"Negotiation in advance?" Zheng Duoduo asked helplessly: "How to negotiate? After the child is born, he will be thrown to my mother. She is very career-oriented, and I dare not speak up with her to negotiate with her not to work."
Cheng Huanran was a little embarrassed and coughed: "Some men instinctively think that raising children is the responsibility of their mothers. Correspondingly, they think that women should quit their jobs and take care of their children and their families."
"Isn't it?" Zheng Duoduo couldn't help but ask: "This society is a patriarchal society. Men make money to support their families, while women take care of their families. Hundreds - no, it has been like this for thousands of years. I don't agree with her going.
Work is to hope that she will take care of her children, be healthy, and then pursue her career. I am not the kind of pedantic man, and I think women can only stay at home to take care of their husbands and children. I don’t dare to think so at all. Correspondingly,
, I support her work very much."
Cheng Huanran touched his nose and whispered: "You may not be able to bear it if you have such an idea."
"She always thinks that I look down on her and look down on her." Zheng Duoduo frowned and said, "I don't know where she found her! It's so weird! Why should I marry a woman I look down on? I'm not
Masculinist!”
Cheng Huanran thought about it and said, "Maybe Xiao Tong's idea is a bit too extreme."
"It's more than just being too extreme!" Zheng Duoduo snorted coldly: "It's like crazy! I asked her to resign for the time being to take care of the child, and she almost collapsed, saying that job and career are crucial to her. Why? The child is not important?
Family is not important? I don’t understand occasionally. My family is not a poor family. If you live in a big house and drive a luxury car, you don’t have to work hard to support your family. Is that true?”
"Your incomprehension makes her think you look down on her?" Xue Ling asked.
Zheng Duoduo nodded: "Yes! She thinks that I am denying her ability and future, and she doesn't understand and respect her at all."
Cheng Huanran and Xue Ling looked at each other, and they felt that this problem was very terrifying.
Zheng Duoduo got angry and said angrily: "I don't know what she was thinking! When a family encounters problems, it's not about solving them together. I just proposed to ask her to resign, and she immediately looked like she went crazy. I was just discussing it.
, It's not - could I let me quit? How many times what I earned was her? Has she calculated? Letting her quit is disrespectful and understand her! Then what about my quit? I'm the greatest understanding of her? If I quit
, Can I scold her for not understanding and respecting me? Is there a different reason? Why doesn’t she put herself in her shoes?"
Xue Ling said helplessly: "If we can put ourselves in our shoes and think about each other, why did we fall to this point?"
Zheng Duoduo widened his eyes: "No - why didn't I think about her? If I didn't think about her, I would have disagreed with her work long ago."
"Not enough." Cheng Huanran explained: "Maybe it was because he didn't think enough, so Xiao Tong was angry with you."
Zheng Duoduo snorted coldly: "I'm still angry with her!"
"What then?" Xue Ling asked back: "Has the problem been solved? You anger her, she angers you, complains to each other, and then all kinds of internal friction - has the child recovered? Hum?"
Zheng Duoduo lowered his eyes and couldn't find any words to answer.
Cheng Huanran couldn't help but comfort him: "It's all just annoying. When you quarrel and lose your temper, you're just angry words and you can't count them."
"She said she wanted to divorce and the child belonged to me." Zheng Duoduo said angrily: "If she wants to divorce, follow her! I am not afraid at all! The child belonged to me, that would be great! I don't believe that I can't take good care of the child.
!Since she thinks that my child and I are her burden, then she can do whatever she wants! She goes wherever she falls in love, and if she loves, she will leave, and if she leaves, she will work hard to make her career!"
"What are you talking about angry?" Cheng Huanran glared at him and said, "Don't be angry when you are angry! You can't take good care of Xiao Zheng when you are two of you. You are the only one left, but you can
Can you take care of it? Can you still be at ease? Then why did you change to working from home? Ah?"
Zheng Duoduo was speechless and couldn't answer at all.
Cheng Huanran explained: "If my mother and the others are in China, they will help you occasionally, or they will leave the children here for a few days, it will be fine. But my grandparents can't come back, and my mother and my father can only focus on it.
If you are abroad, you can't live in Xinyuan for a long time. Even if you have a nanny, you can't feel completely relieved, right? Don't be stubborn with impulse! Don't say that in the future, you will regret it when you turn around!"
Zheng Duoduo leaned on the chair like tiredness, closing his eyes tired.
"Sister Ling, I miss my uncle very much recently... I really miss him. When will you come back?"
Xue Ling glanced at him and explained: "If the epidemic does not disappear, it is most likely that you will never come back. If you suffer a grievance since you were young, you will love to look for my father. Even if you are a father now, you still can't change this habit."
Zheng Duoduo begged to look at Xue Ling and whispered: "Sister Ling, don't let me retreat, can you?"
"No one asked you to retreat." Xue Ling shook his head: "It's just that the health of children is more important now, and we must take good care of the children first."
She never had such an idea, she hadn't before, nor now. Just now, Ranran suddenly mentioned it, frightened this workaholic!
Zheng Duoduo breathed a sigh of relief and explained: "I have contacted a very famous psychologist, but unfortunately she has completed her appointment in the past half month. I still made an appointment for three weeks and planned to take Xiaoxin to see him.
Take a look.”
Cheng Huanran thought about it and reminded: "According to what you said just now, I also think that children should have psychological problems, not physical problems. However, these are just our guesses, so I should take a look at a regular and professional psychologist."
"He is still so young..." Xue Ling was a little disbelief: "Can it be that Sister Achun suddenly disappeared, the child can't accept it... Or maybe you don't care enough for him?"
Zheng Duoduo lowered his head guiltily and sighed: "It should be all. In short, after returning to the imperial capital from Rongcheng, he began to be less active and did not like to talk much. We basically took turns to play with him on weekends."
"The child has no playmates, right?" Xue Ling frowned and asked, "The villa area you live in has just been developed for a while, so there shouldn't be many residents. Is it because you don't have playmates?"
Originally they lived near Xinyuan, but the Siheyuan they bought was Xinzhi who helped to pay for some money.
Unexpectedly, Xiao Tong went to work too far, so he moved to the newly developed villa property in the suburbs.
As far as Xue Ling knows, most of the buyers of that property are investors, and there should not be so many residents in the short term.
Last year, she also heard from Sister Achun that the community is new, but it is empty everywhere, with very few neighbors and little popularity inside and outside.