Cheng Huanran lowered his eyes and whispered: "He... may take time. Maybe he will want to remarry if he has the opportunity to meet the right person in the future."
Everything is absolutely absolutely true, and some things are hard to say too early.
Before he met An An, he was not very excited about getting married, and he was not even interested in falling in love.
When the person in life appears, everything is natural.
Xue Yang had no confidence and explained: "Once a person passes that age, his heart will be different. For men, forty or one flower, but when he reaches fifty or sixty, it's a different matter."
Cheng Huanran was very optimistic and said, "It would be nice to find a partner to live with him!"
"Hope." Xue Yang curled his lips: "Anyway, he already has two sons. Life is not afraid of loneliness, nor is it afraid of death and no one will die."
"Go and go!" Cheng Huanran laughed and scolded: "Can you say something good? Can you hope he is better?!"
Xue Yang smiled helplessly: "No! I just said something wrong? What's wrong? The old man with descendants will not be too sad, especially the rich old man. After his club is built, his value will be
It won’t be low. When the child grows up, he will not be old. Then he will be free and free, and there will be nothing wrong with it."
"That's right." Cheng Huanran smiled silently: "Little Huzi loves excitement and is smart, so he won't let himself live a miserable life."
Xue Yang nodded and said, "If there were no children, he would probably remarry and have children. But he already has two sons, and he is busy making money and taking care of his son is already very busy. How can he have time and energy to go again.
Do other things. For some people, marriage is a pit. Once you fall in, you finally get out of it. How can you get rid of it more often? Once you are stupid, you will be stupid and you will be stupid again? Well?"
"It varies from person to person." Cheng Huanran lowered his voice: "Our people still believe in love."
Xue Yang shook his head: "Most people don't believe in love after getting married. To be honest, most of my friends said they regret getting married after getting married, but few said they were very happy and regretted not getting married early."
"Marriage is different from love." Cheng Huanran analyzed: "Love is the sweet relationship between two people, and marriage will add many other elements. Both families, children, trivialities of work and family, etc. You cannot have too much about marriage.
High expectations, otherwise you will be disappointed easily.”
Xue Yang didn't understand much and asked, "What does it mean? Don't you expect marriage?"
"How is that possible!" Cheng Huanran explained: "People who want to get married will naturally have expectations, but the content of expectations varies from person to person. I look forward to growing old together with my beloved woman, raising our children well, and spending our lives together with my life together.
.Some people are looking forward to crossing the class and realizing financial freedom. For example, the friend and sister I just mentioned, she wants to use marriage to take advantage of wealth to get to the next level. If her partner disappoints her in the future, she will naturally
Will be disappointed in the marriage.”
"Yes." Xue Yang said: "People who look forward to love may not be able to satisfy them. Marriage is not as passionate as falling in love. Age and work, all kinds of trivial things will distract you from children. How can passion be like this for decades? Yes
Well? So, the majority of people who regret it.”
Cheng Huanran smiled slightly and shook his head: "Actually, the worst thing is that many people are accustomed to adding their expectations to others. Putting their hopes on others will make it easier to be disappointed."
"Yes, yes!" Xue Yang murmured: "It's all the same. Why is the other party not good? A lot of bad people are not good. This kind of life is not what he or she wants. All kinds of disappointments and dislikes are everywhere.
, and then I made excuses to want to divorce.”
Cheng Huanran said warmly: "Create some goals for yourself and ask less for others to live a happy life. To put it more elegantly, it means to tolerate your relatives around you, work more and complain less, and life can be happy. Don't give, expect
If others give or just give, others enjoy the fruits of their own. Sooner or later, all kinds of problems will arise. Marriage will only be full of holes, so how can we be happy?"
"Yes." Xue Yang said confidently: "I have no requirements for Xiaoxiao, and she has not put any requirements or conditions for me. I understand that it is not easy for her to raise children, and she understands that I have worked hard to make money. I have paid, and she has paid too.
Only if you have to compare or not can you be happy!”
Cheng Huanran nodded: "Yes, An An and I will definitely learn from you in the future."
Xue Yang laughed out loud.
Cheng Huanran said happily: "Don't think I'm joking, I'm serious. You got married a few years earlier than us, and a lot of experience is worth learning from. There is no family that is happy for no reason, right? Each family has its own happiness.
The way. You and Xiaoxiao are considerate and tolerant of each other - it is worth learning from us!"
"My parents are more worthy of your learning." Xue Yang raised his master and counted: "They belong to the type of mutual support. Grandpa and grandma belong to the type of mutual love and respect. Uncle Ahu and their men are strong and gentle women are soft-sexed-there are many!"
Cheng Huanran nodded in recognition: "Study hard and improve every day. We will learn one by one."
"The type of parents is the most recognized!" Xue Yang explained: "Xiaoxiao and I want to learn the model of parents. We must learn not only in terms of how couples get along, but also in teaching children."
"Oh?" Cheng Huanran asked with a hilarious question: "What aspect does it teach your child? Give your child enough space and freedom? Or does it mean marriage choice?"
Xue Yang laughed and said, "To be honest, our family is a clear stream among wealthy families. You don't care about marriage between wealthy families and don't love rich people to get married, you can just like them yourself.
There are very few ones.”
"That's it." Cheng Huanran smiled and said, "It's mainly because parents have laid a good foundation for us, giving us the right to choose and giving us enough room for free choice. For parents, it doesn't matter what marriage is used to do.
Consolidate the family business and continue to do it well. Making money is not just about more money. Parents are not greedy people. Knowing that the love of their children is the best foundation for marriage and family.”
Xue Yang patted his chest and said, "To be honest, I am very grateful to my parents. I don't trade my marriage and give me my biggest choice in my life."
"You want to be a sports student, but your parents finally agreed?" Cheng Huanran smiled: "Your grades were not too bad back then. You can't go to the sports student route. One book is not enough, but the second book still has it.
It is very likely. But parents will eventually follow your own ideas and let you choose the sports you love the most."
"Yes, yes." Xue Yang laughed, "I chose career and love myself - I can be considered as having no regrets in this life."