Xue Ling laughed and said, "Your mother is not wrong. Under the influence of the concept of material and money first, it is actually very difficult and difficult for those young people who want to find a real love to live a marriage."
"My mother said the same." Wang Xiaoxiao smiled bitterly: "Luoluo's academic performance is average, her unit is average, and her appearance is barely OK. She has a house and the car she provides is about to expire, so she has a house and a car.
The conditions are average, but she only requires one, and she must be the person she likes. There is only one condition, and I didn’t expect it would be so difficult!”
Xue Ling smiled and said, "You are lucky than Luoluo and find your beloved earlier than her. In fact, the other half you found during your study period is probably the purest relationship. Instead, you have stepped out of society and entered the marriage market. I want to
It is becoming more and more difficult to find true love to get married.”
"Yes!" Wang Xiaoxiao explained: "She used to be very well-behaved. When she was studying, there were boys chasing her, but she refused them all. She always felt that she had to study hard when she was studying, and that love and marriage could only be arranged in the back.
. Moreover, most people have never had a successful relationship during school. She saw it and was so scared that she dared not talk about it.”
Xue Ling was embarrassed to comment too much and said lightly: "Analysis of the specific situation. If Luo Luo wants to find a suitable one in the blind date market, then he has to follow the market rules."
"It's too difficult!" Wang Xiaoxiao smiled bitterly: "There are slightly better people, and they have various requirements. They dislike Luo Luo's age and are worried that they will not be able to take out children in the future. Forty years old, they want to find someone in their thirties.
I want to look for young men in my twenties, but I look down on my sister like me."
Xue Ling chuckled: "To put it bluntly, who doesn't love young people? Have you ever heard of it - no matter which age a man, he only loves eighteen-year-old girls."
"Haha!" Wang Xiaoxiao nodded: "I've heard it! It's too realistic and cruel! Who has never been younger and who has not been eighteen years old, right? My sister is no longer anxious now, and she says she can't find her if she can't find her
Then she will be single for the rest of her life. She would rather have nothing than get married for the sake of getting married.”
Xue Ling raised his eyebrows: "Really? Do your parents support me?"
"Of course I don't support it!" Wang Xiaoxiao shook her head: "They said, let her look for it slowly, and sooner or later, I will find it. My sister said that many of her classmates and colleagues around her had to find one because they were about to get married.
Men with similar conditions get married. Most of the people who get married because of marriage end up divorced because of trivialities in their families. My sister is annoyed and thinks that it is better not to get married early in the morning than to end the divorce in the future."
Xue Ling thought for a while and said, "That won't be. Marriage, like a person who knows the temperature and heat of water. The key is still to depend on the individual."
"Maybe there are too many people who divorce now, which is too common among younger generations." Wang Xiaoxiao said: "There are different reasons. In addition, there are too many people who betray marriages now, which makes many people start to get along with each other.
Distrust your marriage also discourages those who are not married yet."
"Yes." Xue Ling also agreed with this and said: "The main reason is that information communication is too convenient now and information is open. If you throw it on the Internet, people all over the world can see it. Click on your phone to see it, click on it.
I also saw it on the web page, which formed a kind of intuition - it seems that there are too many such examples. In fact, most people are just ordinary people, living a life of working and working, supporting their families, and not having too many
The bloody or weird life.”
Wang Xiaoxiao disagreed: "It must be more than before!"
"It should be." Xue Ling did not deny this point, "The new generation prefers egoism and advocates refined egoism. They pay more attention to themselves. Anyway, I live a good life, nothing else matters. In the past, the older generation had nothing to do with it.
Ideas like 'yes, 'lying flat'. They are very responsible, not only responsible for their careers, but also responsible for their lives and families, but also hope to be a useful person to society and also responsible for our society.
Of course, I say it’s a high probability, not everyone is like this. There are scumbags in every era, and there are scumbags at any time. This is determined by human nature.”
"Yes, yes." Wang Xiaoxiao shook her head: "It seems like this is all. There are still a lot of strange spiritual chicken soup on the Internet now - as long as I live well, it doesn't matter if I ruin the world, what would I rather let the world down?
Don’t let the world let me down. In short, the young people’s ideas are getting more and more self-centered.”
"Haha!" Xue Ling smiled and sighed: "It's ruined the world, where did the 'me' come from? The world is gone, how can there be eggs under the collapse of the nest? How can I live well?
Well? There are billions of people in the world who can lose one by one? How many people on the street know you if you are bored? Haha! How can it be so funny!"
Wang Xiaoxiao pursed her lips and laughed.
Xue Ling patted her arm and said warmly: "Just listen. Nowadays, those short videos, poisonous chicken soup, live broadcasts, you can spare no expense for traffic, and make all kinds of gimmicks or blood to attract attention, and there is no
Lower limit. Once there is a topic, various media follow the trend, each sticking to their own opinions and saying something, just to get the first wave of traffic faster. After all, interests are still at the forefront of the problem.”
"Oh..." Wang Xiaoxiao couldn't help but sigh: "It's so terrifying! I feel like everything is controlled by interests."
"It's all like this." Xue Ling smiled: "This is the truth at any time and anywhere, but it's just that you can see through it and see through the truth that you can't tell it."
Wang Xiaoxiao covered the stewing pot and said, "Thank you, mom, I'm done."
"Yeah." Xue Ling reminded softly: "When I returned to Xinyuan, remember to tell Xiao Li that she would stew you twice a week to warm your stomach fish glue. Will your stomach problems still occur?"
"It's rare." Wang Xiaoxiao explained: "I participated in training when I was very young and grew up eating in big stalls in various canteens and stalls. Later, I arrived at the national team and the food became better, but I got used to eating hot and cold food.
, It's a stomach disease unknowingly. Fortunately, it's not serious, so it's okay not to eat too raw and cold. Over the years, you've been very cured by taking supplements for me to keep healthy and nourishing your stomach from time to time."
"You have to continue to take care of it." Xue Ling reminded: "Stomach diseases mainly rely on care of themselves and self-discipline. You are still young, and your body is the capital of life, so you must not be careless."
Wang Xiaoxiao smiled and said, "I understand, thank you mom."
At this time, Xue Ling's cell phone rang!
She took it out and glanced at it - it turned out to be Xiao Tong!
Wang Xiaoxiao picked up the stewing pot and said, "Mom, I'll just send it to the kitchen, you're busy with yours."
"Okay." Xue Ling smiled and nodded, and swiped across the screen to answer.