if I want to teach her well, occasionally
Because of your aunt's face, I have to give up halfway."
Cheng Huanran knew his helplessness and whispered: "You and your aunt cannot cooperate well, this is the main reason."
"Yes." Xue Heng explained helplessly: "She and I have their own lives and circles of friends. We should be relatives, but not husband and wife. We should teach our children that parents should be equally important, so we cannot play a solo show alone. With her cooperation, I will both
I may not be able to teach my daughter well, let alone I have to carry the main ropes."
Cheng Huanran said: "Auntie Xiaohan is just a child, so it is inevitable that she will be pampered."
"The worst thing is that she always feels that she owes her daughter." Xue Heng explained: "She has this mentality towards Xiaohan, so she is reluctant to discipline her, and she is unhappy. She even coaxes her tremblingly, worried that her daughter will send a message.
The temper tantrums with her, destroying the relationship between mother and daughter.”
Cheng Huanran understood and whispered: "Uncle Heng, actually... this is not a mistake for my aunt. My aunt has experienced too many twists and turns and many bumps in life. Like you, she hopes to teach Xiaohan well,
I hope Xiaohan can grow up happily.”
"Yes." Xue Heng sighed: "Her expectations are not wrong, but her approach is wrong. I have reminded her in a vague way, but she always told me that Xiaohan is a kind-hearted girl and dare not act recklessly, even if there are some
A small mistake can't be outrageously wrong. She insists on thinking this way, and I can't do anything about it."
Cheng Huanran didn't know how to persuade him for a moment, so he calmed down.
Xue Heng continued: "We got closer again at the beginning, just for Xiaohan. No matter how much we hated her or how angry she was, we had long regarded it as a passing cloud. But getting closer does not mean that we can communicate without any barriers. I and I
She has never been able to get along with her, mainly because our three views are rarely consistent. It is the same experience in educating children."
Xue Heng leaned on the sofa chair and looked out the dull floor-to-ceiling window, looking sad.
"Oh, you are still young... I don't know that there are many helplessness in life. I understand the ups and downs of her life. But she has never been able to reach an agreement with me in teaching her daughter, which makes me really helpless.
I can't negotiate with her, this is also my failure."
Cheng Huanran did not like to comment on the "right or wrong" of his elders and did not dare to speak.
My aunt and Xinyuan dare not get too close, partly because of grandma, and partly because my aunt did not dare to come. She felt guilty towards her father and had no shame to come to her parents' house.
Over the years, my aunt has only dared to attend the happy events and major events in Xinyuan, and she hid in the sanatorium at other times.
She made a big mistake when she was young, and she almost spent half her life regret to repay it. She suffered from inner condemnation and torture, and could not let go even after many years.
Her personality is already flawed, and many things are difficult to force her to have the same ideas and practices as others.
Cheng Huanran made an extra cup of tea and handed it to Xue Heng.
Xue Heng thanked him and took it and took a few more sips.
Cheng Huanran couldn't help but change the topic and said warmly: "Uncle Zhilan has a good look recently. He took his blood pressure and his grandparents yesterday, both of which were within the normal range."
"Luckily your parents don't dislike you." Xue Heng chuckled: "Or what else can we do to keep him at Xinyuan. Fortunately, we are our own family, otherwise many people would have to call us two brothers unfilial and cruelly throw our father to him.
Your parents.”
Cheng Huanran smiled lowly: "As long as the elderly are happy, there is no need to care too much about other things. To put it bluntly, they are already at this age, so the most important thing is to be happy and at ease."
"Yes." Xue Heng rubbed his slightly painful chest and frowned and asked, "Ranran, why haven't your mother come back yet? Where is your father?"
Cheng Tianyuan had already changed his clothes and walked over, and just heard the last sentence.
"Isn't this coming? If you can't find a suitable shirt to put on, just change into clothes that are out, so as to avoid having to change tomorrow morning."
"It's almost dawn." Cheng Huanran said: "It's not so two or three hours away."
Xue Heng couldn't help asking: "Where is Ling Ling? Is there any news?"
"She-she hasn't come back yet?" Cheng Tianyuan was about to sit down, but when he heard this, he immediately stood up: "Have she not gone to the kitchen just now? Haven't she come back yet?"
"No!" Xue Han replied.
Cheng Tianyuan was anxious and asked back: "Didn't she take the bowl to the kitchen? How long does it take? It's not that the lights are too dark and sprain their feet, right? Most of the lights over there are turned off!"
After speaking, he hurried out.
Cheng Huanran also felt that his mother had been there for a long time, so he hurriedly followed him.
Unexpectedly, Xue Ling was not in the big kitchen, but in the monitoring room in front.
Cheng Tianyuan couldn't find anyone in the huge kitchen, so he was so scared that he ran to the back garden to look for it, but unfortunately there was not a single figure.
"Dad!" Cheng Huanran shouted: "Mom is in the monitoring room! Don't worry! The lights in the back garden are not light enough, be careful under your feet!"
Cheng Tianyuan hurried back and frowned and widened his son.
"I won't say it earlier! It's the big night, why are you yelling! I'll wake up the old man and the children later, but you're asking!"
Cheng Huanran silently buried his head and couldn't help but defend himself.
“…I just found out.”
Cheng Tianyuan was too lazy to argue with him and hurried to the monitoring room.
The monitoring room was a little lively at this time. Not only A Chao was there, but even Kang An was helping.