Chen Xinzhi frowned: "No wonder Yangyang blamed her for not trusting him enough."
It is not trivial to have a crisis of trust between husband and wife.
The relationship between people is based on trust, and this is especially true between husband and wife.
Xue Xin was in a very embarrassing and asked, "What should I do now?"
Chen Xinzhi thought about it and analyzed: "A large part of the reason is that Xiaoxiao stayed at home for a long time and had a gap with Yangyang, who had been working hard for her career. Once the distance was widened, the differences naturally followed."
"You can't take care of that much." Xue Xin said in a muffled voice: "It's not that easy to be a strong woman. My second sister-in-law is gentle and cares about her family, and is not suitable for doing business. My second brother is so busy. If she follows her, how many people will help you?
What should the child do? Someone must take care of the family."
"It's Xiaoxiao who didn't adjust her mentality." Chen Xinzhi's way.
Xue Xin asked again: "What should I do? I have advised her, but she was trembling and said she wanted to control all the economy of my second brother, otherwise she would not be at ease."
Chen Xinzhi frowned: "Why did Xiaoxiao become so unconfident?"
"How can I know?" Xue Xin explained: "Since they moved out, I have met her for a few times. During dinner, I would go to chat for a few words and I didn't have the chance to talk in depth. I asked me to do it.
He said, after moving out, can't she hold on to everything herself?”
"Not very good." Chen Xinzhi explained: "Yangyang said that it was quite difficult to move out. Maybe it was because of many reasons that made Xiaoxiao even less confident."
"Really?" Xue Xin asked in confusion: "What did my second brother say?"
Chen Xinzhi nodded: "Xiaoxiao said she wanted to be independent, but she couldn't handle both her economic strength and actual ability. Yangyang happened to be in a low period during that period, and the pressure was very high, and she even asked Ranran to borrow money many times."
"So miserable?" Xue Xin couldn't help but sigh: "It seems that their problems were not caused overnight."
Chen Xinzhi reminded: "It can explode and let everyone know, and prove that there are traces to follow. Remember, there are no accidents without any reason."
"Stop talking." Xue Xin asked: "Is there any solution? It's been a long time since I talked about it, but you're going to have a solution!"
Chen Xinzhi shook his head blankly: "I don't know. I have no good idea."
Forehead?
Xue Xin rolled his eyes and said, "Even if my second brother coaxed her back, the problem will still not be solved! If the problem is not properly resolved, there will be conflicts again sooner or later."
Chen Xinzhi thought for a while and said, "Then you don't have to worry too much. When she goes back, please persuade her."
Any problems that cannot be solved will be left to powerful elders to solve.
Xue Xin habitually hides behind her parents and brothers. When she encounters difficult problems, she also seeks help from her parents when she is instinctively.
"Yes! Let my mother go and persuade my second sister-in-law. I can't do it. I heard her talk last night, which made my head hurt. Not to mention helping me, I can't even help me."
Chen Xinzhi rubbed her hair and said, "You have not recovered yet and your mental state is not bad. No wonder you."
Xue Xin snuggled into his arms and yawned a little.
"Actually, I think my second sister-in-law is really... a waste of time. The people in our family don't have that kind of romantic gene. From grandparents to small Shuang Xiaozhu, they are all infatuated. Not to mention that they don't have one, even
Those who marry are all good quality, and they will not have any colorful things."
Chen Xinzhi laughed softly: "This is reasonable."
Not to mention anything else, he is quite confident in himself.
As for the others, he believes that everyone is calm and self-sustaining, especially in terms of relationships, he knows more restraint and sensibility, and does not have to worry about being afraid of others.
This is a very important role for father-in-law and mother-in-law. The home they built with trust and love allows their children to understand the importance of trust.
After a while, Chen Xinzhi brought the fetal pills.
"It's a bit hot, just blow it and drink it."
Xue Xin frowned: "Have it a little, don't worry for a while."
Suddenly, Chen Xinzhi remembered the message Zheng Duoduo sent.
"Duoduo said they are a little busy recently and will come to see you when they have time on the weekend."
Xue Xin couldn't help asking: "How is Xiao Meng doing now? Is it still a nanny who helps with him?"
"Yes." Chen Xinzhi explained: "The original nanny helped me take care of it. Since Xiao Tong went to work in the group, there have been a lot of work at home. The two of them were busy at the beginning, and they were only a little accustomed to it recently."
Xue Xin felt distressed and sighed: "In the past, my mother helped them take care of their family... Now it's up to them."
"There are cameras everywhere at home." Chen Xinzhi said: "They don't have to worry about not being able to monitor the nanny and the child. But Xiao Tong was trembling, afraid that in the corner where they couldn't see, the child would be abused by the nanny. After Duoduo said that, he could only take one step.
One step is enough to take care of that much.”
Both of them have to work, and they are very busy leaders. They go out early and come back late every day, and they don’t care about their youngest son at all.
Xiao Tong said that when the two went out in the morning, their son was still sleeping. When they came back from get off work, the child was probably already asleep.
It's okay when I don't work overtime, I can play with my children and watch TV at night. If I need to work overtime, I can only see my sleeping son when I get home at night.
Xue Xin was frightened and timid when she heard it: "I often see people exposing videos of nanny abuse on the Internet... It's a terrible sight."
"Don't scare Xiao Tong." Chen Xinzhi smiled bitterly: "She is already scared. If you threaten her again, maybe she will collapse."
Xue Xin asked curiously: "Why? She has to go to work?"
"Yes." Chen Xinzhi reminded: "You should still have an impression of her work before... she can't stay at home for too long and she really needs to go to work."
Xue Xin couldn't help feeling sorry for Xiao Tong and whispered: "Sister Xiao Tong is not easy. Now I see her, it seems that I see my future self."
Being a mother is really not easy!
If you care about your children without any mistakes, you can only give up your career. When your children grow up, your career may have been missed. Don’t give up, and you are worried that your children will not take good care of them or even be abused, which will affect your physical and mental health.
"Don't be afraid." Chen Xinzhi said: "Our children are different. We have a lot of people to help take care of them. With our own family members, the nanny or nanny will not dare to do anything randomly."
Xue Xin covered her lower abdomen and whispered in aggrievedly: "It's far from my life, but I've seen the endless worry and despair."