Xue Ling felt it made sense and agreed: "Okay, I'll mention it to Duoduo in the future. It's not difficult to find a nutritionist, so I won't ask A Qing to introduce it."
"That's fine." Cheng Tianyuan said: "Aqing is busy with all kinds of things every day and is so busy every day. It's really hard to bother him."
Xue Ling doesn't think so: "He is also our child. Sometimes don't be too polite to him, he will feel a sense of belonging in our family. However, the same principle as other children, you can't rely on them in everything. Even biological parents
There must be a certain boundary line.”
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "Fortunately we can do it, so we don't have to rely on them for everything."
"But they have to help more." Xue Ling reminded: "When we are old, we will belong to this family sooner or later. We won't let them take on it. How can they know how to manage this family in the future?"
Cheng Tianyuan also agreed with the proposal and said: "It should be."
At this moment, a knock sounded outside the door!
Xue Ling stood up and opened the door.
Chen Xinzhi came with Xue Xin, and a big box was twisted in his hand.
"Mom, this is a little supplement for you, remember to bring it with you."
Xue Ling smiled and replied: "Then I'm not polite. However, Xinyuan has a good meal and drink, so you can't spend money to buy it later."
"I understand." Chen Xinzhi answered well.
Xue Xin pouted and said, "It's up to you to buy everything. Our family doesn't produce supplements and medicines. It's not that you and my dad bought it with money, otherwise there are so many. You buy it as well, and he buys it as well.
If you buy it, you can’t let him buy it?"
"Yes." Xue Ling replied: "So we'll buy it after we finish eating, no hurry."
Xue Xin gently stroked her bulging belly and laughed happily.
"Mom, have you noticed that he has grown very fast recently?"
"Yes." Xue Ling chuckled: "It's time to grow up. When the last month or two is the fastest, it will be the fastest, and it will be half a pound in just over ten days."
Xue Xin raised her eyebrows in surprise: "Really and false? You won't lie to me, right? It's too exaggerated!"
"What do you do?" Xue Ling explained: "When I was pregnant with you and your third brother, I was so old that I could only stay in the hospital."
Xue Xin has never been a mother before and has never experienced the pain of ten months of pregnancy, so it is difficult to understand what kind of discomfort it is.
Now she has embarked on the road to becoming a mother and found that she has worked so hard to get pregnant with one. It is hard to imagine how hard it took for her mother to give birth to the brother and sister safely back then.
The more this happens, the more you can understand the difficulty of your parents, especially your mother who has been working to make money after getting pregnant.
"Mom~~" Xue Xin acted coquettishly: "After the second sister-in-law and brother reconciled, you will return a few small radish heads to them, and then come back to accompany me to give birth. Do you know?"
Xue Ling nodded: "I understand. This is your first child. You have always been pretentious, so you naturally have to accompany you more. In addition, your grandparents and the others are here, so I dare not leave for too long."
"Hehe!" Xue Xin murmured happily: "Then you will be back next month! It's almost winter in the imperial capital, so it's better to come back early, so you won't have to get cold there."
Xue Ling signaled them to go into the house and sit down.
As soon as Chen Xinzhi sat down, he talked about what Xue Ling was worried about just now.
"Duoduo contacted me in the middle of the night last night and said that my nephew's condition was not very good. The doctor suggested that they should spend more time with their children, and the children may have some psychological disorders."
What?!
Xue Ling was startled and asked, "There are still psychological disorders? Didn't it mean that it was allergic to be physically ill? Why did you look more and more serious when you listen to it!"
Cheng Tianyuan also felt it was quite serious and hurried over.
"Duoduo said? What else did he say?"
Chen Xinzhijun's face was calm and frowned and explained: "The medical system in the imperial capital was very tense due to the epidemic. The little guy went to the hospital from time to time, but the effect was not very good, and he was tired and troubled. The doctor said that the child might have been a grandma when he was a child.
The grandma was raised suddenly gone... He couldn't find a familiar person in a familiar environment, but he couldn't express sadness and longing, so he became more and more silent. Gradually, he seemed to have some psychological disorders."
Xue Ling hurriedly said, "Then you should find a psychologist to help you, your parents should accompany them more!"
Chen Xinzhi explained: "Xiao Tong still insists on going to work and only spends weekends with the little guy. Duoduo plans to take a long vacation and bring the little guy here to stay for ten and half a month. Duoduo has to drive the work at hand in the past few days and strive for it.
Come here soon. He also said that he misses his grandfather very much and wants to spend more time with him."
Cheng Tianyuan and Xue Ling looked at each other and guessed some of them.
"Your grandfather has always loved Duoduo the most. Duoduo grew up under his care. He would secretly tell his grandfather if he had any grievances or discomforts. It was probably because the little guy's affairs were quite serious this time, Duoduo was under too much pressure, so he wanted to go
Come here.”
Chen Xinzhi frowned and said, "This is their first child, and it is natural for him to have no experience in raising children. In the past, my mother helped them take care of the children, but she suddenly disappeared...the two of them were a little overwhelmed."
"Yes!" Xue Xin explained: "Before, Xiao Tong's parents helped me take care of him in Rongcheng. Unfortunately, there was no heating there in winter, so the little guy caught a cold several times. Later, he returned to the imperial capital, most of the time,
I can only rely on nanny. But nanny is unreliable. I have changed a few of them one after another, almost one a month, and even some people have been fired in less than two weeks."
"The nanny is a nanny." Xue Ling said: "How can I compare with my grandmother? Sister Achun is careful and considerate, gentle, hardworking, and loves children. Where can I find a nanny who can be similar to her? It's impossible!
”
Xue Xin nodded in agreement: "Because of this, Miss Tong is not very satisfied with the nanny. This one doesn't work, that one doesn't work, so she changed it again and again. The little nephew is still young and always takes care of others around him, which is not good for him.
. Finally got to know an aunt, but turned around and changed another one. I have never raised a child, but I also know that this is definitely not possible."
Chen Xinzhi was not good at commenting on his sister-in-law's approach and said, "I told Duoduo that my mother is about to take a few children back. Even if my nephew comes here, there are no playmates here. I suggest that he should not be anxious, and he can take the children to Aqing quietly.
I’m looking for you in the suburbs. Maybe the children are just too short of playmates and children.”
"Yes." Xue Ling said: "We have never been out and we have no health problems. The plane is also our own plane. Fly over and go directly to the other courtyard. There is no need to worry about the epidemic."
"They are worried about it." Xue Xin reminded: "Recently, more than a dozen cases have appeared in the imperial capital. Mom, you have to remind Duoduo to wear a mask at that time."
Cheng Tianyuan thought for a while and said, "As long as the child has something to play and if there are children playing together, they will soon be happy. There is no need to worry about the psychological aspects."