After a while, Wang Qing, who was "to die and live", lost her youthful ignorance, now she has more mature and peacefulness.
"When I was a child, my mother wanted my brother to study, not me. The family was so poor that they could not go to school at the same time. My mother almost considered my brother without hesitation.
My brother refused to study, and my mother could answer all the questions when she saw me studying my brother's books. She also saw that I was obsessed with reading, so she finally agreed to give me this opportunity."
"Later, I had a unit and a newspaper office, and I also published several collections of poems. At that time, my mother was very pleased and told me repeatedly every day that I must repay my kindness and repay this family.
She took care of all the money, and her family's life gradually improved, the house began to be renovated, and the food at home improved."
"My mother loves me very much, but what she loves the most is my brother. Even though my brother is naughty and likes to make trouble, she said that my brother is the hope of our family's future, and the incense of our family's future depends on my brother to pass on it. So I have to help
My brother got married because I had a stable job and was not afraid of bad life in the future.”
"My mother dislikes Liu Xingqian, which is a fact. Later, she didn't spend any of the betrothal gifts given by Liu Xing, and she married my sister-in-law to my brother. I also asked my mother to use the money I made before to renovate the house.
When I got married, my mother told me that my parents' family would have nothing to do with me in the future. Don't go back to eat often, so as not to annoy my sister-in-law."
"She said that the water thrown by a married daughter always goes back to her parents' home for dinner or something. Her sister-in-law will definitely be unhappy because you always take advantage of her parents' home. So, if I marry my sister-in-law at home, how dare I go back.
Ling Ling, I don’t know why, and I don’t know if you feel this way. After this woman gets married, she looks like Zhu Bajie looks in the mirror, and she is not a human inside and outside."
Xue Ling was stunned and whispered: "I understand your idea... However, my in-laws treat me well, which quickly made me feel like home."
Wang Qing red eyes and choked: "After I married Liu Xing, my mother's mother thought I was half an outsider, but my mother-in-law and father-in-law were very unfamiliar. Every time they were there, they were like an elder. They came.
When I was there, I had to make tea for them. I prepared all three meals and washed dishes and chopsticks by myself. I thought these were what my wife should do. No matter how busy or tired I was, no one would feel sorry for you.
Dimensions, it’s your responsibility, you have to do it.”
Wang Qing didn't dare to cry and quickly smiled.
"I'm sorry... I shouldn't cry. I'm here to pay New Year's greetings, why would you be unhappy?"
"No, no, no." Xue Ling chuckled: "I hope you can say it. Only by saying it will you feel better. We are good friends, we know each other's situation very well, so there is no need to hide it at all, just think whatever you want
No matter what I say, it’s already the first few years, and the year has passed long ago. There is no need to pay so much attention to it, and I don’t pay attention to it.”
Wang Qing breathed a sigh of relief and smiled: "I am the most relaxed only in front of you. Ling Ling, and I dare to say anything in front of you. Usually I don't dare to speak...
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Wang Qing is a very shy and quiet girl. Even in front of her colleagues, she doesn't dare to say anything. Basically, everyone says anything. She just listens quietly, occasionally adding a few words to her own family.
She hardly talks about it. One reason is that she is shy, and the other reason is that she pays attention to privacy.
"Since I got married to him, I felt very busy. When I was at home, my mother was doing housework, and occasionally I helped. But after getting married, I was always doing three meals a day.
I do all the housework alone... I really feel very tired."
Wang Qing smiled bitterly and said, "I'm not good at making so many dishes, and I'm not fast. No one can help me, so I'm very tired. I get up early in the morning, and after cooking breakfast, Liu Xing got up to eat. After eating, he turned around.
I'll leave, I have to wash it after I finish eating, and then hurry to go to work."
"When I was at work, I could relax, write, read books, talk about manuscripts, and listen to my colleagues chatting and teasing. When I got off work in the afternoon, I started to get nervous again, and rode my bike to buy vegetables in a hurry, and occasionally I had to run a few more times.
Place. After returning home, most of the time I don’t even have time to wash my face, and I cleaned while cooking.”
"Liu Xing knows nothing, and even if I have to help with the chopsticks in my meal, I have served the rice, arranged the dishes and chopsticks, and called him to come and eat. Then he came over to eat lazily. After I finished eating, I cleaned the dishes and chopsticks and cleaned the kitchen.
, and then I have to continue to clean up. I cooked water for him to take a bath, and then took a bath by myself. After I finished washing, I went to wash my clothes and hang my clothes. It was almost nine o'clock after I finished drying."
"I will read the book for a while and go to bed at 10 o'clock, otherwise I won't get up tomorrow and will be late for work. Occasionally, I will go to the photo studio to help after get off work, and it will be dark when I rush home to cook. I will do housework too slowly. It wasn't until this winter that I could barely get faster. But... it was too late. Liu Xing began not to go home for dinner and began to have an affair with that woman. I had to pour out most of the food I cooked."
"I can't imagine how the mothers who have to go to work and take care of their children do it? How busy that is! I cook housework and three meals every day, go to the market to buy vegetables, and these are enough for me to be busy.
Dizzy.”
Xue Ling smiled and whispered: "Maybe you love cleaning too much. I, if I'm too busy, I won't clean it. I don't care. I'll go to bed first. Things will always be of severity and have to do. Then I
Just do it first. If you can keep it tomorrow and the next day, then let me tell you later. To be honest, I have almost nothing to do in housework."
"That's because you have a good lover." Wang Qing looked in the direction of the kitchen and whispered: "Your lover can do almost any work, right?"
"Yes." Xue Ling explained: "He is very diligent. He and my mother-in-law are basically buying vegetables at home. I don't have to go to the market. My mother-in-law cleans the sanitation opposite him, and he cleans the place. He works quickly and neatly, and is also very
Clean. He basically can't get idle. He has to finish his work when he sees it. He cleans dishes after dinner, and washes clothes after bathing. I told him that I can't cook, and he said he
Just come. We didn’t know clearly that the family belongs to two people and the family belongs to each other, so we naturally have to take on the things together. Why are you responsible for all your housework?"
"I..." Wang Qing lowered his eyes and whispered: "I have said to him many times and asked him to help do some... He rudely said he wouldn't."
Xue Ling said angrily: "It's all spoiled by his parents! He is an only child at home, and his parents do all the work. He will help him with anything, and even talk about divorce with you.
He asked his mother for help, so he was so weak and incompetent!"
"He never thought so." Wang Qing chuckled with regret, "He said that housework was originally the work that the woman should do."
Xue Ling couldn't help rolling his eyes and asked, "Why do you make money to support your family? He also makes money to support your family? If you want to work, he also needs to work, but all the housework is yours? Why?"
Wang Qing smiled bitterly: "That's why I said that women... are unfair."
"This is a wrong concept of men. The subconscious mind thinks that women have to do these things, and they can ignore them." Xue Ling snorted coldly: "A kind of machismoism!"