Cheng Huanran put down his wine glass, picked up chopsticks and picked up a piece of sashimi.
"Uncle Heng, no matter how you say it, you are a person who has experienced it. Otherwise, you can help him with two tricks."
"Take it down!" Xue Heng laughed: "I am a loser in marriage, what good tricks can I give him. Nowadays, young people are very willful. If they can survive, they will live, and if they can't live, they will leave directly. Otherwise, they will live.
Why is the divorce rate so high now?”
Zheng Duoduo hehe, laughed and whispered awkwardly: "I... haven't left yet? I want to be willful, but I don't have the conditions to be willful!"
"Wrong." Xue Heng sneered: "You are in great condition! Your net worth alone is enough to make you more willful than most people."
Zheng Duoduo smiled aggrievedly, "Brother Heng, are you praising me? Or are you hurting me?"
"Praise!" Xue Heng said whisperingly: "Ordinary people get divorced, they go their separate ways. But you are different! If you divorce, your courage must be dozens of times or even thousands of times that of ordinary people.
It's not an exaggeration. Ordinary people can only have a house or an ordinary scooter as assets. If they divorce and separate their property, they can be at most one million. You are different! No matter how you say you have a net worth of billions. Divorce
It means half of it - how much courage is it? Is it? It's not comparable! It's not comparable!"
Zheng Duoduo: "..."
Well, I was almost cursed by pointing it at the head.
Cheng Huanran worked hard to hold back his laughter and did not dare to laugh out loud. He hurriedly used a big wine glass to block his handsome face.
Zheng Duoduo gave Xue Heng a desperate expression, and was powerless: "Brother Heng, I was wrong. I was wrong, right?"
"Haha!" Xue Heng laughed and reached out to pat his arm, "Brother! Your intelligence and high emotional intelligence are even better than your father, why can't your father learn any tolerance?
”
Zheng Duoduo touched his nose and whispered: "Maybe my dad left too early. He hadn't had time to teach me."
"Sister Achun is also a very patient and strong person." Xue Heng said: "Look at him. He is still your younger brother, not your older brother. He is as outstanding as you, and he is also a very energetic age. But his ability to endure is
More than a few points are better than you!"
Zheng Duoduo did not deny it, but instead nodded in convincingly.
"I really can't compare to him in this regard."
Xue Heng narrowed his eyes and sighed: "I don't have much contact with your father, but at that time he had a very good relationship with Uncle Xue Wu. He often played chess and chatted together, so I could meet him from time to time. Ling Ling and
Your dad has a very good relationship and has worked happily for many years. When your dad was developed, Ling Ling had just started, but as he walked, your dad was more than a big step behind her - the main reason was your mother
It turns out that you are too young at that time, and you may not understand many things at home. Let me ask first - do you know how many years your dad has endured it before he divorced?"
"Uh..." Zheng Duoduo shook his head in a daze: "It seems... it's been several years."
"It is said that it is not only." Xue Heng said confidently: "I heard from your father that, as early as Xiaoyi was born, your mother would go to gambling home from time to time. You are the youngest and are much younger than your brothers and sisters, so you have many things.
I didn't know. Ling Ling said that your mother could not go home for ten days and a half months, and even played mahjong outside for several months. While taking you to live in the factory, your father was taking care of the business and filling in the money he earned
Your biological mother's bottomless pit. Your dad has had countless fights with her, and she always said she could quit, but unfortunately she never succeeded. Until you were in your teens, everything about your dad was emptied and the factory was in debt.
I was not good at health, so I finally had to decide to divorce.”
Zheng Duoduo's eyes were dark and he murmured: "I... remember most things. When they divorced, I was about seven or eight years old."
Xue Heng nodded: "If it wasn't forcing me, if it wasn't really necessary, your father wouldn't have divorced. The seniors all valued their family very much. Your father felt sorry for your siblings and sisters, and he kept persuading your mother to turn back.
He endured not to divorce, but also for the sake of your family's success and for your healthy growth. It was not until later that he had no choice but to endure the pain and resolve to divorce."
"I've forgotten her long ago..." Zheng Duoduo murmured: "I only have Achun's mother."
Xue Heng patted his shoulder: "Imagine, your mother Achun would agree to divorce you casually? Divorce when you encounter a disagreement? Think again, your father was seriously ill at that time and still had a lot of money.
If you have to divorce if you have debts, is it difficult for you to compare with him, or is it difficult for you?"
Zheng Duoduo couldn't answer at all and stammered: "...The situation is different."
"Of course it's different." Xue Heng said: "You are much easier than your father, you have more wealth and less burden!"
Zheng Duoduo: "..."
Xue Heng took a big sip of wine and licked the corner of his mouth.
"Brother, don't think your dad is divorced. If I divorce, you think there are quite a few people who divorced. There are not many people who divorced in our era, and there are very few. In fact, among the people who divorced - nine out of ten
I regret it. Even if no one investigates this data, I am sure it is this number! I am also one of the people who regret it.”
Zheng Duoduo looked at him in disbelief and didn't dare to ask anything.
Xue Heng sighed softly and said earnestly: "Brother, only when you are young and ignorant will you feel that people are living just to fight for a breath. When the burden of life hits your shoulders, you will feel that those words are nonsense.
Only super selfish people think that I live my own life well. You can be selfish, but you have to think about your child. He is still so young and doesn’t understand what a warm atmosphere in the family is.
The family broke up - how innocent he was! If I had guessed that Xiaohan would have such a serious psychological problem due to family division... I would have regretted it later."
Then, he put his hand on Zheng Duoduo's shoulder and squeezed it hard.
"Brother, I have nothing to ask you for help. The only thing I can share is the little thoughts of me, a person who has experienced it. Don't be impulsive. If you can be more forbearing, you will be more forbearing. Don't regret it in the future because of a momentary intent.
When people live, you can’t be too willful, and you can’t just care about yourself and not be frustrated - unless you are alone, you can’t care. But you are not!"
After speaking, he waved his hand.
"I don't drink anymore, I'm a little drunk. Good night, brothers!"
Then, he walked away without looking back.
Cheng Huanran's eyes rolled and he put down his wine glass.
"That-I'm a little drunk too. Duodogo, I've gone to take a shower and go to bed, good night."
Zheng Duoduo buried his head and said "yes".
In a blink of an eye, the surroundings became quiet, and he was the only one sitting in the corner of the empty hall.