Xue Ling asked curiously: "Prove your work ability?"
"Yes." Xiao Tong explained: "The gap between husband and wife cannot be too big, otherwise problems will arise sooner or later. The gap between me and him is huge. If I don't catch up, he will look down on me even more."
Xue Ling felt a little insane and asked, "Who said these words? It's impossible that it's Duoduo?"
"No." Xiao Tong replied: "That's what I think... There are a lot of people coming from the new media, not just me."
Xue Ling felt a headache when she heard it and frowned and said, "Don't watch those messy public accounts all day long. They are people who make money by relying on traffic, and they rely on some gimmicks or eye-catching words to fool you readers into making money. Your own
You have to live by yourself, and other people’s ideas can only be referenced, and may not be suitable for your marriage.”
Xiao Tong's eyes dodged and hesitated: "Auntie, there is really no distance between me and him... In addition, I have graduated, and if I don't make a good start while I am young, it will be less likely to be as I get older.
Can fight."
"Don't create anxiety for yourself." Xue Ling sighed with pain: "Xiao Tong, what's wrong with you recently? You look haggard, speak in an unorganized manner, and your words are full of anxiety and anxiety."
Xiao Tong was stunned and turned to shake her head: "...No."
Xue Ling didn't argue with her and smiled slightly.
"Don't be anxious, and don't rush to deny it. Let the aunt tell you a few stories, okay?"
Xiao Tong nodded slightly and swept his eyes to the cell phone on the table.
Xue Ling continued in a gentle voice: "If you are in a hurry, then I can not tell stories, but only people or things around us, okay?"
Xiao Tong apologized and smiled: "It's okay... It's just lunch time now, so I don't have to hurry back to work. Auntie, tell me."
Xue Ling thought for a while and said, "I don't know where your young people's ideas come from. Maybe it's all kinds of messy information channels, maybe it's the personal ideas of some people. I should remind you - some
A human point of view cannot represent everything. What can the distance between husband and wife be? Education, family, career, and social status?"
Xiao Tong whispered: "...all included."
Xue Ling smiled and said, "In the past, people valued the same family because they were afraid that the couple would not get along in the future and that the gap was too big and they could not cross. In my opinion, you and Duoduo were considered to be a good couple. You had the same education at the beginning, but later
You are studying for a master's degree, but he is better than you in work experience. He has his own experience. He is not as good as you in family. His family is complicated and he is a child who grew up in a single-parent family. Your family is happy and warm, simple.
The family is in the imperial capital, but your family is in a small town in the south, so it is not as good as it in terms of geographical location. Therefore, the family also has its own spring and autumn."
Xiao Tong couldn't help but whisper: "His career... is much more successful than mine."
"It's okay." Xue Ling replied: "He started working at the airport. His work was not hard, and his salary was just an ordinary salaryman, so he was not considered a wealthy person. After you were intern in the company, if you didn't take you with me, Duoduo.
At most, you are just an ordinary employee of the company, and your monthly salary is about 10,000 yuan. Even if you are studying for a master's degree now, your salary will be about 10,000 or 20,000 yuan."
Xiao Tong didn't agree much and whispered: "But he has you with him."
Xue Ling nodded: "Yes, but you have him with you too. You are the same in this regard. But my starting point is high, so Duoduo follows high. If you are by his side, you will also rise with the water. This is why Duoduo
The reason why you have always insisted on going to the group to continue working."
Xiao Tong was stunned.
Xue Ling continued to explain: "You have been in the group for a few years and understand the semi-wolf corporate culture over there. With your qualifications, if you didn't take you with you much at the beginning, you could only be the lowest-level intern, not
Standing behind the president all of a sudden. Ability is important, but the platform is a platform, and the platform is not a ability. If I promote others, not Duoduo, then he is just an ordinary salaryman now. After all, you are about the same as him
, there is not as huge as you call it a huge gap."
Xiao Tong was speechless for a moment and seemed to be unable to relieve herself.
Xue Ling continued: "I didn't break out by myself either. I stood on my father's shoulders and relied on the foundation laid by my parents to get up step by step. I was just born at that time and was busy every day.
I sold clothes everywhere, and the money I earned was a few cents a day. When I was erecting my big belly, I brought my family to the imperial capital, and even my mother helped me to arrange the place where I stayed. At that time, I was probably at your age, right?
,almost."
She paused for a moment and took a sip of coffee to moisten her throat.
"Now new media like to make people who often earn millions of annual salary and hundreds of thousands of monthly salary bonuses. You often use mobile phones to read it without thinking carefully about the true or falsehood. In fact, there are few such people.
There are fewer people, they are high-income people at the top of the pyramid. Don’t always think that money is so easy to make, and don’t always think that you can’t do it. You are still far away from others. The steps are taken step by step, not because you work hard and be ruthless.
If you force yourself, you can reach the sky immediately."
Xiao Tong lowered her eyes, as if she had heard it.
"Maybe it was because of the few years I spent in the group... the people I came into contact with were all high-income people, and they were all of these people on their mobile phones, so I took it seriously."
Xue Ling smiled and asked, "The Imperial Capital is one of the largest cities in the country, and its prosperity is only a matter of a few. But have you ever calculated that how many large groups can the Imperial Capital have? The group is also the top-level high-level.
If the leader has such a salary, how can anyone else have it?"
Xiao Tong stammered: "It must be... not many."
Xue Ling nodded: "Actually, there are not many. If I let Yangyang or Xiaoxin take over, Duoduo will become a senior leader with an annual salary of hundreds of thousands at most. How many years will it take for your wedding house to earn?
You can only buy it if you don’t drink it? Duoduo has also bought a villa, how many years will it take? Have you calculated it?"
Xiao Tong whispered awkwardly: "I don't know how many lifetimes it will take..."
Xue Ling chuckled: "So, Duoduo is just standing on my shoulders, just like I was standing on my parents, but the starting point of luck is relatively high, so it will be a little higher than you. If you rely on him
You can only get the position of the president if you have gray hair. You are a rookie who has just graduated and compete with a big president who stands on two generations - what do you think? Compare with him,
Can you not be anxious? Can you not feel uncomfortable?"
Xiao Tong blushed ashamed and explained: "I am not as lucky as him... and I didn't want to reach his height. At least I have to have my own independent career without relying on him."