Xue Ling narrowed his eyes and looked at him, asking, "Why is it? Tell me the truth."
"That-" Zheng Duoduo whispered in a low voice: "She is not the kind of person who easily compromises. I only wake up when I want to make her fall and fall into tears. Instead of persuading her to give up, it is better to let her give up by herself.
”
"Nonsense!" Xue Ling shouted in a deep voice: "You know she is someone who will not compromise easily, but you still let her stumble and grit her teeth and persevere? The more this happens, the more anxious and uncomfortable she will be, and the less dare she give up!"
Zheng Duoduo thought and stammered: "I-I want her to give up completely. In the past, with me protecting her, she could have a smooth flow in the group. But she thought she had outstanding abilities... she had to recognize her.
Clear the facts.”
Xue Ling rolled his eyes and asked, "Then what? Did she recognize it? She only knows that you are indifferent and do not help her, and do not support her in starting a business. If you make her isolated and helpless, she will anger you in her heart. If you are angry, you will easily lose it.
Reasonable, even the divorce was raised - it can be seen how serious it is!"
"I'm wrong, I'm wrong." Zheng Duoduo admitted: "I'm really too stubborn about this."
"You guy!" Xue Ling cursed in a deep voice: "I am usually quite smart, but why do I mess around at such a critical moment! People's hearts cannot withstand torture, not only cannot withstand temptation, but also cannot withstand indifference."
Zheng Duoduo defended embarrassedly: "I can't help her... She doesn't want me to help."
"She really thinks that?" Xue Ling couldn't help but ask: "Really? Confirm? If she doesn't have any fantasies about you, she won't want you to help her."
Zheng Duoduo was slightly stunned and turned to say, "I admit that I also have the element of being angry."
"You are still a big man!" Xue Ling said: "You brag all day long that your wife is loved by marrying her and coaxed her. She sounds nice, but at the critical moment, she starts to fight indifference! Say one thing and do another! Really, she is really a gambler!
Xue Ling glanced at him and asked, "Xinzhi can't support you in doing this, right? Why didn't he persuade you?"
Zheng Duoduo told the truth: "I didn't tell him much, he was just a little bit of aware. I've talked to Yangyang before, and he is quite supportive of me."
"Yangyang?" Xue Ling was speechless and said, "It would be fine for you boys to get together! The personal situation is different. Xiaoxiao grew up in the national team since she was a child and has received various rigorous training since she was a child, so she has an independent personality.
Tough and strong. Xiao Tong grew up with her parents. She has been beautiful and smart since she was a child and has such good grades in her studies. Therefore, she has a pride and unyielding spirit in her bones. Did you ever think of his wife?
Different from your wife's personality?"
"...No." Zheng Duoduo answered in a low voice.
Xue Ling continued to analyze: "Xiaoxiao, she used to challenge new records every day. She knows that there are people outside of others, so she has a sense of modesty and exploration in her bones. Xiao Tong is different! She knows it is not feasible, but she still dares to grit her teeth.
She was very proud. She couldn't suppress her, she could only coax her to recognize the reality and follow her temper. Do you understand?"
"I understand." Zheng Duoduo admired: "Sister, Jiang is still so spicy. Judging from this, you are much more experienced than me."
Xue Ling sneered: "Because I am older than you!"
"Where are there!" Zheng Duoduo coaxed: "You are the ageless goddess in our hearts, always young and beautiful, smart and wise."
Xue Ling laughed: "Okay, okay, don't coax me. Keep this kind of heart and coax your wife well. Husband and wife, the feudal dynasty used to be the leader of the wife, but the times were different. Husband was before
, because the husband plays a leading role in the family, and is a leader and a helm. Whether the wife can drive along with you or drag you down is the leader."
"I understand." Zheng Duoduo smiled bitterly: "It was because I was wrong in estimation and deliberately angered her... that caused such a serious quarrel."
"The most unforgivable thing is that you don't know it!" Xue Ling pointed out the most critical point and said: "If you want things, you need to consider them in many ways and don't be stubborn. Although you are smart, you cannot be smart all your life. The saint is still
Maybe he is smart and confused for a lifetime, let alone us ordinary people.”
"Yeah." Zheng Duoduo nodded after being taught: "I will learn a lesson this time. I... I will go back and find her."
Xue Ling smiled slightly and explained: "I had a long chat with Xiao Tong at noon. Take her to a romantic place, coax her and accompany her to eat her favorite food-
—Don’t forget to bring a bouquet of flowers to apologize.”
"Thank you sister." Zheng Duoduo was very grateful and said, "I guess you came for our business, but I didn't expect you had already found Xiao Tong... Thank you."
Xue Ling said in a gentle voice: "She also realized her mistake, but she was hard to admit, especially in front of you. She is a proud girl's house. You go down the slope to give her face, so you don't have to have to fight or quarrel immediately.
As a man, he can still bend and stretch, just for his family, for his children, and for his mother."
"Oh." Zheng Duoduo agreed.
I believe that with Sister Ling's advice, he will definitely achieve twice the result with half the effort this time and will succeed.
He smiled helplessly: "Since recently, my mother has suffered a lot for the sake of our two, and she often can't sleep well at night. She can't sleep at night, and she has to help take care of the children during the day."
Mom always talks about "Home harmony and everything will be prosperous", but he didn't feel much about it before. Until he got married and became a family, he was upset with his wife and was in a bad mood. The old man at home
He and his children suffered with each other. Now he finally understood the profound meaning of this sentence.
Xue Ling shook her head and chuckled: "It's all people of this age. You shouldn't let the old mother worry anymore. Take it as a warning and won't be an example."
"I dare not." Zheng Duoduo said: "When I coax Xiao Tong to come home, my mother will be happy immediately."
Xue Ling stood up and said, "Okay, I have to go back too. The matchmaker has to run away from both sides, and the two sides have to run away when he persuades people to fight! I used to be a matchmaker for you, but I even had to travel to Rongcheng. I didn't expect that I would get married smoothly, and I still
I have to rely on me as a matchmaker to persuade the fight.”
"I promise - no one will do this!" Zheng Duoduo patted his chest solemnly.
Xue Ling patted his shoulder lightly and said warmly: "Sister is willing to serve you, except to persuade you to fight."
Zheng Duoduo smiled and held her hand.
"Sister, I'll send you down."
Xue Ling shook her head: "No need, I don't know the elevator entrance, so you need to run up and down. There is still half an hour to have a lunch break? Go and take a nap, close your eyes and take a nap. It's okay,
I will be much better in the afternoon.”
Zheng Duoduo felt warm in his heart and quickly agreed: "Okay, listen to you."