Xue Ling shook her head: "I have never been fooled, nor have I paid such unjust money."
Cheng Huanran laughed out loud: "Mom, we didn't have these things when we were young!"
"It only appeared in the past decade." Xue Heng said angrily: "Your children are old, so naturally you don't have to be bombed! Xiao Han's grades were not good before, so I took turns to various tutoring classes and tutoring classes.
Pick up and drop off. Every time I hear this kind of advertisement, I can’t help but sweat and nervously.”
Xue Ling asked with a hilarious question: "Is it that exaggerated?"
"That's right!" Xue Heng explained: "Xiao Han scored more than ten points at that time, and the best subjects were at most passed. The teacher always said that the child would make up for it, otherwise he would not be able to keep up with the class.
The collective hindrance is not good. Just imagine, your child is already poor enough, and some people still whisper in your ears from time to time - children cannot lose at the starting line; your child has already lost, others are making progress during the summer vacation, your child
If you don’t advance, you will retreat—How can you not be nervous?”
Xue Ling shook her head: "I'm okay, not nervous."
"That's because you didn't bother you!" Xue Heng made a conclusion: "I can't do it!"
Cheng Huanran stopped: "The main reason is that the domestic educational philosophy has been too simple in recent years, and there is no other reason. In addition, my mother is the kind of "do whatever you like" and will not do anything else, but
The concept of high school reading was imposed on the child's mother. Yangyang used to study very ordinary, and said he wanted to go to a sports school to go to swimming and study, and my mother agreed. The third child wanted to draw, and my mother also supported her. Her correct philosophy determined her goodness.
Mindset.”
"It's different!" Xue Heng smiled bitterly: "I only have Xiaohan, one daughter, and your mother has four. Even if half of them are very good at studying, the quantity and quality are enough to make her calm mind."
Cheng Huanran thought about it and nodded in agreement.
"That's right. After all, if you only have one, all hope and sustenance will naturally rest on that child. If she or he is not outstanding, she will definitely be anxious or worried."
Xue Heng nodded: "That's the reason! I have been tortured for several years, until I found out that she is really not a good student. Psychologically... I also have some minor problems, so I had to endure it. As long as she is physically
If you are healthy, both physically and mentally healthy, it doesn’t matter what else. Anyway, as long as she can grow up safely, I have to see everything else.”
"What else can you do if you don't look at it?" Xue Ling laughed and asked back: "It's not like this for other parents? Otherwise, they would have been forced to death by themselves long ago?"
Xue Heng glanced at her and snorted coldly: "Stop talking sarcastic! Your grandchildren are also growing up. If they can't study, I'll see if you will be anxious if you see it!"
"Take it down." Xue Ling leaned on the chair leisurely, "My own children don't want to worry about these things, let alone grandchildren. Their parents love chickens and children, and they worry about them themselves. I can help take care of grandchildren, but
I won't take all the benefits in all aspects."
Xue Heng asked incredulously: "What if they are not academic masters? Are you not worried that each generation is worse than the next? Isn't you really not anxious?"
"How can one keep one generation stronger than another?" Xue Ling asked back: "Do you think it's possible? If this is true, how did the saying "wealth is not rich for three generations" come from? Ancient emperors could gather the best educational resources in the country and
Talents teach their children and grandchildren. But what emperor's dynasty can last forever? Which one? A lot of dynasties and emperors at home and abroad - which one has been declining for thousands of years? Hum?"
Xue Heng didn't have to think about it, he could only shake his head.
"Then—that's definitely not! But if you have the chance, you will give up teaching your grandchildren? Can you teach your children so successfully, and don't want to teach them together? Impossible?
Haven't thought about it? I really haven't thought about it?"
"No." Xue Ling explained: "Do your best, don't force too much. There is a saying that I have told you hundreds of times. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. We can be responsible for our sons and daughters, but where can we be responsible for our descendants and grandchildren.
Generation after generation! People still have to know themselves. No matter how great their abilities are, no matter how great their abilities are, they are not as great as others. Remember, there are people outside of others, and there is heaven beyond heaven. Do your best, set your mindset, be kind to yourself, and be with the people around you
OK."
Xue Heng was convinced and hugged his fists.
"I hope that on the day I will be able to have a good attitude like you."
Xue Ling joked: "Do you think you can? Maybe your grandson is very smart and talented, and you can't help but not be a child? Some genes are inherited from generation to generation, especially excellent genes."
"No!" Xue Heng was amused and crying: "Don't harm me! I have finally adjusted my mentality and tempt me less!"
Cheng Huanran laughed: "Uncle Heng was scared! Why? Don't you hope that the next generation will be better in the future? My mother is not painting you a big pie - genetics from generation to generation are also very powerful, maybe Xiaohan
The descendants will be very, very good.”
"I can't control it, but I can't control it." Xue Heng surrendered quickly: "I can't even control my daughter, let alone grandson. I have figured it out. If the child is outstanding, he will be excellent without worrying about him. If he is ordinary, he will be excellent.
, that doesn’t have to be too forced. What should be taught and what should be learned, as for what will happen in the future, let it be left to fate."
"Then what else do you ask me!" Xue Ling smiled and scolded: "I thought it through clearly, but I have the nerve to fool me!"
"No, no, no." Xue Heng laughed: "Just chat! Just chat!"
At this time, another little baby came!
She has a thin body, small arms, small hands and calves, which are obviously smaller than other babies.
Zheng Xin swallowed and shouted, "Auntie, I want - I want to drink water! I'm hungry."
Xue Ling took out a tissue and gently wiped his sweat.
Then she handed him a glass of water.
The little guy finished drinking in one breath and turned his big eyes.
"I'm still hungry-I want to have snacks!"
Xue Ling chuckled and looked at the time.
"There is still half an hour before we eat snacks. You can play with your sisters and brothers first. When the time comes and the snacks are ready, I will call you to eat them. The snacks are still in the baking box and cannot be eaten yet."
The little guy blinked his eyes a few times and whispered: "I...I really want to eat. Auntie, I...I didn't lie to you."
Xue Heng rubbed the little guy's head and smiled and said, "Look at this little guy, it's pitiful! Otherwise, find some to cushion his belly first."
Xue Ling looked at his eldest son and reminded: "You go to the big kitchen to see if there are any pastries or pancakes. If not, go to my room to get some biscuits. How many cookies are baked by the master yesterday?
I put it in the plate.”
Cheng Huanran smiled and glanced at the little guy, and stood up: "Okay, I'll go right now!"
Xue Ling pushed the little guy and suggested: "You go and play first, I'll call you to come and eat together later."
Xiao Zheng Xin ran away.
Xue Heng couldn't help asking: "Why didn't you see his mother coming? The couple had a quarrel?"
Zheng Duoduo lived in with his son. He had been in for several days, but he still couldn't see Xiao Tong.
Either they go on a business trip or a long trip, or the couple quarreled, otherwise there would be other reasons that they wouldn't think of.